I had a once in a lifetime opportunity to explore this wonderful country through the eyes of a Dominican friend. He had been out of the country for awhile so we rented a car for a month and travelled all over the map. Since we had grown up in such distant environments I quickly discovered we often had to work hard at accommodating each other?s sense of value. As I reflected on the difference in value instead of simply judging it, I found it became a learning experience and a pleasure instead of a disagreement. I came to love this country and culture so much I stay here for longer and longer periods as a direct result.
As we toured the country I could tell there was a sense of embarrassment at certain tourist style places but so much pride with the vast majority of the country. Through his passion I began to see this country differently than I would have otherwise. One enlightening moment surfaced as we stopped for a Dominican style pee break (sense of value difference, albeit a small one) and he returned to the car in anger. ?It?s all walls? he said. ?They have no right to take away our right to pee on the beach.? I do not remember where we were but I think it was Cabarete. It felt like a long drive until we saw the beach again, but even short distances with an angry person seems to take forever. It was when we came over that mountain pass later, and I found Las Terrenas, that I realized where I needed to set up a more permanent spot to come to. I loved the idea of living at the end of a road like that and seeing the most incredible beaches in the world from way back on the approach. Paradise in paradise! Let us not block the view illegally or criticise the Dominican desire to keep the beaches open. I back that theory, it is after all ?theirs?. I like the idea that the beach belongs to all the Dominican people unlike some countries where it is overbuilt and there is no or limited public beach left.
I met Elsa de Leon on a few occasions. It was not sufficient time for me to know her true politics but she won me over with what I saw. She is a charitable and concerned person and was very generous with her time with me. She comes across as well educated, engaged in the community and very hospitable. She is a senior government politician and involved in so many large projects for Samana. I cannot see her picking out a few small businesses to destroy or wanting to put people out of work, just to complement her busy day. I am exceedingly apprehensive of many of the upcoming major changes but maybe this one in particular is a good direction. Life goes on. My dominican friend and I are still good friends and my sense of value has expanded not become more narrow minded as a result of our trip I will always remember fondly.