Ok, I am sorry. I may have been rude in my response to some folks. But larry is right, if a guy is paying, especially a dominican who doesn't make enough to buy wine and shrimps, then it doesn't take a genious to figure out that he wants something more than freindly talk. This is something women take for granted, "I am a woman so therefore I am sacred and he should treat me like a princes...". The domican guys or any guy who invests time and money into dating beautiful women wants sex as well. There is nothing wrong with having sex with beautiful women. We, in USA, have been taught to think like pariguayos. We treat women like goddesses and give them too much respect, to a point where any sort of sexual advances towards a woman is considered rude and perversive. No wonder the hungry women are coming here by the plane loads and sleeping with cheap ghetto sankies and marrying them. The american males are coming here and marrying carwash hookers.
To jack: you might not have liked my answer but the dominican mentality is as follows: If a girl goes out on a date with you, you spend money and time and after a while you still don't make sexual advances towards her, she will think you are gay. This is the reality in DR. I didn't mean to call you sissy but my tongue slips and I realy mean no harm to anyone.
Now amy, please, be real. What do you think this guy wants from you in return? I am sure he would appreciate delicious home cooked meal but if you add good sex to equation, he will go home a really happy man and remember you for a long time.
AZB