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First Date, Friday Night in the Santo Domingo - Wanna Hit Multiple Spots
No, may be to much espn I am 38 and 5.2 and ugly as hell not fat but I look like a retard down sindrom . And no I do not have a lot of money left I spent it one girl to andy ranch to see omaga 7000 and then to dinner gave her two mill she said see you in two days she wanted me to cook for her mom and have her mom meat me never herd from her again it has been two weeks but did I go and get good food to cook? Yes felt like feading it to the streat dogs Anouther we went to dinner and the movies she brought 2 frinds and i payed for everything the next time she brought only one frind but still payed then she asked for 3 mill and my dum ass gave it to her what do you do when she puts you on the spot in frount of her house with a taxi wating fucc!
No disrespect to them at all when I am In miami I donate time cooking for a place that help people with downs. I just happen to look similar.
No I am from miami not french . I think I well be back in sept if I do not give up on this place. I hope to have some work in casa de compo in the end of summer I well be in new england for august I got a little work up there . At least people want me to cook for them just not in the bed lol ....
Lose the negativity, yacht chef.
You're sending out all the wrong vibes. And you're attracting the wrong ones.
Relax and you'll get your mojo back. And remember, always smell amazing.
You're sending out all the wrong vibes. And you're attracting the wrong ones.
Relax and you'll get your mojo back. And remember, always smell amazing.
Many guys who spend a ton of money trying to impress Dominican chicas on their dates would be shocked to know how many of those dates would say "ok" to "How about we just go to a cabana to have some fun" on the first date! If she says "yes" you know what she is and can still choose to go there, and if she says "No F. way", just turn it into a joke - there is nothing to lose here, either way you learn something interesting...
Damn man, you are being so walked over, its not funny. Cut down on this gold digger traffic by simply shutting down the ATM and be the maker of every decision about the venue, the time and who is invited. No restaurants whatsoever on the first date, - instead go to a liquor store and share a bottle of vodka while learning more about your date. Go to a disco without cover and dance the night out, ideally on a ladies' night so her drinks don't cost any. Stop spending any money on a girl if she does not make reciprocative steps towards you. Don't give any cash to them ever, aside from occasional 500 pesos on a salon or something.
Look I do feel like a welcome mat that is true and I am so F ing unhappy and bord here this place has a lot of good things about it I went to the river yesterday but when you are alone it sucks ass . Rember I am not In sousa and I am not asking out girls who are in car washes I am in santiago and these girls have jobs granted not good jobs but jobs at least . But any I am not trying to impress them by spending a lot of money I am just trying to have someone to spend time with . All you guys make it sound so easy like you can get 3 dats a week and only put out $75 bucks. And as far as the bottle of vodica I have not drank in 4 years but unforchunatly it is starting to sound like a good idea.
Bubba its like, a date every night, new one each night if you put a little effort into it.
Play right you can get laid every night and not talking hookers or what is referred to Barrio Rats, not that all girls from the poor barrios are rats either.
The girl bringing her friends to dinner is 1 st sign something is wrong and is being carried out by an experianced girl palying you....I learned the first time, I seen what they were doing, let them order, nothing for me, plates of food arrived excused myself to the toilet and skedaddled.
Do not be naive and do not be negative, any part of this wonderful country is a single players heaven.
If you are not loaded, then the only difficult chics will be the upper echelon, but plenty down below.
or on top, if you prefer!
g'luck
Play right you can get laid every night and not talking hookers or what is referred to Barrio Rats, not that all girls from the poor barrios are rats either.
The girl bringing her friends to dinner is 1 st sign something is wrong and is being carried out by an experianced girl palying you....I learned the first time, I seen what they were doing, let them order, nothing for me, plates of food arrived excused myself to the toilet and skedaddled.
Do not be naive and do not be negative, any part of this wonderful country is a single players heaven.
If you are not loaded, then the only difficult chics will be the upper echelon, but plenty down below.
or on top, if you prefer!
g'luck
You don't need to drink yourself, leave the alcohol to the ladies (if that's realistic when everyone else around you is drinking). In Santiago, good liquor stores are Alambique or H2O in Los Jardines, a bottle of inexpensive but still decent vodka (Cayman Blue, Smirnoff etc) or rum and a mixer will set you back 700-800 pesos max. Nice music, good crowd and ambience.
Since you are a chef, why not just invite them to your place where you are cooking some great meal - even for a first date. Fully controlled environment and most will love the idea.
Since you are a chef, why not just invite them to your place where you are cooking some great meal - even for a first date. Fully controlled environment and most will love the idea.
Hay thanks I just took a walk and am playning on making 5 years sober. Yes I am ok bing around ladys drinking no problem. And I would like to cook for a girl in my appt I gess i just need to keep asking I am just not as lucky or smouth as some of you .
May be I am trying to
Play to far out of my leage I have seen and talked with men my dads age with girls 21 - 23 years old and my X is with a 53 year old man . Am I out of line to want a girl 23-24 no kids and a job? I would like a kid of my owne some day and i relly do not want to pay for some other mans kid also.
May be I am trying to
Play to far out of my leage I have seen and talked with men my dads age with girls 21 - 23 years old and my X is with a 53 year old man . Am I out of line to want a girl 23-24 no kids and a job? I would like a kid of my owne some day and i relly do not want to pay for some other mans kid also.
But hell ferget about the kids at this point I just do not want to be played any more and at least get a kiss.
This is stretching credulity to the absolute limit. I have not known " looks" to be much of a factor down here and as far as... " she asked for 3 mill and my dum ass gave it to her what do you do when she puts you on the spot in frount of her house with a taxi" - come on seriously??
how old are you? 40? 50? 60? then maybe you should think of a woman who is already done with all that foolery and has some brains? at 40 your average dominicana already has an adult child so no there would be no stepdad play. she will also not want to (or not be able to) have any more kids so no pumping the money out for that either.