I met a guy in DR a little over a year ago and we have been talking everyday since. I live in the states and have gone to see him 3 times within the year. He is a police officer there and we are both in our 20s. He is very nice and respectable and if there is something that I do not like or if I ask him to do something he does it.
My issue is as I have mentioned he is a police officer and doesn't make much money so when I am there I'm paying for 70% of the stuff which isn't much because we don't really go out much so 70% meaning groceries and a bottle if we go to a drin. He tries to pay for as much as he can because I have told him that I do not want to have to pay for everything.
Does the fact that I foot the bill most of the time make him a sanky? I have read other forums on here about that and he does not fit those characteristics of being a sanky. Or am I just blind? I have been burned in one way or another by every guy i have been with and I don't want to have another one of those guys in my life. I would really love some opinions because my trust issues are really affecting our relationship now. Thanks in advance
My issue is as I have mentioned he is a police officer and doesn't make much money so when I am there I'm paying for 70% of the stuff which isn't much because we don't really go out much so 70% meaning groceries and a bottle if we go to a drin. He tries to pay for as much as he can because I have told him that I do not want to have to pay for everything.
Does the fact that I foot the bill most of the time make him a sanky? I have read other forums on here about that and he does not fit those characteristics of being a sanky. Or am I just blind? I have been burned in one way or another by every guy i have been with and I don't want to have another one of those guys in my life. I would really love some opinions because my trust issues are really affecting our relationship now. Thanks in advance