(...) now she is moving on to marry a much older Dominican man from NY that she tells me she relly loves. (...) The kicker is that in the end she asked if I wanted to be with her as a mistress for a $100 a shot.(...) To tell me that she is in love with a soon to be husband and tell me that she couldn't car less about my fealings and the time we spent together over there years ment nothing to her. Well ok but to then still try to sell her ass to me.
That's a good one. :laugh:
I can completely understand hoe jealousy could get the better of a person here.
Yes it did.
$100 a shot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mistress??????????? hahahahahahahaha
these chicas are not as dumb as they look.. she probably did some math on her smart phone, and this may have been what it averaged out to.. if he adds up all the gifts etc.. At the END of a relationship it is always a SHOCKER when you TOTAL up the financial investment... it is usually a LOT more than one thought..
so ya cant really blame the innocent little flower for making the offer..
and btw Chef , as you probably know, being a "mistress" is so engrained in the Dom culture they dont even consider it being like a Puta.. like "those other girls"...LMAO
they are incredible.. bless their little hearts..
Sorry to hear about the Dutch man though..
and yes jealousy is an ugly thing, and a weakness which will bring you down & take your life too , if you let it.
U can always just walk away.. the DR is probably one of the easiest places to just find ANOTHER one within very short time..
Its we who are the problem, not them..
They just working with what they got..
The girl that was killed was Dominican and Dutch. She was addopted as a baby and lived her whole life in Holland. She only came here about a year ago, she could barely speak spanish. She had a job with a Dutch company so she earned more then him. And she broke up with him, but she didn't have a new boyfriend yet. She even offered to help him with money and everything but he robbed her (motor, money from the bank, ....). But apparently that wasn't enough for him.
So: not poor Dutch guy, but: poor girl
I don't know in Holland, but I was adopted in Belgium and I kept my Original surname, in Belgium you (or the adoptive parents) can choose witch surname you keep.I find it very interesting that if she was adopted that she kept her Dominican surname. Most kids who get adopted in Holland will get a Dutch surname.. and I also wonder why a girl of 32 who apperently doesnt need a sugar daddy would start a relationship with a guy who could be her father (and didnt look much in shape either).
In the end a sad tragedy for all involved..
This place can be very hard for jealousy it is to bad that it got the better of him. Just last night I got dumped by a girl that I was on and off with for there years
she made me out to be the bad guy and herself the good girl. I could never commit to her fulltime because I could see the real person she had a jacket and hide personality any way now she is moving on to marry a much older Dominican man from NY that she tells me she relly loves. I dont think she knows what it is to relly love. The kicker is that in the end she asked if I wanted to be with her as a mistress for a $100 a shot. I turned down this offer as I still have strong fealings for her good and trust me plenty of resentment as well. I can completely understand hoe jealousy could get the better of a person here. To tell me that she is in love with a soon to be husband and tell me that she couldn't car less about my fealings and the time we spent together over there years ment nothing to her. Well ok but to then still try to sell her ass to me. What the hell how the hell how could i have commited to her to be my wife as she wanted. Any way it is a shame what happened to this Dutch man. I am going to go the less violent route. But I will still miss her for some sick reason.
What Dutch company was she working for. I've never heard of a Dutch company in DR.
yachtie,
I need to take you with me on my next foray into Columbia. Much better grade of chicas
Dont sweat it, all that glitters isnt gold. She ll be back late in the game when she discovers the guy in New York doesnt want to bring her there just plop a baby or two in her. It ALWAYS plays out that way.This place can be very hard for jealousy it is to bad that it got the better of him. Just last night I got dumped by a girl that I was on and off with for there years
she made me out to be the bad guy and herself the good girl. I could never commit to her fulltime because I could see the real person she had a jacket and hide personality any way now she is moving on to marry a much older Dominican man from NY that she tells me she relly loves. I dont think she knows what it is to relly love. The kicker is that in the end she asked if I wanted to be with her as a mistress for a $100 a shot. I turned down this offer as I still have strong fealings for her good and trust me plenty of resentment as well. I can completely understand hoe jealousy could get the better of a person here. To tell me that she is in love with a soon to be husband and tell me that she couldn't car less about my fealings and the time we spent together over there years ment nothing to her. Well ok but to then still try to sell her ass to me. What the hell how the hell how could i have commited to her to be my wife as she wanted. Any way it is a shame what happened to this Dutch man. I am going to go the less violent route. But I will still miss her for some sick reason.
I disagree, some of them are as dumb as they look at yachtchef knew her. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. But we know that doesnt happen.these chicas are not as dumb as they look.. she probably did some math on her smart phone, and this may have been what it averaged out to.. if he adds up all the gifts etc.. At the END of a relationship it is always a SHOCKER when you TOTAL up the financial investment... it is usually a LOT more than one thought..
so ya cant really blame the innocent little flower for making the offer..
them..
They just working with what they got..