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AlterEgo

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I wanted to contrast my earlier post, as those are middle/upper middle class in SD

Where we live in the campo, it’s barely a barrio. These girls are mostly uneducated, very poor, often work as maids in SD, and dream about a rich guy fixing all their problems. They’re tough, some are mean, and a few are in jail, one stabbed her mother-in-law to death. Another stabbed her husband. A couple commute to Sosua.

So don’t fool yourself that they only attack gringos.
 

william webster

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Right AE

to them - it's a fast, easy solution to a problem... and lots of times - they get away with it..
not killing a gringo.... but in the campo.... a better chance of nothing happening

A few chicos had a disagreement one night...
drinking and such

as the next round of their white rum shots came around...
one glass was pesticide

down the hatch.... the boy died in less than 2 weeks
never a charge laid

perforated stomach and intestines.....
he was under 30
 

the gorgon

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Thank William Webster, I came in here asking posters here opinions knowing I don’t have all the answers. But seeking posters their point of views.

I’ve always wanted to create my account on DR1, but I never was able to find the time, and I noticed less and less is written about relationship in DR, from the point of view of a foreigner living in the DR, or like me having interests in a Dominicana there. Most of the posts were written in the past, very interesting reads, the reading was very exciting, a page turner. Lol

I could write all day describing all the angst, doubts, and suspicion that happens to a man dating a native Dominicana, because it’s happening with me, I’m living the situation. But I never wanted to come here and talk about it, because this subject as Cdn_Gringo and Bronxboy mentioned as been beaten to death on DR1. I know that's right, because I read all those threads and posters comments. But just because is been beaten/written down to death here on DR1, doesn't mean the subject is not interesting or relevant.


What made me want to now create my DR1 user name and intro, because concurrently, there’s the unfortunate death of the Dutch man, set up by his native Dominican wife. And the many posters on this forum saying how it’s best not to marry these Dominicanas, in this developing country.

I’m not going to judge this Dutch man past, but of course there’s that porn sex tape of him and his wife out there. How can a wife really love and respect a man that create and distributes their porn together. Was that the hidden motive for her murderous intent? There’s stuff out there saying she was married before to a gringo, and he died in some kind of mysterious circumstances as well. She fairly young, and she married the Dutch man at 18, so at what age was she married to this other dude? (So a prior marriage before the Dutch husband doesn’t seem likely to me.)

Now, at the same time reading DR1 on this subject, something that has been in the works for months is a YouTube channel I’m creating, about finding love in the DR. Because I’m personally tired of the country being portrayed and used as an outlet for sex tourism. This image makes the genuine Dominican women who are not putas, immediately suspected as one, primarily the common belief of men that go there to pay4play.

Some here might say I’m using this forum to promote or plug my channel. That wasn’t and is not the case. It’s that I have developed my own ideas, read countless other opinions on various forums about Dominican Republic, DR1 being one of them for over a year as I stated in my intro thread, because I'm getting to know a special Dominicana in that way.

Can I use the readers here as subscribers and followers? Of course, what YouTube creator would say no to that?

But, before I ever entertained the thought of ever creating my YouTube channel, and coming up with the idea, I’ve read all the DR1 countless threads, every comment of those threads—topics on sankies, Mars and Venus, on prostitution in DR etc, because I was getting to know my Dominicana, so I was seeking knowledge about DR and its culture etc. So no one here can say I’m just a new member of DR1 just for my YouTube. I have always been an active reader, just not a member, until now.

And for William Webster to create this new thread, it shows that finding true love in the DR is never a “boring” or pointless conversation to have. Especially when there’s as many lonely men from the USA seeking a wife other from the USA, as there are genuine Dominicanas seeking marriage from lonely men from the USA.

i am perplexed, so please bear with me. you are working on a youtube channel about finding love in the DR? who constitutes your target market? i ask you this question, because there are millions of similar hookup sites abounding on the internet.. who needs to come to the DR to find love, and why can they not find it where they live? i mean, the DR has 11 million inhabitants..the USA, for starters, has well in excess of 300 million....what makes you think that if they cannot find a compatible companion in their own culture, they will find one elsewhere?

i know...some guys have done it. the exceptions, rather than the rules.
 

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Maybe it's the writing on the wall the rest of us are missing...

To avoid being referred to as a gringo senior citizen predator, maybe as a way for the girl to avoid being stigmatized by family and friends, perhaps to avoid being the subject of a NA TV news documentary on Saturday evening, I suppose it could be a new cultural sin tax or just the latest fad/gringo scam... gotta pay to get married b4 you pay to play.

Innovative pension plan?
 

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girls from places like Cabrera, Gasping Hernandez and so on do , in fact, indulge this type of 'commercial' activity
to fund their life(style)
BUT
They step out of town to do it....
You may see them in Sabaneta, any other town far enough away not to sully their reputation.

When your main assets are 'plant & equipment'..... you have few options
 

KyleMackey

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There are 7 granddaughters in our family. Three were raised in the USA, so I’ll eliminate them.

Eldest became an engineer, was headhunted to Oklahoma about 13 years ago. Married an American engineer coworker who’s also in the US Army. Three kids. Can’t cook at all, nothing, despite the fact that her mother is a fabulous cook (and career woman too). Owns homes in Oklahoma, North Carolina and St Croix, where they live, work and own a small business that others run.

Next is about 30, university degree, gorgeous, no kids, can’t boil water. Just got married in January to a Dominican who adores her, has a good job (as she does), and he does all the cooking.

Next is her sister, mid 20s. Good job. Single, no kids, long time Dominican boyfriend with excellent job. Can’t cook either.

Last is mid 20s, could have been a model but became a lawyer instead. Married to Dominican with good job, they’re expecting first child. I’m not sure, but I’d bet she’s not much better of a cook either.

Now, is it because these girls were raised with a cook, even though their mothers were probably better cooks than the hired help? Maybe. Sounds reasonable. But my daughter, born and raised in the USA, had less than zero interest in learning how to cook. We certainly never had kitchen help, and I cooked every meal, mostly from scratch, so she had the role model they didn’t. Lots of take out, frozen meals, etc. in their house.

So that leaves the generation WW speaks of to blame.

Oddly enough, our son (MBA, own business) loves to cook. Thank God, because the woman he married (critical care/icu doctor) can’t boil water either. Mid 30s.

I really enjoy cooking. Something that came a little later for me though.
 

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i am perplexed, so please bear with me. you are working on a youtube channel about finding love in the DR? who constitutes your target market? i ask you this question, because there are millions of similar hookup sites abounding on the internet.. who needs to come to the DR to find love, and why can they not find it where they live? i mean, the DR has 11 million inhabitants. The USA, for starters, has well in excess of 300 million....what makes you think that if they cannot find a compatible companion in their own culture, they will find one elsewhere?

i know...some guys have done it. the exceptions, rather than the rules.

Hello Gorgon, I read many of your posts, nice that you asking me a question. Now I'm going to try to answer your questions as best I can. Ok, you first question:

1. My "target market": I kind of answered your question with this sentence above: "when there’s as many lonely men from the USA seeking a wife other than from the USA, as there are genuine Dominicanas seeking marriage from lonely men from the USA."

i am perplexed, so please bear with me. you are working on a youtube channel about finding love in the DR? who constitutes your target market? i ask you this question, because there are millions of similar hookup sites abounding on the internet.. who needs to come to the DR to find love, and why can they not find it where they live? i mean, the DR has 11 million inhabitants. The USA, for starters, has well in excess of 300 million....what makes you think that if they cannot find a compatible companion in their own culture, they will find one elsewhere?

i know...some guys have done it. the exceptions, rather than the rules.

Hello Gorgon, I read many of your posts, nice that you asking me a question. Now I'm going to try to answer your questions as best I can. Ok, your first question:

1. My "target market": I answered your question with this sentence above I wrote: "when there’s as many lonely men from the USA seeking a wife other than from the USA, as there are genuine Dominicanas seeking marriage from lonely men from the USA."

That's the target audience--"lonely men in the USA and beyond” that would prefer foreign women rather than women from their own country.

2. My channel is not a dating YouTube channel, although I anticipate mucho emails in my inbox, with men wanting the information of the Dominicanas featured on the channel. Because for the most part, at least three of the initial Dominicanas, will set the tone of what's the channel is all about, they represent DR really well, as their everyday job would demonstrate that, and least in my opinion, and I’m sure soon in many other men as well, very beautiful. Both inside and out.

Starting off with my channel, franchise Dominicana, who's a beautiful police officer by day, anytime after her job is done, she's an amazing single mom. Interspersed in her intro video, are a few scenes showing her lip-synching to the Spanish songs at a social club enjoying a Presidente, and various photos that showcase her external beauty.

The next two are beautiful as well, with their own unique beauty and talents representing DR well too, as teachers of the DR's young ones. One teacher hails from Santo Domingo, she is what I call my Afro-Latina sweet chocolate, because she's really a stunning model, that's posing as a teacher--in my opinion. As her intro video with her many photos would attest.

The other teacher is from Puerto Plata, she's beautiful, humble, god fearing, and one of the sweetest Dominicanas I've met, and probably would ever meet. Whoever finds her as a wife---wow they hit the jackpot, I think---she's that cool!

Primarily, it's Q&A, what they think about love from their native men in their country, how they feel about foreign men that visit their country, and have they ever dated a foreign man, or so called "gringo" before, the food they like and cook, the music they love and listen too. These I'm looking to show, and let these Dominicana tell.

These Dominicanas, I hope are a few of some of Dominican Republic's best and finest, that represents DR well, and not, the exploitive other side, that some of us--- know all too well. (I know I used the word "exploitive”, I’m not looking to argue anyone on this, just my opinion.)

I pretty much answered your question, why American men are turning their backs on American women, primarily because of the feminist movement, that's becoming louder and louder each and every year. The Latin culture, DR as example, is still holding on for the most part their traditional values, because the native man demands it to be such. But in America, the women wear the pants, and the men follow.

Also in conclusion, I'm not the one who made these terminologies, it's more of a social media, new generation movement that's growing in popularity, Google it:

These two weird movements are--- MGTOW(MenGoingTheirOwnWay), and even weirder the InCel(Involunatry Celibate)Wikipedia's definition:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Involuntary_celibacy

Incels (a portmanteau of involuntary celibates) are members of an online subculture who define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one, a state they describe as inceldom. Self-identified incels are largely white and are almost exclusively male heterosexuals.

It's a well known belief that some of the recent young serial killers, that later took their own lives, are known to have been an InCel. Elliot Rodger stands out as an example: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-43892189 Elliot Rodger: How misogynist killer became 'incel hero'

What's all this has to do with the Dominican Republic some of you may ask, well after reading the article above, would Elliot Rodger who committed these horrendous killings, subsequently his own life too, would he have been still committed to do so, if he only would've just been introduced to Dominican Republic prior, say by a particular YouTube channel about finding love in the DR? Let's go with the premise that he liked Latina(in this case)Dominican women.

Because say if Elliot, or other young men like him, traveled to DR, and met one of the teachers featured on the YouTube channel, or similar Dominicanas like them, and they both felled mutually in love with one another. Would Elliot Rodger still be angry at the world, when he went back home in the USA, after meeting the love of his life from a genuine, beautiful Dominicana? The answer of course, very unlikely!

Gorgon, I hope I answered your questions.
 

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Well, if the OP thinks that it is the men who " wear the pants" in the DR, he is in for a big surprise....... smh.
 

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Hello Gorgon, I read many of your posts, nice that you asking me a question. Now I'm going to try to answer your questions as best I can. Ok, you first question:

1. My "target market": I kind of answered your question with this sentence above: "when there’s as many lonely men from the USA seeking a wife other than from the USA, as there are genuine Dominicanas seeking marriage from lonely men from the USA."



Hello Gorgon, I read many of your posts, nice that you asking me a question. Now I'm going to try to answer your questions as best I can. Ok, your first question:

1. My "target market": I answered your question with this sentence above I wrote: "when there’s as many lonely men from the USA seeking a wife other than from the USA, as there are genuine Dominicanas seeking marriage from lonely men from the USA."

That's the target audience--"lonely men in the USA and beyond” that would prefer foreign women rather than women from their own country.

2. My channel is not a dating YouTube channel, although I anticipate mucho emails in my inbox, with men wanting the information of the Dominicanas featured on the channel. Because for the most part, at least three of the initial Dominicanas, will set the tone of what's the channel is all about, they represent DR really well, as their everyday job would demonstrate that, and least in my opinion, and I’m sure soon in many other men as well, very beautiful. Both inside and out.

Starting off with my channel, franchise Dominicana, who's a beautiful police officer by day, anytime after her job is done, she's an amazing single mom. Interspersed in her intro video, are a few scenes showing her lip-synching to the Spanish songs at a social club enjoying a Presidente, and various photos that showcase her external beauty.

The next two are beautiful as well, with their own unique beauty and talents representing DR well too, as teachers of the DR's young ones. One teacher hails from Santo Domingo, she is what I call my Afro-Latina sweet chocolate, because she's really a stunning model, that's posing as a teacher--in my opinion. As her intro video with her many photos would attest.

The other teacher is from Puerto Plata, she's beautiful, humble, god fearing, and one of the sweetest Dominicanas I've met, and probably would ever meet. Whoever finds her as a wife---wow they hit the jackpot, I think---she's that cool!

Primarily, it's Q&A, what they think about love from their native men in their country, how they feel about foreign men that visit their country, and have they ever dated a foreign man, or so called "gringo" before, the food they like and cook, the music they love and listen too. These I'm looking to show, and let these Dominicana tell.

These Dominicanas, I hope are a few of some of Dominican Republic's best and finest, that represents DR well, and not, the exploitive other side, that some of us--- know all too well. (I know I used the word "exploitive”, I’m not looking to argue anyone on this, just my opinion.)

I pretty much answered your question, why American men are turning their backs on American women, primarily because of the feminist movement, that's becoming louder and louder each and every year. The Latin culture, DR as example, is still holding on for the most part their traditional values, because the native man demands it to be such. But in America, the women wear the pants, and the men follow.

Also in conclusion, I'm not the one who made these terminologies, it's more of a social media, new generation movement that's growing in popularity, Google it:

These two weird movements are--- MGTOW(MenGoingTheirOwnWay), and even weirder the InCel(Involunatry Celibate)Wikipedia's definition:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Involuntary_celibacy

Incels (a portmanteau of involuntary celibates) are members of an online subculture who define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one, a state they describe as inceldom. Self-identified incels are largely white and are almost exclusively male heterosexuals.

It's a well known belief that some of the recent young serial killers, that later took their own lives, are known to have been an InCel. Elliot Rodger stands out as an example: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-43892189 Elliot Rodger: How misogynist killer became 'incel hero'

What's all this has to do with the Dominican Republic some of you may ask, well after reading the article above, would Elliot Rodger who committed these horrendous killings, subsequently his own life too, would he have been still committed to do so, if he only would've just been introduced to Dominican Republic prior, say by a particular YouTube channel about finding love in the DR? Let's go with the premise that he liked Latina(in this case)Dominican women.

Because say if Elliot, or other young men like him, traveled to DR, and met one of the teachers featured on the YouTube channel, or similar Dominicanas like them, and they both felled mutually in love with one another. Would Elliot Rodger still be angry at the world, when he went back home in the USA, after meeting the love of his life from a genuine, beautiful Dominicana? The answer of course, very unlikely!

Gorgon, I hope I answered your questions.

thank you for taking the time out to answer my questions. i hope your site encounters success. i have my thoughts, but i will not address this issue at this time...

you see, i am of the belief that if you have to go far afield to find a compatible partner, you might be your problem.
 

KyleMackey

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Hello Gorgon, I read many of your posts, nice that you asking me a question. Now I'm going to try to answer your questions as best I can. Ok, you first question:

1. My "target market": I kind of answered your question with this sentence above: "when there’s as many lonely men from the USA seeking a wife other than from the USA, as there are genuine Dominicanas seeking marriage from lonely men from the USA."



Hello Gorgon, I read many of your posts, nice that you asking me a question. Now I'm going to try to answer your questions as best I can. Ok, your first question:

1. My "target market": I answered your question with this sentence above I wrote: "when there’s as many lonely men from the USA seeking a wife other than from the USA, as there are genuine Dominicanas seeking marriage from lonely men from the USA."

That's the target audience--"lonely men in the USA and beyond” that would prefer foreign women rather than women from their own country.

2. My channel is not a dating YouTube channel, although I anticipate mucho emails in my inbox, with men wanting the information of the Dominicanas featured on the channel. Because for the most part, at least three of the initial Dominicanas, will set the tone of what's the channel is all about, they represent DR really well, as their everyday job would demonstrate that, and least in my opinion, and I’m sure soon in many other men as well, very beautiful. Both inside and out.

Starting off with my channel, franchise Dominicana, who's a beautiful police officer by day, anytime after her job is done, she's an amazing single mom. Interspersed in her intro video, are a few scenes showing her lip-synching to the Spanish songs at a social club enjoying a Presidente, and various photos that showcase her external beauty.

The next two are beautiful as well, with their own unique beauty and talents representing DR well too, as teachers of the DR's young ones. One teacher hails from Santo Domingo, she is what I call my Afro-Latina sweet chocolate, because she's really a stunning model, that's posing as a teacher--in my opinion. As her intro video with her many photos would attest.

The other teacher is from Puerto Plata, she's beautiful, humble, god fearing, and one of the sweetest Dominicanas I've met, and probably would ever meet. Whoever finds her as a wife---wow they hit the jackpot, I think---she's that cool!

Primarily, it's Q&A, what they think about love from their native men in their country, how they feel about foreign men that visit their country, and have they ever dated a foreign man, or so called "gringo" before, the food they like and cook, the music they love and listen too. These I'm looking to show, and let these Dominicana tell.

These Dominicanas, I hope are a few of some of Dominican Republic's best and finest, that represents DR well, and not, the exploitive other side, that some of us--- know all too well. (I know I used the word "exploitive”, I’m not looking to argue anyone on this, just my opinion.)

I pretty much answered your question, why American men are turning their backs on American women, primarily because of the feminist movement, that's becoming louder and louder each and every year. The Latin culture, DR as example, is still holding on for the most part their traditional values, because the native man demands it to be such. But in America, the women wear the pants, and the men follow.

Also in conclusion, I'm not the one who made these terminologies, it's more of a social media, new generation movement that's growing in popularity, Google it:

These two weird movements are--- MGTOW(MenGoingTheirOwnWay), and even weirder the InCel(Involunatry Celibate)Wikipedia's definition:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Involuntary_celibacy

Incels (a portmanteau of involuntary celibates) are members of an online subculture who define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one, a state they describe as inceldom. Self-identified incels are largely white and are almost exclusively male heterosexuals.

It's a well known belief that some of the recent young serial killers, that later took their own lives, are known to have been an InCel. Elliot Rodger stands out as an example: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-43892189 Elliot Rodger: How misogynist killer became 'incel hero'

What's all this has to do with the Dominican Republic some of you may ask, well after reading the article above, would Elliot Rodger who committed these horrendous killings, subsequently his own life too, would he have been still committed to do so, if he only would've just been introduced to Dominican Republic prior, say by a particular YouTube channel about finding love in the DR? Let's go with the premise that he liked Latina(in this case)Dominican women.

Because say if Elliot, or other young men like him, traveled to DR, and met one of the teachers featured on the YouTube channel, or similar Dominicanas like them, and they both felled mutually in love with one another. Would Elliot Rodger still be angry at the world, when he went back home in the USA, after meeting the love of his life from a genuine, beautiful Dominicana? The answer of course, very unlikely!

Gorgon, I hope I answered your questions.

FBI needs to pay you a visit.
 

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The 55 year old foreign male who comes to the DR to pursue a fantasy of acquiring one or two 22 year olds, looks for these opportunities not in the Universities and Churches but in the Clubs, Casinos and tourist traps. Both parties are using the other for personal benefit. That is not a real relationship in my mind. There is no way it can be a partnership of equals it can only ever be an open ended barter agreement.
My problem with this statement is the sweeping absolute generalization that is contained in it. I have six different male friends (one under the age of 50). All from foreign countries that have married or have girlfriends who Dominicanas 15 to 30 years younger than them. The Domincianas are all university graduates and have professional careers.

I can not speak to the quality of the partnerships. Nor the long term viability of the situations. But I can say that to a man they have all had previous relationships and state that their current ones are the best they have ever had. I also have not heard (on personal level) about anything really bad happening to any of them as the result of these relationships.

I furthermore will add that it's my opinion that very few relationships are based on "true love" through out the world and cannot be real relationships based on the criteria in your post. Show me a relationship where money is not a factor within the relationship. I often ask people to explain to me how parties survived in areas of resource poverty within the Dominican Republic before they met their "living breathing ATMS". It may have been hard but they did it. If money is all it took to make a relationship good, billionaire couples would not get divorced.
 
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Cdn_Gringo

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Those points are valid. It was not my intention to suggest that finding and keeping a spouse in the DR was completely impossible. This thread references a new generation of Dominican women, who are in a financial and educational position to seek or at least accept long term relationships with a foreigner on a completely different playing field. Educated people, with more than a subsistence income can be more selective. If that is possible then it should be more likely that relationships will develop based on more than just one party's ability to raise the other out of poverty and poor living conditions quickly and without much effort. This I would think would better ground the relationship and offer a better chance of success.

Further, my original post was clearly referencing those foreign men who come to this country primarily to take advantage of the conditions to pursue an exploitative "male fantasy" that they cannot achieved in their home country with the same degree of ease.
 

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i am perplexed, so please bear with me... who needs to come to the DR to find love, and why can they not find it where they live? i mean, the DR has 11 million inhabitants..the USA, for starters, has well in excess of 300 million....what makes you think that if they cannot find a compatible companion in their own culture, they will find one elsewhere?
I my opinion, I don't think it's a matter of not being able to find love or compatible companion in their own culture. I believe men in the United States of America (US) who travel abroad looking for "love" if that's actually what they are doing are looking for higher quality relationships than they can find with companions in their own culture. That is what I universally hear from my male friends in the US. Coincidently they all have relationships in the US.

I will state that my personal experiences have been superior with companions from countries other than the US.
 
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Cdn_Gringo

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Some day, when you have access to the Off Topic threads, it might be interesting to explore what constitutes a "higher quality relationship" in the eyes of a foreign male.

For now, the anecdotal evidence suggests that the vast majority of these "intercultural relationships" are those with a significant separation in age, economic means and education. The number of men aged 25 - 35 coming to the DR searching for a life partner can be counted on two hands and two feet with a few appendages left over.
 

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Hello Gorgon, I read many of your posts, nice that you asking me a question. Now I'm going to try to answer your questions as best I can. Ok, you first question...............



..........The answer of course, very unlikely!

Gorgon, I hope I answered your questions.

I'm surprised you don't have a link to your website in your profile. First place I looked.
 

the gorgon

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I my opinion, I don't think it's a matter of not being able to find love or compatible companion in their own culture. I believe men in the United States of America (US) who travel abroad looking for "love" if that's actually what they are doing are looking for higher quality relationships than they can find with companions in their own culture. That is what I universally hear from my male friends in the US. Coincidently they all have relationships in the US.

I will state that my personal experiences have been superior with companions from countries other than the US.

i have my thoughts on that. i have not had anybody define to me what this ''higher quality relationship'' might be. what i do believe is that the days of the Ozzie and Harriet marriage are over, and social metamorphosis has brought us a place where American women are more independent, assertive, and socially aggressive than they were in the 60s. the men i think you are reaching out to are gys who want the women who are their image of what women should be....barefoot, pregnant, and in the kitchen. trust me on this...the majority of North American and European men who travel abroad to find ''love'' are looking for a submissive woman. how come you never hear about guys from Surinam and Aruba travelling abroad to ''find love''?
 

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Looking for love is something I dont believe in. It happens or doesnt. I think most men have preferances, blond, black, asian, that is one thing but dating on nationality is, for me, a bad start.
 

the gorgon

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IMO

Loneliness drives many relationship seekers
Anything might be better than nothing

well, ww, loneliness might be a result of a person having the kind of human disposition that no woman can tolerate, which brings us back to square one...some destitute third world woman might make the sacrifice to deal with the folly, but no self supporting woman will. so that brings us full circle to chica dating sites..
 
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