Hi, I need some advice. I've been going to DR every six weeks to visit a woman that I care very deeply about. She's a dentist and makes decent money. I'm not sure what our status is, when I'm in the US I date around, as does she in DR, but when I'm there I now stay at her apartment and we do everything together for the week that I'm there.
I just decided to go back for 4th of July weekend and I called her to let her know. She seemed somewhat indifferent our whole conversation and kept saying everything was ok. I know her pretty well by now so I kept pressing her. Finally she said "No toy para relajos ni pasatiempos pa nadie!" and hung up. I'm really ****ed. I interpreted that as her implying that I'm using her and thought we were on the same page. If anything it's more expensive to be with her as opposed to some cuera, because I pay for dinners, drinks, hair, nails, I even helped her out with her rent one month (she never asked me I wanted to.)
I'm not sure what to do.. The sex is good but it seems like she's giving me an ultimatum. I can't move there; I live in the US. Is it even worth trying to semi date someone if I live in the US and come down every 6 weeks or should I just rely on cueras for cheap thrills and purely platonic friendships. I appreciate any responses.
Thanks.
I just decided to go back for 4th of July weekend and I called her to let her know. She seemed somewhat indifferent our whole conversation and kept saying everything was ok. I know her pretty well by now so I kept pressing her. Finally she said "No toy para relajos ni pasatiempos pa nadie!" and hung up. I'm really ****ed. I interpreted that as her implying that I'm using her and thought we were on the same page. If anything it's more expensive to be with her as opposed to some cuera, because I pay for dinners, drinks, hair, nails, I even helped her out with her rent one month (she never asked me I wanted to.)
I'm not sure what to do.. The sex is good but it seems like she's giving me an ultimatum. I can't move there; I live in the US. Is it even worth trying to semi date someone if I live in the US and come down every 6 weeks or should I just rely on cueras for cheap thrills and purely platonic friendships. I appreciate any responses.
Thanks.