43 year old man kills his 16 year old girlfriend

DRob

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If true, I hope they throw him under the jail. Where do these people come from?
 

donP

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Post on USA1!

And you never ever hear of anyone going berserk and killing anyone in the US do you?

I am not much interested in US culture and the numerous killings going on there.
This is a forum about the Dominican Republic.

donP
 

Curacaoleno

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This, unfortunately, is a WORLD-WIDE problem...not just specific to the D.R. It's happening all over the world with frightening frequency.

I don't think many 16 years olds date 43 year olds in the USA or in Sweden or England..

But it does happen a lot in the DR.
 

dv8

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i find the age an irrelevant issue here. papers wrote about a fifty year old woman fighting for her life in a hospital after ex cut her up with a machete. two weeks ago a guy burnt alive his twenty something pregnant gf. what is worrying is the quantity of murders like that.
 

caribmike

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Apologies. I am not referring to people like you or sayanora or other educated people participating here.

I am referring to those "other" ones who are capable of things like that etc. My dumb.
 

Luperon

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There is no real rule of law in the DR. Lawlessness brings out the worst in people, men especially. The NYC area has as many people as the DR, now imagine if NYC had the same number of violet crimes and car accidents as the DR.

ie nyc about 300 murders a year, DR 2000 and I am sure the DR numbers are under reported.
 

Berzin

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A friend of mine threw a party for some girl's 15th birthday, I forgot what this event is called but it's big in Latin American cultures.

Sitting at a table was a Dominican man clearly in his mid-late 40's with an underaged girl. He flew from the states to be with her at this event. I would say she was 16 years old tops. They were sitting at a table with her whole family, and these weren't chopos, either. None were invited to this party. The family seemed not to be bothered at all, and if they did not condone the relationship he wouldn't have been sitting next to her with his arm wrapped around her for most of the evening.

The reason why I'm getting sick and tired of my local gym, convenient as it is, is I have to be subjected to these types of conversations-aging Dominican taxi drivers, bogeda clerks, and factory workers talking about going home and having their pick of underage girls. They talk about it blatantly and openly, and don't care if anyone overhears them.

They make no bones about it and stress the underage part like it's something to be proud of. It will continue unless the laws in the DR are enforced, which is why so many Dominican men living abroad love their country, because the laws there are a joke. I don't even know if such dalliances are specifically against Dominican law.

As far as this being a cultural phenomenon, it's only like that for the men. If it were so culturally ingrained, they'd be doing the same thing here with young Dominican girls, but they can't. Even the most humble Section 8 dwelling loser chica has more options than a greasy old pervert who stacks shelves in a grocery store, and I don't know of one Dominican family that would condone such behavior unless the guy was loaded. Even then it's not something you see very often.

But these guys get away with what they do because they (for the most part) live in remote campos, where anything goes, more so than in the big cities, if you can believe that.

There's no reason why a man in his 40's should have an underage novia. None. But that's not how it is in the land of "Anything Goes".
 
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the gorgon

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A friend of mine threw a party for some girl's 15th birthday, I forgot what this event is called but it's big in Latin American cultures.

Sitting at a table was a Dominican man clearly in his mid-late 40's with an underaged girl. He flew from the states to be with her at this event. I would say she was 16 years old tops. They were sitting at a table with her whole family, and these weren't chopos, either. None were invited to this party. The family seemed not to be bothered at all, and if they did not condone the relationship he wouldn't have been sitting next to her with his arm wrapped around her for most of the evening.

The reason why I'm getting sick and tired of my local gym, convenient as it is, is I have to be subjected to these types of conversations-aging Dominican taxi drivers, bogeda clerks, and factory workers talking about going home and having their pick of underage girls. They talk about it blatantly and openly, and don't care if anyone overhears them.

They make no bones about it and stress the underage part like it's something to be proud of. It will continue unless the laws in the DR are enforced, which is why so many Dominican men living abroad love their country, because the laws there are a joke. I don't even know if such dalliances are specifically against Dominican law.

As far as this being a cultural phenomenon, it's only like that for the men. If it were so culturally ingrained, they'd be doing the same thing here with young Dominican girls, but they can't. Even the most humble Section 8 dwelling loser chica has more options than a greasy old pervert who stacks shelves in a grocery store, and I don't know of one Dominican family that would condone such behavior unless the guy was loaded. Even then it's not something you see very often.

But these guys get away with what they do because they (for the most part) live in remote campos, where anything goes, more so than in the big cities, if you can believe that.

There's no reason why a man in his 40's should have an underage novia. None. But that's not how it is in the land of "Anything Goes".

Berzin, there is the old bromide that water finds its own level. most of the guys to whom you allude in your piece have the intellectual firepower of 12 year olds, anyway, so they will always look to find children to complete them. these people are not compatible with anyone who has read anything more academically stimulating than the Macy?s catalog.
 

corsair74

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A friend of mine threw a party for some girl's 15th birthday, I forgot what this event is called but it's big in Latin American cultures.

It's called a "Quincea?era." They're a huge event in Mexican communities. So I've attended a few with friends growing up in Texas. Didn't know they did them in the Caribbean.

Any man in his 40's and dating a 15-16yr old girl is a scumbag. Culture be damned.
 

robbiee

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so why it's so easy to stigmatize dominican culture without admitting that in other countries same things happen ? it's without any logic, and you know that.
btw. from which country was that famous canibal in last 20 years ? was it Germany or Austria ? :-D
I am not much interested in US culture and the numerous killings going on there.
This is a forum about the Dominican Republic.

donP
 

robbiee

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uhum..you know.... it's natural for the men to be attracted to young and sexy girls. I'm talking about 16-17 years old, not 10 years old
Dominicans just do what is natural, while people in US stigmatize it, yet dream about sexy young girls and watch porn with "barely legal teens"
ah these puritans. without them, any shrink wouldnt have a job :-D
A friend of mine threw a party for some girl's 15th birthday, I forgot what this event is called but it's big in Latin American cultures.

Sitting at a table was a Dominican man clearly in his mid-late 40's with an underaged girl. He flew from the states to be with her at this event. I would say she was 16 years old tops. They were sitting at a table with her whole family, and these weren't chopos, either. None were invited to this party. The family seemed not to be bothered at all, and if they did not condone the relationship he wouldn't have been sitting next to her with his arm wrapped around her for most of the evening.

The reason why I'm getting sick and tired of my local gym, convenient as it is, is I have to be subjected to these types of conversations-aging Dominican taxi drivers, bogeda clerks, and factory workers talking about going home and having their pick of underage girls. They talk about it blatantly and openly, and don't care if anyone overhears them.

They make no bones about it and stress the underage part like it's something to be proud of. It will continue unless the laws in the DR are enforced, which is why so many Dominican men living abroad love their country, because the laws there are a joke. I don't even know if such dalliances are specifically against Dominican law.

As far as this being a cultural phenomenon, it's only like that for the men. If it were so culturally ingrained, they'd be doing the same thing here with young Dominican girls, but they can't. Even the most humble Section 8 dwelling loser chica has more options than a greasy old pervert who stacks shelves in a grocery store, and I don't know of one Dominican family that would condone such behavior unless the guy was loaded. Even then it's not something you see very often.

But these guys get away with what they do because they (for the most part) live in remote campos, where anything goes, more so than in the big cities, if you can believe that.

There's no reason why a man in his 40's should have an underage novia. None. But that's not how it is in the land of "Anything Goes".
 
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corsair74

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uhum..you know.... it's natural for the men to be attracted to young and sexy girls. I'm talking about 16-17 years old, not 10 years old
Dominicans just do what is natural, while people in US stigmatize it, yet dream about sexy young girls and watch porn with "barely legal teens"
ah these puritans. without them, any shrink wouldnt have a job :-D

Let's be clear. Men who prey upon 16-17 year olds do so, not because it's natural, but because such girls are naive and easy to get in the sack. Their minds are hardly developed, and all they really want is attention (and sometimes a father figure). Now this can be said for a lot of adult women as well. But it's the rule for adolescent girls.

Don't try to justify scumbag behavior by saying that it's natural.