I was talking to my friend of 31 years, Ramon, who recently moved to the DR after planning it for what seemed like 20 years, and I asked him a very simple question, "are you making it"?.
His answer was long and right to the point:
"why do you think that I was planning, saving and working like a dog for so many years?, it was because I wanted to have a much better life when I relocate to the DR. I did not want to be worrying about from where my next meal was coming from. What's the point if I came here to have the same problems that I had in the US. Can you imagine, after working so hard, for me to live worse". He continued with:
"See, my plan was to not work for anybody after moving here, so I made sure to have my own businesses before getting here. I was not going to be seeing behind a motorconcho, so I shipped my cars over. I was not going to pay rent and live just about anywhere, so I bought a few land lots and built my own home. I want electricity and water 24/7, I made all the arrangement to have them 24/7. I am making it because I worked very hard to have what I have and I will not settle for nothing but the best for me and my family. If I did not settle for the best, then why sacrifice myself for so many years".
And:
"There's a woman here, from Germany, that I really do not know what this woman is doing here. She is the perfect example of what not to do when relocating to the DR. She claims to be very happy but how happy can she be when sometimes she has to borrow money to pay the rent even though her rent is like 3,000 pesos, how happy can she be when she lives in a run-down apartment that has less furniture than a desert, how happy can she be when she is always complaining about not having enough money to eat at a decent restaurant, how happy can she be when all she takes are motorconchos because she does not have a car and they are cheaper, how happy can she be when the only people that befriend her are at her same economical level, how happy can she be when almost everybody think that she is a joke for being a foreigner and being poorer than a poor Dominican, how happy can she be when her boyfriend is nothing more than a lowlife that only uses her for sex and does not help her at all.......". Also:
"She claims that she has made it, now, you tell me, how can anybody claim to have made it when their lives are in such shambles and are much worse than the way they lived back home, how?". (Btw, when I wanted to give him DR1's address so he can post his "I made it" story, all he said was " are you kidding me, I will pack my bags, hop into the car with my young son and wife and I will be driving to Pedernales and stay there for 2 weeks, just for the heck of it, see I don't have to worry about anything")
There are so many people claiming to have "made it" when in fact they are poorer than a poor Dominican. How can that be?. I mean, what's your definition of "I made it"?.
In my book, if you, after relocating to the DR, have to live paycheck by paycheck, if you live worse than you did before relocating, if you have to worry about "not spending on this" or "not spending on that" because you can not afford it, if you can't not go to a fine restaurant every now and then, if you don't live better or similar to what you are used to, if ALL you attracts are lowlives who live just like you, if MOST people in your town look down on you, if you have to work like a dog for "pennies"...., to me THAT'S NOT MAKING IT. It's just SURVIVING!.
People, the great Dominican breeze, the amazing Dominican people, the beautiful Dominicans beaches or the good Dominican culture DO NOT PAY THE BILLS!.
So, people, as a person who will eventually relocate to the DR, and since I know what MY definition of "I made it" is, what's yours?.
NOTE, NOTE, NOTE, NOTE, NOTE, NOTE:
Remember that this is a question and as in any question, YOUR answer can be challenged. If you don't want to be challenged, POR FAVOR, do not post. If you do, DO NOT get annoyed if and when SOME members challenges your logics and opinions. AGAIN, if you can not take it, STAY AWAY!!!!!.
His answer was long and right to the point:
"why do you think that I was planning, saving and working like a dog for so many years?, it was because I wanted to have a much better life when I relocate to the DR. I did not want to be worrying about from where my next meal was coming from. What's the point if I came here to have the same problems that I had in the US. Can you imagine, after working so hard, for me to live worse". He continued with:
"See, my plan was to not work for anybody after moving here, so I made sure to have my own businesses before getting here. I was not going to be seeing behind a motorconcho, so I shipped my cars over. I was not going to pay rent and live just about anywhere, so I bought a few land lots and built my own home. I want electricity and water 24/7, I made all the arrangement to have them 24/7. I am making it because I worked very hard to have what I have and I will not settle for nothing but the best for me and my family. If I did not settle for the best, then why sacrifice myself for so many years".
And:
"There's a woman here, from Germany, that I really do not know what this woman is doing here. She is the perfect example of what not to do when relocating to the DR. She claims to be very happy but how happy can she be when sometimes she has to borrow money to pay the rent even though her rent is like 3,000 pesos, how happy can she be when she lives in a run-down apartment that has less furniture than a desert, how happy can she be when she is always complaining about not having enough money to eat at a decent restaurant, how happy can she be when all she takes are motorconchos because she does not have a car and they are cheaper, how happy can she be when the only people that befriend her are at her same economical level, how happy can she be when almost everybody think that she is a joke for being a foreigner and being poorer than a poor Dominican, how happy can she be when her boyfriend is nothing more than a lowlife that only uses her for sex and does not help her at all.......". Also:
"She claims that she has made it, now, you tell me, how can anybody claim to have made it when their lives are in such shambles and are much worse than the way they lived back home, how?". (Btw, when I wanted to give him DR1's address so he can post his "I made it" story, all he said was " are you kidding me, I will pack my bags, hop into the car with my young son and wife and I will be driving to Pedernales and stay there for 2 weeks, just for the heck of it, see I don't have to worry about anything")
There are so many people claiming to have "made it" when in fact they are poorer than a poor Dominican. How can that be?. I mean, what's your definition of "I made it"?.
In my book, if you, after relocating to the DR, have to live paycheck by paycheck, if you live worse than you did before relocating, if you have to worry about "not spending on this" or "not spending on that" because you can not afford it, if you can't not go to a fine restaurant every now and then, if you don't live better or similar to what you are used to, if ALL you attracts are lowlives who live just like you, if MOST people in your town look down on you, if you have to work like a dog for "pennies"...., to me THAT'S NOT MAKING IT. It's just SURVIVING!.
People, the great Dominican breeze, the amazing Dominican people, the beautiful Dominicans beaches or the good Dominican culture DO NOT PAY THE BILLS!.
So, people, as a person who will eventually relocate to the DR, and since I know what MY definition of "I made it" is, what's yours?.
NOTE, NOTE, NOTE, NOTE, NOTE, NOTE:
Remember that this is a question and as in any question, YOUR answer can be challenged. If you don't want to be challenged, POR FAVOR, do not post. If you do, DO NOT get annoyed if and when SOME members challenges your logics and opinions. AGAIN, if you can not take it, STAY AWAY!!!!!.
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