I am married to someone frm Dominican and he drained me bone dry. Not a chance in hell he's comin here to finish the job!! It is a hard lesson learned!:ermm:
I am married to someone frm Dominican and he drained me bone dry. Not a chance in hell he's comin here to finish the job!! It is a hard lesson learned!:ermm:
Thanks so much for your kind words. It will take me a while to get out of debt. However, I just want to be able to help someone else from going through what I am. It is very difficult to face my co-workers and friends but all have been supportive. I feel very stupid and used at this point but as time passes I will heal I am sure!
I am married to someone frm Dominican and he drained me bone dry. Not a chance in hell he's comin here to finish the job!! It is a hard lesson learned!:ermm:
Dont dwell on it and dont feel a fool for too long, we all make mistakes and are taken for a ride one way or another, the important thing is that you caught on ON TIME, before it got any worse.
You have lost some money and time, but you havent lost your self respect as you are smart enough to have put an end to it and no stay on like some do. And more importantly you have gained some knowledge, hard lesson to learn, but draw out the good from it.
Dont worry so much about what others are thinking or saying, at the end of the day, what matters is you picking up the pieces and moving along. GOOD LUCK
would you mind telling us what happened? Time line? how did you guys meet?
how long were you together, his family? his change etc? Maybe someone else reading can see some signs and not fall prey to someone else.
Ladies.. I fell in love with a nice, sweet Dominican man and then married him. All was good until I got married. Then all of the sudden he didn't work anymore, he needed money for everything. He has bled me dry and I owe thousands of dollars. I was still in the process of getting him to Canada. I have withdrawn my application to sponsor him after a very valuable lesson. When I met him, people told me to be careful!! However.. he seemed ok!! I have been sankified!! Please..please..please be careful!! Even though your man seems genuine, he may not be in the long run. Sorry if I have gotten anyones backs up but I am just trying to save someone the same grief and humiliation!! My back was up when I was warned and I must say I have learned a very valuable lesson I will never forget!
I told a story of my life I was trying to flee. He was very sypathetic! I did feel like I had found my soul mate for life...my best friend! He promised he would make me happy and be there for me! I know I shouldn't have kept giving money...however, I am the type of person that tries to help everyone and doesn't ask for much in return. For those people that wonder how it could go so far... you don't know until you walk in the shoes!!