In my experience there are most definitely two types of catcalls - flirtatious comments intended as genuine compliments, and the more menacing, crude comments intended to intimidate and humiliate. In some countries being accompanied by a man renders you invisible/off limits, in others it doesn't make a blind bit of difference.
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10 Hours of Walking in NYC as a Woman
You have three types of women in the world
FUTURE WIVES
ENABLERS
BOOTYCALLS aka HOT REAL LIFE SEX TOYS!!!
A future wife is a woman who is treated TOTALLY different then a "bootycall" form A TO Z!!! Many men make the mistake marrying a booty call which turns into a living nightmare. Future wives get diamonds while a bootycalls may get a diner at "FRIDAYS" Do not ever believe that myth that bootycalls receive the same things as a "future wife because they don't. Future wives were never courted with catcalls on the street.
Enablers are just what they are. Give money to the guy, let guys use their car, buy their kids by a different woman cloths and toys, pay for trips etc. The whole nine. A man can spot an enabler a mile away and that is why most of them are almost NEVER single because the benefits are just as good as a "bootycall" Enablers were never courted with catcalls on the street. It takes more finesse with them.
A bootycall is a woman who gives HOT sex and do things a man can never ask the "future wife to perform. On the beach, bathroom at the movies, back of a car, may even bring her cousin or GF to have 2 vs 1 action. Booytcall women courted 99% on street. Men have a one track mind and are not complicated and when they see a woman on the street and come with their nonsense they are only trying to BONE!!! nothing more.
I can tell you the woman in the video is viewed as a potential "bootycall" without a shadow of a doubt. When men do the catcall thing it is to try and increase their bootycall number in their life period. Most of the time it ends up a dead end, but hey what do they have to lose. A woman labeled a 9 or 10 will most likely not receive this sort of attention because to date a 9 or 10 take a lot more then" Hey baby or Oye mami where are you going"
BTW A 10 is a 10 no matter who you are. The number 10 is the only number that can say this. 9,7, 6, 5 etc . may very depending on the gentleman but NOT 10 because MEN only use this number when there is no doubt.
The woman in the video is a woman the guys would not mind having sex with PERIOD!!!! I doubt any of them would want to take her home and show her to mom not that it is anything wrong with her. Sex and LUST is driving their behavior more then anything else.
Exactly and I think these real problems become trivialized, then labeled with anti-feminist rants when someone like that make this type of video.
I think Chiri was zeroing in on this with her post
when saying this...
In my experience there are most definitely two types of catcalls - flirtatious comments intended as genuine compliments, and the more menacing, crude comments intended to intimidate and humiliate. In some countries being accompanied by a man renders you invisible/off limits, in others it doesn't make a blind bit of difference.
when saying this...
In my experience there are most definitely two types of catcalls - flirtatious comments intended as genuine compliments, and the more menacing, crude comments intended to intimidate and humiliate. In some countries being accompanied by a man renders you invisible/off limits, in others it doesn't make a blind bit of difference.
True, but in NYC (the topic of the video), I have NEVER heard or received a crude comment.
Here in NYC, being with a man would stop the comments, but not the looks/stare, being with children will tone down the comments too.
It s temporary anyway. Never seen catcalls on a 50 yr old. :smoke:
Well, I grew up in the Middle East and the Mediterranean and have travelled in those regions as well as in Latin America and Eastern and Western Europe.
Creepiest experiences - Egypt (with female travelling companion), and Turkey, Romania and Nicaragua - even accompanied by male partners.
A lot of women complain about Spain and Italy, probably for the relentlessness and inevitability of the constant barrage of catcalls than the nature/spirit of the comments.
But I have to say, the most consistently aggressive and menacing comments I experienced were in the UK.
Creepiest experiences - Egypt (with female travelling companion), and Turkey, Romania and Nicaragua - even accompanied by male partners.
A lot of women complain about Spain and Italy, probably for the relentlessness and inevitability of the constant barrage of catcalls than the nature/spirit of the comments.
But I have to say, the most consistently aggressive and menacing comments I experienced were in the UK.
Italy is something else (worse in the south) !!!!!!!!!! As a Black woman, you are viewed as a freakin' sex goddess/object or something (my theory). They would ask a male friend to move to the side so that they can take a better look at you. Relentlessness is an understatement.
What a bunch of lowlife losers in that video......
Including the chicky who thinks shes all that......
Paleeze!!
Including the chicky who thinks shes all that......
Paleeze!!
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She seems to be enough of All That to inspire all those comments from the aforementioned lowlifes.
That's what's most disturbing.......
She's gotta lay off the Captain crunch, and put the Hershey bars down......
Hey,
To each his own.....
I guess.....
I have a friend who is from the Boston area and he showed me photos of a wedding and all I can say is WOW!!!!!
BTW I won't say if that is a good wow or bad wow LOL
Once more WOW!!!!!!!!
weren't they the ones who covered piano legs??
they've been starved for centuries
and then they have the immigrants/newcomers
a new world for them
a free-for-all....
no veils , or robes... FLESH !!!
WOW
I tell you.... women aren't easy
I'm married to someone between a 1 and a 10.... depending on your spectacles
the one thing that really gets her is when she flubs something.......
and I forgive her with.........
well, you're pretty.....
just steams her
Once, out skiing...
i was incapacitated from the airport, ......unloading, my back goes
I was toast the whole week.. but I could drive
I had them early to the hills in spot AAA111.... right next to Stein Erikson
End of the day - as we're leaving, some cool cat is waiting for my primo spot
THe wife bungles the skis... the poles.... the boots.... u name it
they all fly to anywhere
(never been her job, right?)
He looks at me .... I look at him
I say....
but she's pretty - huh?
Oh Noooo, says he,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, she's beautiful.......
he was lucky to escape with his life.... she went after him ... with a ski pole
yes. he got the parking space
yes , we wedged all the gear into the car
sometimes , a compliment comes off wrong....
whenever I need space, I recount that story..
I'm married to someone between a 1 and a 10.... depending on your spectacles
the one thing that really gets her is when she flubs something.......
and I forgive her with.........
well, you're pretty.....
just steams her
Once, out skiing...
i was incapacitated from the airport, ......unloading, my back goes
I was toast the whole week.. but I could drive
I had them early to the hills in spot AAA111.... right next to Stein Erikson
End of the day - as we're leaving, some cool cat is waiting for my primo spot
THe wife bungles the skis... the poles.... the boots.... u name it
they all fly to anywhere
(never been her job, right?)
He looks at me .... I look at him
I say....
but she's pretty - huh?
Oh Noooo, says he,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, she's beautiful.......
he was lucky to escape with his life.... she went after him ... with a ski pole
yes. he got the parking space
yes , we wedged all the gear into the car
sometimes , a compliment comes off wrong....
whenever I need space, I recount that story..
I was walking in Herrera in Santo Domingo arm-in-arm with two young ladies. I found this to be odd, especially as the one I was messing with was extremely jealous.
Them came the catcalls from the tigeres.
One of them said "Oye Cano, la dos son tuya?" It turned the girls on to no end, which is probably why they did it.
Them came the catcalls from the tigeres.
One of them said "Oye Cano, la dos son tuya?" It turned the girls on to no end, which is probably why they did it.
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I once worked on a Norwegian cargo ship.
I was the lowest of the low.
A Canadian who paid on in Montreal when they were desperate and needed a body.
I don't really have any complaints.
I made a fair bit of money and had a heck of an experience.
I do recall that the "chef" in the galley (kitchen) felt that he pretty much was the boss and could do whatever he wanted.
He had the habit of reaching out and grabbing the ladys' tits.
Hard.
He made the ladies feel more than uncomfortable.
Bastardo.
Hey...
What gives them the right to make a lady feel uncomfortable?
I was the lowest of the low.
A Canadian who paid on in Montreal when they were desperate and needed a body.
I don't really have any complaints.
I made a fair bit of money and had a heck of an experience.
I do recall that the "chef" in the galley (kitchen) felt that he pretty much was the boss and could do whatever he wanted.
He had the habit of reaching out and grabbing the ladys' tits.
Hard.
He made the ladies feel more than uncomfortable.
Bastardo.
Hey...
What gives them the right to make a lady feel uncomfortable?