Thank you! Finally someone that makes some sense without rambling on and on
DR1 member: what a beautiful sunny day we are having in the DR
AZB: you people have no idea what you are talking about, you don't live here and will only get to see the barrio sun along with your barrio friends while we sit with educated girls with pelo bueno and enjoy the sun that most of you will never know. Even if you live here 30 years you will never know the sun I and very few of my friends know.:cheeky:
It's the same spin no matter what you say so I have no idea why people bother.
Well the delivery may be harsh but the message is valid. It may be more enjoyable to be here if you didnt concentrate all your time and efforts with the economically destitute people. Those people arent as capable of showing you a good time nor engaging your wits(if you have them) as those who have stable careers. And there is that notion that your sole purpose is to make THEIR life easier(by remuneration of funds). This is where the duplicity comes in.
Because to clarify SOME of the girls are good. This you wont know until you talk to them. And SOME of them havent had opportunities. SOME of them squandered them and SOME of them are just poisonous. Now I talk to them. But talking is not BUYING A HOUSE, GETTING THEM A PASOLA, PAYING UTILITY BILLS, GETTING A REFRIGERATOR, nor MARRYING. Nothing apart from my entertainment.
I have met a lot of poor women, real nice but unable to support a relationship(with me) just from the incessant lack of.... And then you get the ones who ask you for everything under the sun(as a loan) or proffer that with "if you cant help me out to give me what you can".
I disagree with some of what he was saying because you have all kinds of people in all kinds of situation, but we all have to acknowledge the stupidity in "Hey guys I dont know what to do. I got my girlfriend pregnant and I dont like her. She s a reformed hooker and I m not sure the baby is mine. But I think so because it has a big oblong head like me. I want to be there and support her and blah, blah, blah" Who cannot laugh at this? Especially when the dude tried to rationalize starting a relationship with a hooker in the 1st place.
Plus I dont know if it is the best that they can do vs. they just dont want to try any harder than this. I figure, if a guy was neglected by women in his own society he ll grab the 1st thing that smiles and says "hola". Couple that with being pretty and he s calling it a life.
The OP asked if he could meet(read:score) women on the Internet social programs. I said then as I do now, if the women is on there she is in play. But then he had this whole idea like she was a cookie or something and she would melt at his touch. And that there would shared splendor long unknown by humankind as she unleashed her inner yearnings and was ravished by the daunty foreigner from the North. He would embrace her as she felt the powerful grip of his hairy arms and the pungent odor of his Captain Caveman mouthwash. She would look into his eyes and feel herself burning like a little school girl burning in a school made of toilet paper and twigs.
I was like GTFOH!
My only grievance is that middle class here is still a pejorative term. And the possessions that come with it are relative too. If average wage is $280, middle class I guess is in the range of $400-500/month?
