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you could go to theforceinme's little get together in mi tavera (I dont know how to do the link to his thread)- I beleive hes a nice man even if he does think im a woman in the chatroom
you could go to theforceinme's little get together in mi tavera (I dont know how to do the link to his thread)- I beleive hes a nice man even if he does think im a woman in the chatroom
I'm an American whose been here 5 + years, started a business, married a Dominican man, had two kids and am now separating (yes the classic tale). Between business and children I now realize that I don't really have friends outside of my professional connections and it feels isolating.
So I thought this might be a place to start to connect with others, especially other moms or professional women in the capital.
Also, if anyone has an suggestions on how to tap into the ex-pat community beside hanging out and having a beer I'd much appreciate. I'm a bit daunted by how to do this.
Creativeliza,
Good for you making the step to connect with people here. I know that I don't post much but I too am American and have been here for 4 years. I'm in Bavaro and good friends with Laura (hey girl!) and if you are ever in the area please let us know and we can all get together. Sorry to hear about your separation but I can completely identify with the isolation at times. Now don't jump down my throat guys but I understand what you mean also about hanging out at places other than bars. Don't get me wrong, bars are fine but being from NY, I'm more of a cafe type of girl, myself.
Laura when the hell are you moving closer to me so I don't isolate?!?!?!
I'm a young woman with zero experience in the men department and perhaps some of you can enlighten me on the rules of dating-while-you're-still-married game. It seems to me that you must first make sure you won't aggravate your situation further by wanting to (however innocent) establish lazos with people whom other's in the family may consider to be a thread to the family's constitution.
I don't pretend to know what the "rules of engagement" are in the DR, but my parents tought me, and common sense confirms in me, albeit my limited experience, that you finish off a relationship before starting another.
Again, I don't mean to come on as a "party pooper" or "una fresca ignorante", but it just seems to be one of those situations that call for a lot of tact and consideration for your still-married-to-you-husband, before venturing into making outside friends. Please don't hate me for speaking my mind. I'm a total prude and see things from different angles. Peace and happiness to you.
Creativeliza, I wrongly assumed that you wanted more than a casual friendship with other women. But still, I have to wonder what consequences there might be if traveling to see friends in other cities, could be construe by suspicious people (like me), as a romantic rendenvouz with men. Again, I'm not trying to be negative here. I'm saying that in places like Colombia and, I assume the DR, Women don't have the freedom to come and go without people pointing fingers. Perhaps I'm being a little paranoid. Never mind. Have fun and keep us posted please.
I'm a young woman with zero experience in the men department
Creativeliza, I wrongly assumed that you wanted more than a casual friendship with other women.
This is all too funny, a bunch of strangers commenting here and the chismes or gossip already started.......:laugh::laugh: