Musicqueen said:...to BushBaby and the rest of the posters...
I understand where it could be annoying...but you are trying to change a WHOLE COUNTRY AND IT'S CULTURE!!!
How would you like it if the same thing was done to you back in your old countries?
You chose to live there, I think nobody forced you to do it...so now you must learn to live with it!
Dominicans don't think they are being rude by playing their music loud...they think EVERYONE enjoys it as much as they do!!!
Even here, when I visit my dominican friends, we could be just talking and the music is blaring!!!
Really people...I would take your place anytime...anybody want to switch with me?? I dare anyone to come live in Miami...and deal with REALLY RUDE people!!!
How little you know of me & my attitude to the Dominican people O Music Queen!!! The fact that something displeases me does NOT mean I am trying to change "the Whole country & it's Culture". Perhaps your desire to inflame this post caused you to overstate what was actually said by others & myself?? The fact that ANY person causes discomfort to MY ears, gives me the right to try & explain that I am being physically hurt, would prefer it if they reduced the volume to show some consideration to me IN THE SAME WAY THAT I RESPECT & HAVE CONSIDERATION FOR THEM!!! Living together is a two way process & we must all give & take to get on in life together. Start with noise abatement & we can then develope into other areas that give COMMUNUAL respect & understanding!!
How do you know I have not "learned to live with their culture" ?? The fact that I speak up against something does not mean I do not understand or accept their culture?? I have lived here 12 years now & think I possibly have a greater understanding of that culture than many others that post here, BUT, .... the fact that something is "their Culture" does not make it their "Right" & does not mean it can not be challenged!! All I am doing is challenging their right (ANYONE'S right, not just Dominicans) to offend my person by lack of consideration!!
I have two or three people who would be happy to swap places with you & come & live in Miami. Please send me your details by PM & I will handle the arrangements with pleasure. Your challenge is accepted!! - Grahame.