Allow me to clarify.
Let me clarify. I dont know too much about NYC. I have been there a few times, but at any rate, those cases were not what I am talking about. I can speak of my experiences here in Ohio, and I can also speak of the instances of people I know well. I too "yes sir" the police in the US, DR, and everywhere else I have encountered them I have never been confrontational, nor have I been arrested or physically abused. I have been stopped in the US more times than I can count for "looking suspicious." In every case I was driving a nice car in a nice neighborhood and not violating any traffic laws. The only thing I can think of, and I would love to be wrong on my reasoning, was because I was black in a non-black suburb. This has happened to me several times, both in the Cleveland and Columbus Area. In the Cleveland suburb of Willoughby, I was pulled over and accused of stealing a pack of cigarretes from a convenience store giving the police an excuse to search my car. I dont smoke, and didnt even have an ashtray or cigarrete lighter in the car I had at the time. I have been harrassed by the police in Valdosta Georgia while driving to Florida from Ohio. Not just stopped, really really harrased. That is one of the counties where they have a civil forfeiture racket, where they try to confiscate your car to fund the county system. They dont even have to accuse you of a crime. I am sure you have heard of it. it is the same way the feds can confiscate cash from a traveller at an airport if he has more than $10K on is person. They dont need to accuse you of anything.
Now, in the Dominican Republic I can blend in at least until I open my mouth. I agree with you that there are bad cops in the DR, US, Canada, everywhere. I am aware of what happened with those cops murdering the suspects they had in custody. They were wrong, and I hope they get what they deserve just like I hope we cook those cops in NYC who beat up that innocent Hatian and shot that innocent African.
But the petty stuff like the customs guy who asked me for a few bucks cause he didn't feel like searching my suitcases the day after christmas, or the two traffic cops who "allowed me to pay the fine to them (after all, I was driving down the wrong way on a one way street...but it wasnt marked! and, it was my very first trip, a long time ago) is a far far cry from the stuff I have gone through here in the US, and I have been lucky, blessed, smart, whatever that I havent had any situation escalated. maybe because I sit there and let the cerdo bastards get on with their ego trip.
Sometimes I wonder if I really want to bring my fianc? here from San Pedro. What will her experiences be?