Dating Dominicana

[guayaba79]

I've seen read some posts of others getting flamed or ridiculed for posting about their relationship experience here or asking for advice when the topic of "she asked for money" get's written. First let me say, all woman, no matter what country you live in, want something from a man. It could be her looking for someone to live with, someone to move in with her and help share her bills within her house, getting taken out to fancy restaurants.. The list goes on and on. I also lived most of my life in the NYC area, Washington Heights, Queens NY, so I am very familiar with the Dominican culture. Asking for support is semi-normal, especially hair and nail money and no not all of them do it, some ask sooner than others and others may never ask because they are to independent and prideful (not because they don't want gifts, money or help, they all want that)...

As someone in his 40's, previously married for 12 years (to a Dominican woman I met in NYC) and dated and experienced plenty, I can say with some certainty, unless your in your 20's or early 30's at most, the dating pool for quality gets smaller and smaller as you move up in age. Most 40 year old woman have kids here in the U.S.. The ones that don't is often a red flag (unless they have some sort of fertility issue), and as I already said, they all WANT something from a man.

With that said, don't run from a woman because she asked you for money, especially if she is a piece of eye candy in her mid to late 20's.. Because at the end of the day, all woman want something, and if I'm providing any kind of support, I'd rather do it for eye candy, over a woman in her 40's with a few kids that looks worn and out of shape Just be careful providing support and use common sense, ask for receipts if you want to verify, meet her family, do your due diligence...and have fun, you may end up being surprised.

 

[Big]

Good post! Beer is on me.

 

[JLSawmam]

I've seen read some posts of others getting flamed or ridiculed for posting about their relationship experience here or asking for advice when the topic of "she asked for money" get's written. First let me say, all woman, no matter what country you live in, want something from a man. It could be her looking for someone to live with, someone to move in with her and help share her bills within her house, getting taken out to fancy restaurants.. The list goes on and on. I also lived most of my life in the NYC area, Washington Heights, Queens NY, so I am very familiar with the Dominican culture. Asking for support is semi-normal, especially hair and nail money and no not all of them do it, some ask sooner than others and others may never ask because they are to independent and prideful (not because they don't want gifts, money or help, they all want that)...

As someone in his 40's, previously married for 12 years (to a Dominican woman I met in NYC) and dated and experienced plenty, I can say with some certainty, unless your in your 20's or early 30's at most, the dating pool for quality gets smaller and smaller as you move up in age. Most 40 year old woman have kids here in the U.S.. The ones that don't is often a red flag (unless they have some sort of fertility issue), and as I already said, they all WANT something from a man.

With that said, don't run from a woman because she asked you for money, especially if she is a piece of eye candy in her mid to late 20's.. Because at the end of the day, all woman want something, and if I'm providing any kind of support, I'd rather do it for eye candy, over a woman in her 40's with a few kids that looks worn and out of shape Just be careful providing support and use common sense, ask for receipts if you want to verify, meet her family, do your due diligence...and have fun, you may end up being surprised.

And remember, that description applies to many of us guys...

 

[Winkeladvocat]

I've seen read some posts of others getting flamed or ridiculed for posting about their relationship experience here or asking for advice when the topic of "she asked for money" get's written. First let me say, all woman, no matter what country you live in, want something from a man. It could be her looking for someone to live with, someone to move in with her and help share her bills within her house, getting taken out to fancy restaurants.. The list goes on and on. I also lived most of my life in the NYC area, Washington Heights, Queens NY, so I am very familiar with the Dominican culture. Asking for support is semi-normal, especially hair and nail money and no not all of them do it, some ask sooner than others and others may never ask because they are to independent and prideful (not because they don't want gifts, money or help, they all want that)...

As someone in his 40's, previously married for 12 years (to a Dominican woman I met in NYC) and dated and experienced plenty, I can say with some certainty, unless your in your 20's or early 30's at most, the dating pool for quality gets smaller and smaller as you move up in age. Most 40 year old woman have kids here in the U.S.. The ones that don't is often a red flag (unless they have some sort of fertility issue), and as I already said, they all WANT something from a man.

With that said, don't run from a woman because she asked you for money, especially if she is a piece of eye candy in her mid to late 20's.. Because at the end of the day, all woman want something, and if I'm providing any kind of support, I'd rather do it for eye candy, over a woman in her 40's with a few kids that looks worn and out of shape Just be careful providing support and use common sense, ask for receipts if you want to verify, meet her family, do your due diligence...and have fun, you may end up being surprised.

Funny post - I like!

 

[Notengo]

Or, start with one in her 40’s, kids done and away, still eye candy, with a foreign passport and financially independent. She pays my bills.

 

[jd426]

Go Meet her Family is the smartest thing you Posted .. Once you do that , and if you have any kind of Street Smarts , you should be able figure out the whole picture. Even how she goes about it will tell you what you need to know.

As to the rest of your Post , imma pass on responding to .

 

[JD Jones]

Preaching to the choir, my friend.

 

[keepcoming]

Very enlightening thread by the OP....

 

[guayaba79]

And remember, that description applies to many of us guys...

I admit I let myself go the past year, luckily I can still see the equipment when looking down, but i could lose a good 10 lbs lol

 

[guayaba79]

Funny post - I like!

The old adage.. You get what you pay for.. Holds true.

 

[MariaRubia]

I've seen read some posts of others getting flamed or ridiculed for posting about their relationship experience here or asking for advice when the topic of "she asked for money" get's written. First let me say, all woman, no matter what country you live in, want something from a man. It could be her looking for someone to live with, someone to move in with her and help share her bills within her house, getting taken out to fancy restaurants.. The list goes on and on. I also lived most of my life in the NYC area, Washington Heights, Queens NY, so I am very familiar with the Dominican culture. Asking for support is semi-normal, especially hair and nail money and no not all of them do it, some ask sooner than others and others may never ask because they are to independent and prideful (not because they don't want gifts, money or help, they all want that)...

As someone in his 40's, previously married for 12 years (to a Dominican woman I met in NYC) and dated and experienced plenty, I can say with some certainty, unless your in your 20's or early 30's at most, the dating pool for quality gets smaller and smaller as you move up in age. Most 40 year old woman have kids here in the U.S.. The ones that don't is often a red flag (unless they have some sort of fertility issue), and as I already said, they all WANT something from a man.

With that said, don't run from a woman because she asked you for money, especially if she is a piece of eye candy in her mid to late 20's.. Because at the end of the day, all woman want something, and if I'm providing any kind of support, I'd rather do it for eye candy, over a woman in her 40's with a few kids that looks worn and out of shape Just be careful providing support and use common sense, ask for receipts if you want to verify, meet her family, do your due diligence...and have fun, you may end up being surprised.

Great, another sexist man who views all women as users and those over 40 as ugly and out of shape. Like seriously WTF.

I am significantly richer than my partner, I have always run and owned businesses, I went to an extremely good university and I'm nobody's fool. And I'm also not ugly and not fat, despite being over 40. Just because you date women who are gold-diggers, please understand that there are millions of us out there who stand on our own two feet and don't need a man to pay for us. This said, I'm not a man-hater, I like nothing more than putting on a short skirt and high heels and I love male attention.

 

[guayaba79]

Great, another sexist man who views all women as users and those over 40 as ugly and out of shape. Like seriously WTF.

I am significantly richer than my partner, I have always run and owned businesses, I went to an extremely good university and I'm nobody's fool. And I'm also not ugly and not fat, despite being over 40. Just because you date women who are gold-diggers, please understand that there are millions of us out there who stand on our own two feet and don't need a man to pay for us. This said, I'm not a man-hater, I like nothing more than putting on a short skirt and high heels and I love male attention.

Not all woman.. there is always exceptions to the rule.. But let's not fool each other into believing relationships aren't a mutually beneficial arrangement.. and using someone doesn't always come in the form of money.. It could be their time, sex, company or other things...Men and woman want to know.... what's in it "for me"

 

[Big]

Not all woman.. there is always exceptions to the rule.. But let's not fool each other into believing relationships aren't a mutually beneficial arrangement.. and using someone doesn't always come in the form of money.. It could be their time, sex, company or other things...Men and woman want to know.... what's in it "for me"

I said a "beer"is on me, make that a Johny Walker blue.

 

[Big]

I like nothing more than putting on a short skirt and high heels and I love male attention.

Wow, I think we have finally found some common ground. I am speechless!

 

[josh2203]

I am significantly richer than my partner,

Male in late 30s here, my wife being 3 years younger than me... I have to mostly disagree with the OP as well, as the fact is, that practically always my wife's family has in fact had way more financial resources than me. They have been entrepreneurs for decades. My FIL even lent us money a decade ago as we were so broke that we could not even rent an apartment (I paid that back very promptly as I'm obviously not irresponsible, but still...). Obviously, that has changed radically.

But: I think in the DR it's also a cultural thing, as the male paying for stuff is a thing you would do in Latam countries, in EU not so much. Regardless, even when we where still novios, I paid for everything. But, there is a difference between asking for money and the male paying the tab, I think...

 

[JLSawmam]

Wow, I think we have finally found some common ground. I am speechless!

You realize that claim of common ground can be taken another way...be careful in those high heels, @Big !

 

[Notengo]

You realize that claim of common ground can be taken another way...be careful in those high heels, @Big !

Now I understand the real meaning of “gentlemen” clubs..

 

[Unit5]

Great, another sexist man who views all women as users and those over 40 as ugly and out of shape. Like seriously WTF.

I am significantly richer than my partner, I have always run and owned businesses, I went to an extremely good university and I'm nobody's fool. And I'm also not ugly and not fat, despite being over 40. Just because you date women who are gold-diggers, please understand that there are millions of us out there who stand on our own two feet and don't need a man to pay for us. This said, I'm not a man-hater, I like nothing more than putting on a short skirt and high heels and I love male attention.

Pics?

 

[drstock]

Most 40 year old woman have kids here in the U.S.. The ones that don't is often a red flag (unless they have some sort of fertility issue),

Why is not having kids a red flag?

 

[drstock]

Great, another sexist man who views all women as users and those over 40 as ugly and out of shape. Like seriously WTF.

I am significantly richer than my partner, I have always run and owned businesses, I went to an extremely good university and I'm nobody's fool. And I'm also not ugly and not fat, despite being over 40. Just because you date women who are gold-diggers, please understand that there are millions of us out there who stand on our own two feet and don't need a man to pay for us. This said, I'm not a man-hater, I like nothing more than putting on a short skirt and high heels and I love male attention.

I think the OP applies more to Dominican women (and maybe Americans - I don't know). I know plenty of over 40 European women, like you, who are in very good shape. By the way, I also know plenty of European women who are NOT in good shape, so you can't generalise.