Dating Rules That Work For You

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yacht chef

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Contigo fair enough, but after you spent a week of free sex wtih the gas station girl and she asked you for money at the end of the week did you still feal so successful?
 

Criss Colon

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"FREE PUSSY", just like a "Good 5cent Cigar",.......Does NOT EXIST!!!!!!!!
Tomorrow at Black Beard's I will PAY yet One More Time!!!!!!
Then she will leave, and I will smoke a Good Cigar,....a "5cent Cigar", that cost me $5.00!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The CIGAR will LAST a Looooooooooooooooot longer! :disappoin:disappoin:disappoin:disappoin:disappoin
 

mofongoloco

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Something tells me you have a standing invitation.

Can I hang out with you guys ? :smoke:

I am no label, my point to DV8 was just that men and women are not that different in that context. Both fall to the same things in the tropics.

As they say around my hood: Do You ! :)
 

Tamborista

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I have to say I respect the fact you admitted you needed to pay for it on a Public Forum... slow clap .... For me a successful one nighter is when they actually want to be with you... Everyone is different but I could never raise wood if dollars or pesos had to be exchanged...

So a car and new iPhone don't count payaso?
Remember she is doing the same thing with the next Gringo after dropping you off @ PUJ.
 

dv8

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I am no label, my point to DV8 was just that men and women are not that different in that context. Both fall to the same things in the tropics.

again, i disagree. you mentioned before that some men marry their putas. indeed, they do. and that's because it's a chevalier thing to do, to marry mother of your kids. not to mention those gringos must be pretty proud that not only their mothball jizz did not pass out halfway through the vaginal adventure but also managed to locate and pounce unsuspecting egg and fertilize it. it's quite a feat for a solitary sperm veteran who can barely make it to the exit without succumbing to a sudden gout attack.
 

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I have so few sperm that they get lonely!!!!!
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I think that far more men who have "Relationships", however BRIEF, with low life dominicanas, realize that it is just a business transaction, than women who think it's "True Love" with their "Sanky"!

Do you know the difference between "True Love",....and "Herpes"????????
"Herpes" lasts FOREVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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the gorgon

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again, i disagree. you mentioned before that some men marry their putas. indeed, they do. and that's because it's a chevalier thing to do, to marry mother of your kids. not to mention those gringos must be pretty proud that not only their mothball jizz did not pass out halfway through the vaginal adventure but also managed to locate and pounce unsuspecting egg and fertilize it. it's quite a feat for a solitary sperm veteran who can barely make it to the exit without succumbing to a sudden gout attack.

mothball jizz? now i have heard it all...
 

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again, i disagree. you mentioned before that some men marry their putas. indeed, they do. and that's because it's a chevalier thing to do, to marry mother of your kids. not to mention those gringos must be pretty proud that not only their mothball jizz did not pass out halfway through the vaginal adventure but also managed to locate and pounce unsuspecting egg and fertilize it. it's quite a feat for a solitary sperm veteran who can barely make it to the exit without succumbing to a sudden gout attack.



Too Funny!
 

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I have to say I respect the fact you admitted you needed to pay for it on a Public Forum... slow clap .... For me a successful one nighter is when they actually want to be with you... Everyone is different but I could never raise wood if dollars or pesos had to be exchanged...
If they didn't want to be with you there wouldn't be enough money in the world. It's simply a matter of convenience.
 

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Rules are always the same for me regardless of where I am.

I don't lie to women or lie to myself about them.
I don't pay for anything that I don't want to.
I set my own agenda. I do what I want to do. If you don't want to do what I'm doing, then we'll past ways for a while or forever.

While my experience is limited as tourist and it's silly to generalize about such a large group, dominicanas seem interesting. I like that they are so upfront and direct about what they want. It's refreshing in a weird way. Here are just my thoughts, observations, theory, or whatever

What's really wrong with a woman asking to be taken care of?

Every one I've ever been with did in one way or another. Some US women just go about it differently because they were from a society that frowns on that attitude. Instead of saying "give me money for the salon", they want to move in with you to save their own money to pay for the salon or similar games. They play their games, but instead of admitting to themselves that it is all about comfort and security, they calll it "love" and "attraction" because they were trained differently, but essentially the goals of some US women are the exact same. Leading cause of divorce is finances not infidelity. It a odd correlation between being broke and falling out of love.

If I lived in DR, the women attitudes wouldn't stop me from trying on a relationship with a dominicana. I'd expect it to be on the table that if security and a comfortable life isn't provided or she sees a better life she could have with someone else then she's gone. I thought that way with all women. I would expect her to try to get over on me for the sake of herself and her family as much as possible. It only makes sense. It is however a motivation that I can understand. Self interest is predictable. I would think you would know where you stood to some degree. I'm very good at saying no and staying firm to it, so I don't think it would scare me. I've always felt somewhat defensive in all my relationships with US women anyways, and no, it isn't because I got screwed in some way.

At least it sounds consistent. It sounds like an continuous stuggle for wealth and material possessions vs. some US women who make decisions based on love and attraction and even they don't know what the hell they'll do next.

At this point, feel free to call me any number of things! :cheeky:
 

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Rules are always the same for me regardless of where I am.

I don't lie to women or lie to myself about them.
I don't pay for anything that I don't want to.
I set my own agenda. I do what I want to do. If you don't want to do what I'm doing, then we'll past ways for a while or forever.

While my experience is limited as tourist and it's silly to generalize about such a large group, dominicanas seem interesting. I like that they are so upfront and direct about what they want. It's refreshing in a weird way. Here are just my thoughts, observations, theory, or whatever

What's really wrong with a woman asking to be taken care of?

Every one I've ever been with did in one way or another. Some US women just go about it differently because they were from a society that frowns on that attitude. Instead of saying "give me money for the salon", they want to move in with you to save their own money to pay for the salon or similar games. They play their games, but instead of admitting to themselves that it is all about comfort and security, they calll it "love" and "attraction" because they were trained differently, but essentially the goals of some US women are the exact same. Leading cause of divorce is finances not infidelity. It a odd correlation between being broke and falling out of love.

If I lived in DR, the women attitudes wouldn't stop me from trying on a relationship with a dominicana. I'd expect it to be on the table that if security and a comfortable life isn't provided or she sees a better life she could have with someone else then she's gone. I thought that way with all women. I would expect her to try to get over on me for the sake of herself and her family as much as possible. It only makes sense. It is however a motivation that I can understand. Self interest is predictable. I would think you would know where you stood to some degree. I'm very good at saying no and staying firm to it, so I don't think it would scare me. I've always felt somewhat defensive in all my relationships with US women anyways, and no, it isn't because I got screwed in some way.

At least it sounds consistent. It sounds like an continuous stuggle for wealth and material possessions vs. some US women who make decisions based on love and attraction and even they don't know what the hell they'll do next.

At this point, feel free to call me any number of things! :cheeky:
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dv8

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I like that they are so upfront and direct about what they want.

strangely, it only works it only works in DR. in europe/america a man who hears from a woman that she wants to introduce him to her family and have babies with him, would change his phone number and refer to her as "this crazy broad". and an american/european woman told by a guy that she's hot will make a viral video about street harassment and start a lets-castrate-all-men go fund me page.
 

Rustxko

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It is strange, but my personal take is that I'm more afraid of the ulterior motives of western women because I expect a complex plan/lie. "Hey, you're awesome. I want you to meet my family and have babies with you" would be something I'd hear as entrapment. The only options are that you immediately disengage or commit for a lifetime.

"Hey, someone stole by Samsung. Buy me a iphone 5" can be responded to in any number of ways. You can flat out say no and tell her if Jhonny wants to buy it for her, then go stay with Johnny. You can search for the phone to try to catch her in a lie and make a point.

Or you can do my personal favorite thing with women, which is to do nothing. Maintain a constant state of confused look and moderate intoxication then shrug and mumble if questioned on the subject. Wait 48 hours and in most of cases, the problems work themselves out. In this example, miraculously the phone will reappear and you just never talk about it again. If it doesn't, then you can decide what to do next.

As far as the 2nd part that's no joke, I accepted years ago that any compliment given to a woman that I don't have an established relationship in US, the woman is responding subconsciously with "manwhore just wants to sleep with me" at best or "this guy is a rapist" at worst.
 

dv8

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It is strange, but my personal take is that I'm more afraid of the ulterior motives of western women because I expect a complex plan/lie. "Hey, you're awesome. I want you to meet my family and have babies with you" would be something I'd hear as entrapment. The only options are that you immediately disengage or commit for a lifetime.
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As far as the 2nd part that's no joke, I accepted years ago that any compliment given to a woman that I don't have an established relationship in US, the woman is responding subconsciously with "manwhore just wants to sleep with me" at best or "this guy is a rapist" at worst.

you know, a dominicana also has an ulterior motive: to get a lifetime of financial support. with an additional bonus of potentially having a child with good hair, something that every woman here dreams about.

i agree regarding point number 2. we talked about it here just weeks ago: http://dr1.com/forums/clown-bin/146645-10-hours-walking-nyc-woman.html
 

Rustxko

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Yeah I agree, but its so obvious that it seems more managable. In my limited experience, dominicanas seem to be better short con operators. The long cons are the ones that cost you. Usually when a dominicana approaches me when I'm on a vacation the last word of the conversation is usually tacano, barato, or orgulloso

Being from the southern US, I know all about the hair.

I did see that video. As always some guys over the top, but you don't see the 100s of guys who she passed that said nothing because she looked busy. Notice 10 hours of walking in NYC as a woman wasn't 10 hours long. It would be funny for a gringo to do a 3 hours of walking on Pedro Clisante. 11pm-2am on a Saturday.
 

islandhopping

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Rules are always the same for me regardless of where I am.

I don't lie to women or lie to myself about them.
I don't pay for anything that I don't want to.
I set my own agenda. I do what I want to do. If you don't want to do what I'm doing, then we'll past ways for a while or forever.

While my experience is limited as tourist and it's silly to generalize about such a large group, dominicanas seem interesting. I like that they are so upfront and direct about what they want. It's refreshing in a weird way. Here are just my thoughts, observations, theory, or whatever

What's really wrong with a woman asking to be taken care of?

Every one I've ever been with did in one way or another. Some US women just go about it differently because they were from a society that frowns on that attitude. Instead of saying "give me money for the salon", they want to move in with you to save their own money to pay for the salon or similar games. They play their games, but instead of admitting to themselves that it is all about comfort and security, they calll it "love" and "attraction" because they were trained differently, but essentially the goals of some US women are the exact same. Leading cause of divorce is finances not infidelity. It a odd correlation between being broke and falling out of love.

If I lived in DR, the women attitudes wouldn't stop me from trying on a relationship with a dominicana. I'd expect it to be on the table that if security and a comfortable life isn't provided or she sees a better life she could have with someone else then she's gone. I thought that way with all women. I would expect her to try to get over on me for the sake of herself and her family as much as possible. It only makes sense. It is however a motivation that I can understand. Self interest is predictable. I would think you would know where you stood to some degree. I'm very good at saying no and staying firm to it, so I don't think it would scare me. I've always felt somewhat defensive in all my relationships with US women anyways, and no, it isn't because I got screwed in some way.

At least it sounds consistent. It sounds like an continuous stuggle for wealth and material possessions vs. some US women who make decisions based on love and attraction and even they don't know what the hell they'll do next.

At this point, feel free to call me any number of things! :cheeky:

That makes plenty of sense and explains the contrast I observed between here and the DR.
 

santiagodude

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One of the funniest things I ever heard from a Dominican chica was, "now that I have a boyfriend, my father will no longer support me financially".......That was on our first date ;)
 
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