On a subsequent phone call her father had tragically died and blah blah blah.....I actually had another girl answer my phone and tell her that she was my new girlfriend, just to get her to stop calling me..... DR chicas can be unbelievably bold liars.
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My 1st Wife told me that exact same thing. She was a US Army brat. Elvis was right...date the Colonel's Daughter, never marry the Colonel's Daughter.One of the funniest things I ever heard from a Dominican chica was, "now that I have a boyfriend, my father will no longer support me financially".......That was on our first date
I know a woman who was abused by a neighbour, got pregnant at 14, and was cast out by her family. This would have been in the 1970s. She eventually married a good man and got her life back on track. I worked with her when she was in her mid 30s, an administrative assistant in our office, finishing her bachillerato in the evenings.
I get the impression it is rare for this to happen these days. Certainly in the cases I know of the family have been almost too accepting - as if it were inevitable.
I get the impression it is rare for this to happen these days. Certainly in the cases I know of the family have been almost too accepting - as if it were inevitable.
it's rare to straighten your life after teen pregnancy everywhere. my cousin gave birth at 16 or 17. her child died at maybe a year old. nearly thirty years later and she is still with the same guy, has two children (now adults) and a phd in economics, teaching at the university. an exception, really.
The problem lies that you be paying your dollars to her for her salon etc.. but when you are back in the USA she probably is screwing around with another gringo.. or when you live in the DR. you will know that her primo or motoconcho is the guy she is banging.. Those guys don't have money and you do..
what is wrong is that she will tell you that you are her only guy for her.. and that her motoconcho is just a friend..
One of the funniest things I ever heard from a Dominican chica was, "now that I have a boyfriend, my father will no longer support me financially".......That was on our first date
Yup... or that she doesn't like to or cant borrow money from her male friends anymore... cause they wont give her money anymore as now she has a novio... or her boss always would 'help' her but now she wont ask for favors because she has a novio...
There is some hope, I have been helping a girl ( yes paying) for her to go to the university for the last year and a half. She got a good job just
this month. All my money did not go to the chulo.
this month. All my money did not go to the chulo.
One of the funniest things I ever heard from a Dominican chica was, "now that I have a boyfriend, my father will no longer support me financially".......That was on our first date
This is a universal truth with Dominicanas of a certain socio-economic background that behooves many a clueless turista. This is part of the culture some dudes refuse to wrap their heads around.
There is no such thing as "dating" in the traditional Western sense. If you go out with a girl once, that's it. You and her are novios and your responsibilities to her are clear to everyone except the guy in question. Make sure you guys get a copy of "The Unwritten Rulebook for Dating Dominicanas". Since it's unwritten, you'll have to stumble along and learn the hard way, keeping in mind you will be told what to do and not do only after you mess up.
Exactly. Now that she is dating someone, she is someone elses' responsibility. And it's worse if she's dating a foreigner. Forget it.
Now she'll be asked to "borrow" money from you by relatives or other boyfriends because hey, you got cash coming out your ears. They'll sit around inventing calamities until you are left wondering how these people managed all these years without you.
Avoid the headache and date someone who comes from a family that is financially stable. They are harder to find because they are more difficult to impress and may not want to date turistas simply because there is nothing for them to be attracted to. That would be the turistas' problem to figure out.
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Sorry but universal truths do not exist.....Oh and that would explain why she would take phone calls out of my presence and whisper....probably talking to her daddy.....everyone is not as naive as you seem to believe.....Just because societal norms exist, does not mean some are not abusing those norms, to their own advantage. Hustling is a way of life for some.
What you say may hold water after a formal introduction to the "familia, como el novio".
"Chef" she will be thanking you, and 6 other guys, for helping her with the "University", and her "OTHER" expenses!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Ccccc, the point was that she did something positive to better her self. And bleave it or not she did thank me. I do bleave she has an other but I
adapted to the DR! Yo tambien. Ycycycycycycyc
adapted to the DR! Yo tambien. Ycycycycycycyc
More money won't buy you gratefulness or faithfulness. Don't give anything you'd regret, and don't give so much that you lose yourself, and end up resented if you're not thanked later.
I wouldn't say she's probably screwing another gringo. I would assume its a certainty. Is it really a problem though?
I guess it just depends on what you want out of a woman. I want companionship and support when I want it. If she's always there when I need or want her, then she's holding up her end. Within reason, who cares what she's doing when I don't. You can never control what another person does anyway when you aren't around. No matter what they say, it's best to assume anything can be happening.
50% of western spouses cheat. Cheating isn't uniquely Dominican. If kids aren't being neglected, house isn't being looted, money isn't missing, bills aren't left unpaid, and there isn't a disgracefully long line of guys waiting for you to leave, what difference does it make? Draw your lines in the sand and stick to them.
Maybe its just me, but I'm done getting upset because a woman lies to me or cheats on me. I almost expect it now.
Do the Facebook test..
Does she post pictures of you and her together?
Or she only posts pictures of herself posing and she gets like 120 likes from guys and you have her Primo from New York reacting that she is a mama chula and some Paul from Canada reacts that she is his princesa?
You seem to know how it goes but it seems that many men don't get it.. something with being the only one for her.
So, where do you draw the line? STD? Pregnancy? 2 Motochoncho Guys or 3?.....Sounds like remaining single is a more "honest" option.
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