Please if anyone can help me before it's too late I would appreciate it. Here's my background:
-Have been together with a DR man for almost 3 years
-have been married almost 2
-have a 9 month old son with him (gorgeous)
-husband moved to toronto, canada to be with me almost 1 year ago
-he hates the weather (warned him about it)
-hates the people here (warned him about them)
-my husband is miserable and is threatening to move back home
-I am broke and working 6 days a week to make ends meet (spent lots of money on legal fees etc and to make him "happy"
-my husband has had a few jobs here and there but can't seem to keep any - he only wants to work with spanish speakers
-his english is passable - he was enrolled in ESL and lasted about 2 months but then got a job and quit - the job did not last and he does not want to go back to school
-he also has 3 kids back in DR (no surprise)
-he wants to make big money fast to support his kids and doesn't feel he can do that here b/c the gov't takes a lot of $
-he says he can get a bank loan there and start up a business? he's not sure what - he has no business experience
I forgot about this forum until I got an email from a newbie to the site.
I need some help. I don't want him to leave but I'm very depressed and think maybe it would be for the best. If he could find a decent job maybe that would change his mind. He has construction/renovation experience and is also an amazing bartender. If anybody can give me some advice or has a job connection in toronto I would be personally indebted to you. thanks
-Have been together with a DR man for almost 3 years
-have been married almost 2
-have a 9 month old son with him (gorgeous)
-husband moved to toronto, canada to be with me almost 1 year ago
-he hates the weather (warned him about it)
-hates the people here (warned him about them)
-my husband is miserable and is threatening to move back home
-I am broke and working 6 days a week to make ends meet (spent lots of money on legal fees etc and to make him "happy"
-my husband has had a few jobs here and there but can't seem to keep any - he only wants to work with spanish speakers
-his english is passable - he was enrolled in ESL and lasted about 2 months but then got a job and quit - the job did not last and he does not want to go back to school
-he also has 3 kids back in DR (no surprise)
-he wants to make big money fast to support his kids and doesn't feel he can do that here b/c the gov't takes a lot of $
-he says he can get a bank loan there and start up a business? he's not sure what - he has no business experience
I forgot about this forum until I got an email from a newbie to the site.
I need some help. I don't want him to leave but I'm very depressed and think maybe it would be for the best. If he could find a decent job maybe that would change his mind. He has construction/renovation experience and is also an amazing bartender. If anybody can give me some advice or has a job connection in toronto I would be personally indebted to you. thanks