LOl Sking, it certainly doesnt make sense. Even I have gripes with the u.s. companies and government conveniently forgetting their laws. After all, I too would enjoy the benefit of higher wages if americans werent so keen on giving jobs to people they know good and well are illegal. its all a vicious cycle. if there werent jobs being given out BY AMERICANS, people would know not to come looking for under the table work. so i feel like theres blame on both ends, you know?
and tying it into the situation with dominicans, if it wasnt so easy to just get everything, they would have to stop being so misinformed.
my position is that, laws need to change in the u.s. and we as dominicans and/or dominican residents need to do our part to mend those particular broken ideas.
people can say what they want but i really have never known unemployed dominicans in the u.s. whether it be under the table or legally. maybe its just me. we work. REALLY hard too. that i am very proud of. public assistance alone isnt building these houses and sending all the remesas back. we arent afraid to break a sweat and make sacrifices when need be. we are also the most likely amongst hispanic 2nd gen immigrants to have college degrees. that must say something about us!
i think its important to note that a great lot of us are hardworking, self-sufficient and law-abiding, so you generally dont ever notice us. it doesnt mean we arent there. however, for those of us who are....questionable? yes. time to get right.
............ I mean, we are paying for those Food Stamps......
SHALENA
:cheeky: But a quick question...if someone makes $1,000/month and sends $500/month home to DR to build their house. Then they apply for Food Stamps which means that you CANNOT FEED YOURSELF OR YOUR KIDS, so they get approved for $250/month in Food Stamps so they are so happy because now they can send home $750/month for their house. After it's all said and done, shouldn't I and everyother taxpaying American own some of that house? I mean, we are paying for those Food Stamps under the impression that their kids were starving when actually they been stacking up dough in the DR to live the life of luxury in Retirement while us Americans, some of us paying so much in taxes that we can only put the minimum in our 401Ks or 401Bs or whatever...you think that that's fair? If you have money to build a house, they should have money to feed their kids, buy health insurance, and pay regular rent on their apartments.........Don't you think?:cheeky:
Still friendly, just a question
SHALENA
That's what I'm talking about LOL!Now, now, now,,,,,,,,,,if WE don't pay for the food stamps how will they be able to make their car note on a brand new Honda? Just the other day I saw a woman get $150 US worth of baby formula FREE with food stamp vouchers. She paraded out the store and jumped into her brand new Honda Accord......
I respect those people...I was one of themmy point was that many of us are NOT on public assistance and thats why you dont notice us and therefore those homes arent all subject to your claims. the gubmint doesnt give you that much, anyway. plus factor in the people who do qualify legally in every way as wage earners who do not have homes anywhere because they simply cant afford it.
yes, there are those who abuse and they shouldnt. they should be corrected in their skewed views. but dont think thats "everyone". or even most. MOST would most likely qualify for aid legally, no scams required, as low wage earners---a situation common to any new immigrant. and a great lot of others do not use any public assistance whatsoever. lets just keep that in perspective.
I think the confusion may be in the semantics.
Public assistance = Welfare
However, there is no "free money" being handed out because after the reforms of the early 90's, you now have to earn your cash subsidy.
Food Stamps is considered a subsidy for wage-earners or retired or disabled people on fixed incomes
Once again, to qualify for FS you must provide proof of income and show that your income is enough for your shelter expenses (including utilities), otherwise you will be found ineligible. Unless one of those typical, shiftless Dominicans(sarcasm) is holding down 2 jobs and only reporting one to the FS office because he is working under the books, I do not see the myriad of ways how the system can be as easily exploited as is being suggested.
Unless things have changed dramatically since I was in the field, you people have got it wrong.
this was THE LEAD item in the joke around SD about why Dominicans would not make good terrorists...
1. Because they would never all get to the place on time
2. Because they would have to tell all their friends what they were going to do, before and after.
it went on and on....
I love that!!Every time I see the line in front of the US Consulate... I want to scream at them.. "No -.- STAY HERE! You have a beautiful country... STAY and help make it better"
My, my my the bigotry (that does not exist BTW according to some posters) on this thread!
Originally Posted by strangerinastrangeland
"1. Dominicans are on welfare because they are on "Dominican time" and therefore are unemployable."
Bigot: One who is strongly partial to one's own group, religion, race, or politics and is intolerant of those who differ.
My original post raised the question if someone coming from a culture that may not put as much emphasis on punctuality as American employers might, could be adversely impacted by that difference in regards to employment.
Being aware of a difference is not the same as being intolerant of it.
If the topic of this thread had been, hypothetically, high unemployment among American youth, I may have questioned if having multiple facial piercings or tatoos in exposed areas, or the preference some youth have to speak "slang" could have an affect on how they are viewed by potential employers. I have nothing personal against any of these things, don't have any lower opinion of the people who chose to have them, but it is my belief that businesses have a tendency to give preference in hiring to people who conform to certain criteria. (Whether this is right or wrong is not my point.) But I suspect you are totally unaware that some youths have tatoos, piercings, and chose not to speak "business" English, because you are not a bigot and apparently don't notice these things.
If the topic had been difficulties the elderly face when trying to find a job, I may have raised the point that they may not be as comfortable with technology as younger people competing for the jobs, or that they may have more medical conditions that would cause them to be less reliable, or that a company may prefer to invest their training expenses in someone who typically would be a longer term employee. I am not intolerant of elderly people, I'll be one myself one day. But in the context of this type of discussion, it would generally be characteristics that could have a negative impact on employment that would be brought to light for discussion.
Maybe someday there will be a topic that will give me the appropriate opportunity to highlight all the positive characteristics, traits, and qualities of what I know of Dominicans, but the subject of this thread dictated the direction of this conversation.
Not living with my head in the sand does not make me a bigot, thinking that's the only way to live would.
Expecting newcomers not to beg is un-American, begging is a tradition deeply embedded in American culture, after all; what do we celebrate on Thanksgiving?, isn't it the first case of welfare on American soil?.
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You are talking to a BLACK WOMAN. I have encountered lots of racism in my 34 years and still encounter it. But that is not a reason to STEAL, LIE, and CHEAT. You think I came out of my mother's a$$ making over $100,000/yr? You think I din't have to prove,prove, and prove again that I was worth being admitted to Nursing school?
The difference between myself and these people (that we are speaking about) is that I don't think that the government of the USA OWES me something. I have always worked from age 15.5. My mother was on public assistance (Food Stamps and Medicaid) until I was in the 10th grade even though she worked 2 jobs (McDonald's in the morning and Subway Sandwiches at night) and whenever I wanted somehting that she couldn't afford, she told me straight up that it was because she didn't have an education. She never blamed the Government, she blamed herself...which is exactly where the blame lay.
These people think that WE owe THEM because their country is poor, WE owe THEM because they were born in a campo and went without food...like if they make it to the US, it is expected of them to rob us.
YES, they are going to have to work like donkeys. YES, they are going to have to work 10 hours to make what someone else would make in 5. Yes, they are going to have to live in the projects...that's just the way the world is. If they don't like it, do something to change THEMSELVES to achieve more...these people come here (not just Dominicans) and live for YEARS and don't even learn the language. What the f*ck?!#? And we cater to them, you call a business and it says "For English: Press 1", I shouldn't have to freaking press 1, I am calling in the USA!!!
Let me walk into any business here in Santiago and DEMAND an English interpreter...the guy at the door with the gun will be escorting me out quickly.
Not all Dominicans are like this, I must say. I have so many friends whose parents busted their a$$es when they got to the USA...I admire those people. But I have no patience for lazy, thieving, good for nothing Non-Americans who think that because they happened to be born poor, that I need to take care of them and their children for the rest of their lives. Like I said in another thread...That's a personal problem that they need to take up with God...he was the one who had them be born where and when they were born. Punto
SHALENA
Amen, my children are 15, 10, and 6...why the age gaps, Momma is responsible and each one I had I made sure I was able to take care of them. Put my children's name in ANY welfare sytem computer and NOTHING will come up...and I had my oldest when I was 18!!!
We even try to give them FREE birth control, and they won't take it or take it and won't use it because half of them have the same Marido and are trying to outbeat each other with the number of kids they have...
SHALENA
Now, now, now,,,,,,,,,,if WE don't pay for the food stamps how will they be able to make their car note on a brand new Honda? Just the other day I saw a woman get $150 US worth of baby formula FREE with food stamp vouchers. She paraded out the store and jumped into her brand new Honda Accord......
Now I really know that you don't know me because people who know me know that MY GROOVE NEVER LEFT The country in which I live is beautiful and fun and I enjoy living here. Once you realize that the DR is run on who you know and how much you have, you find your place and you stay there. And never ever ever in your life confuse a Dominican with a Dominican-York, they are totally different. I was visiting DR every month for 2 years before I step foot in NYC and Washington Heights, I rented a room in Washington Heights for 4 months to use when I am in NYC working. I am now in Brooklyn, why???? Because those people are an embarrassment to their own country, even the Dominicans here say so. You should see the looks on decent Dominicans faces here when Dom-Yorks pull up in some rented SUV. Pleeeease. And if they hated so much being discriminated by blacks, why is it that I couldn't tell that they weren't black until they spoke that Spanish that they butcher so well, huh? Why is it that I heard more 50-cent and T.I. than I heard Antony Santos and Zacarias Ferreira? Pleeease. This is so funny to me. I get treated very well here, because I PAY for my services and I don't BEG, BORROW, or STEAL, thinking that this country owes me something. And as I have said in other posts, my MAN, if I were to dump him tomorrow or if he were to dump me, would STILL be something because he is someone of WORTH.Very interesting rant, SKing. "These people come over here and are here for years and don't even learn the language."
"These people think we owe them"
Reminds me of the things African-American in the U.S constantly say about Latinos in the US.
If I choose to live in Japan, I need to learn Japanese. If I choose to live in France, I need to learn French. If I choose to live in Haiti, I need to learn French Creole. Get the picture?
Pray tell, SKing and MAnnie? What are your thougths about the oppression of Latinos by African-Americans? Is your fight vs. discrimination specific to African-Americans being victimized by it or do you address African-American discriminating against other non-white immigrants as well.
I am not worried about discrimination, towards blacks by whites, towards latinos by blacks, towards women by men. Discrimination exists, get used to it. I am black and can't stand black people whining about slavery. If you yourself were not a slave pleeeeease, I am sick of it. People use discrimination as an EXCUSE not to get off of their a$$es and do something with their lives. If the Latinos are being discriminated against blacks in NY or anywhere else, I am truly sorry but get the f*ck over it. Or if you don't like it, go back to whereever you or your parents came from. I have been told many times in my life to go back to Africa or wherever even though I, nor my parents, or grandparents, all the way back that I can remember have never even seen Africa. Did I take on a "Woe is me" attitude? Hell no. Just like a child that gets pushed down in the playground and scrapes his knee. They cry for a while, you clean the wound off, and then get the f*ck over it and walk. Do you just let them stay down there on the ground crying?
How would you respond to my assertion that African-American racism against hispanics in NY is way, way, more pervasive and palpable than that of whites vs. Latinos in New York.
It may very well be true but I am here to voice my OPINION on people ABUSING a Governmental service that I pay for. Punto
Please tell me, SKing, cause you are talking to a LATINA now, NY born and bred and one who knows the real deal here about how black Americans in this region perceive and treat other non-White minorities, particularly Latinos.
Honey, I am sorry that you are being discriminated against. Really, I am. But again, get over it.
BTW, how are you being treated by "those people" in the DR while you "get your groove back" with your Dominican man?
Won't bother to waste my time responding to you, adios.If I remember correctly, when I was looking for an affordable lease, Honda was offering some very reasonable promotional, end-of-year lease deals. Maybe that was my car since I have been known to lend my car out to friends in need, especially the ones that need to - God forbid- go to the market to buy food for the kids. For the record, the vouchers were definitely not mine though!!!!