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Every parent's nightmare
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I am English and it would totally destroy me if I knew I was responsible for the death of my 7 month old child. How can you begin to compare a pizza to a child?
easily. parents do not forget their child, they just do not remember that it is inside the car. in a same way one forgets the keys inside the car or leaves it with lights on and so on. for a moment the mind is elsewhere.
He is not comparing pizza to a child, for Christ's sake!
He is simply saying that when stress, overwork, tiredness, in today's hurry-hurry world, bad things can happen to anybody. I imagine the father was with his thoughts "in a different dimension" and simply forgot the child.
I go for a walking routine 5 times a week, and it frequently happens that my thoughts carry me away and the time passes so fast I do not even realize that I had already done my 3 rounds. When your thoughts carry you away, you can virtually forget about your surroundings, your environment, anything.
(And now, please go on and say how can i compare walking to a child...)
Disagree entirely, no matter how seriously you want to compare this to forgetting to return a library book with tales of multitasking. If you forget you have your child in your car, you are a terrible parent. If you forget you had your child in your car for an extended time without remembering till you went back to the car, then you are a an utter fukcwitt, a terrible parent and should never have been allowed to be responsible for a child. If you forget you had your child in your car for an extended time, and returned to find the child dead then you are all of the above and should spend serious time in jail to help remind you of your responsability over your child.
No matter how you look at it you take on the responsibility when becoming a parent, and one of those is not to slow cook your child. Shame on any parent who has compassion or searches for excuses for those so preoccupied with themselves they can possibly forget thier own child is 12 inches away.
Have to put it out there. If there was any intent, this would be the perfect murder. How would you prove otherwise?
RIP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Whirley, don't take it out of context.
I am saying that, let's say what mongoose is not correct and there was intent, it would be very hard to prove otherwise.
There have been instances that a parent intended to commit murder. I am no way saying that this happened here. I just wanted to put it out there.
I can understand your frustration but using the **** word was uncalled for. I wrote nothing derogatory towards you.
If you are a sh1t self obsessed parent then yes. Even when driving with my child in the car I drive differently, more cautious, totally aware more than anything that my child is with me, and so should all parents. If you reckon it could happen to anyone then, I guess your kids got lucky, and anyone who allowed you responsibility of thier children. Shocking!
Again, absolutely shocking comparrisson and openness about such a topic. Truly should have parenting tests before being allowed responsibilty, turns out more would fail miserably than I might have thought.
For a moment your mind might be drawn away from the attention of your child. But not for longer than a few seconds. You don't get out the fukcing car, check you got your phone, and keys in your hand and forget your child is in the car before locking it and walking away. Anyone who thinks this is just an error or slip of the mind most certainly should not be allowed pardntal responsability. But I don't think you are and so can be excused.
aranoid:Is trolling the deginition of constantly proving you talk utter tripe? If so then I am trolling big time pizza daddy!
You keep referring to sh1t you read. I never stated law, I stated just deserts.
Keep on living by the book pizza pappi, someones gotta get it all wrong!
I don't see how this makes someone a terrible parent. Many parents admit to leaving their kids places etc. Lack of sleep, food and stress can do a lot to someone's head space, especially if it is not a normal routine.
Rip to the baby and I really feel horrible for the dad and family.
Rip to the baby and I really feel horrible for the dad and family.
You're not even responding with any substance. You are using troll like Aguita uses sock puppet when there is no viable response.
Get to 500 does not give you any rights other than use of a forum where we have no sense of difference. So you are telling me now what you really think, and that is not much. I have a feeling we are on to another Miami500 or whatever he was called, but never mind.
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