I think I mentioned above that the after hours socialising was important in social development, things like you mention we have in the UK that simply don't in DR. Finding things to do in the capital to entertain children is difficult. And I don't mean visit the zoo, making effort and costing alot for every single time you are looking to stimulate the child's mind. In UK everyone is on a much more level playing field, and quite simply it is more child friendly. My wife was brought up in campo, eventually the family moved closer to the city, but in the early years I found it really weird how the toys we would buy for our daughter would be put out of reach, locked away. It took her (my wife) a while to get to grips with the concept of toys, I don't mean she's dumb and doesn't understand play. I mean she would constantly tidy up, even while the toys were being played with. It's difficult to explain, but I put it simply down to not having many toys, she was more accustomed to playing out on the street, making the most of what was around her rather than using actual toys as stimulants. A few years on and it is a different story but that was a big shock culture wise for me, interesting, but strange seeing someone you know so well acting only as life has shown her. Infact the biggest culture clash we experienced in our life together so far, a small thing but a big lesson on just how different our lives have been, no matter where we are now.
Solutions? Well, you know what we decided. I expect if you aren't working and don't have a busy life and manage to get among the right people it can be done, but it isn't as good, for sure, that's just a fact.
Solutions? Well, you know what we decided. I expect if you aren't working and don't have a busy life and manage to get among the right people it can be done, but it isn't as good, for sure, that's just a fact.