Hi together,
posting here for the first time. Well in a nutshell, I fall into a female sanky panky.
If you are interested in how everything happened and how I found out finally, read my story:
(1) Myself
I'm 32, from Europe, single, with a wellpaid job (got PhD in finance). I'm well in shape, I'm a trained mixed martial arts fighter with many fights on the amateur level. I also had experienced beautiful girlfriends before.
(2) Her
She is beautiful and very charming. Originally she is from Haiti and speaks Spanish, English and French with ease. She worked at Catalonia Bavaro when we met, no at Paradisus Punta Cana. She works as an animateur. No question, she can dance and knows very well how to put her in the right light. I won?t give the name her (per pn), but people who know her will know who she is. Yesterday he deactivated her facebook account (see below why). She has two kids, a boy and a girl (twins). She was married until Sept 2013 to a Canadian but separated (I?m divorced too).
(3) How we met
In Jan 2014 I spent two weeks at Catalonia Bavaro with a friend. Three days before we went home, she wrote me a love letter and declared eternal love, marriage etc. She was very good at convincing, I fall in love immediately. We only kissed there, after her work when we went out.
(4) Afterwards
We wrote over internet every day. She was very sweet, did not ask for money in the beginng. Then I came to spend time with her in another hotel. We were very well together, like a real couple, and I really started thinking about telling my family and taking her to my place. Glad I didn?t do it. After my second visit, she started to ask for money. She did not lie, always said that she would like to go to the beauty salon or want to by some clothes. I have money and I was in love so I gave generously. In September this year I can again to spend time with her. We had a good time, but her behavior was suspicious. She was always over facebook or her phone and didn?t want to share with me to who she was talking to.
(5) How I find out
After my second visit I checked her facebook with her pwd. In a nutshell she was talking to 10-15 foreign men, of all ages and from all (rich) countries, declaring her love and inviting them to come again. No matter if men were married/with children or not, she always took the first step, declared love in a very sweet way, and tried to settle it down. She even exchanged sexy pictures to nearly everyone. In messages to male from DR she talked about me as her foreigner. She asked money from everyone, but it seems that only a few people gave her some. I was completely shocked, mostly about my naivety. I didn?t bother about this sanky panky stuff, I thought I?m goodlooking and well-educated and easily deserve such a girl. In the end I lost around 4,000 EUR to her in 8 months, but also I?m richer, not in money but in experience.
(6) The end
I confronted her with all that. She said first that it was her friends who used her facebook account, then that saying love u is nothing and that u can say it to everybody. She insisted that she did not sleep or kiss with other men while she was together with me. She was again very sweet, so I accepted her apologies, but I won?t send money any more and I won?t consider her as my girl. I?m just interested what else will happen.
I can?t believe how na?ve I was and what some few lovely said words can make with people.
One question: Shall I contact all other man and tell them? Shall I sabotage her facebook to let the world know what kind of people she is?
Thanks for your interests.
posting here for the first time. Well in a nutshell, I fall into a female sanky panky.
If you are interested in how everything happened and how I found out finally, read my story:
(1) Myself
I'm 32, from Europe, single, with a wellpaid job (got PhD in finance). I'm well in shape, I'm a trained mixed martial arts fighter with many fights on the amateur level. I also had experienced beautiful girlfriends before.
(2) Her
She is beautiful and very charming. Originally she is from Haiti and speaks Spanish, English and French with ease. She worked at Catalonia Bavaro when we met, no at Paradisus Punta Cana. She works as an animateur. No question, she can dance and knows very well how to put her in the right light. I won?t give the name her (per pn), but people who know her will know who she is. Yesterday he deactivated her facebook account (see below why). She has two kids, a boy and a girl (twins). She was married until Sept 2013 to a Canadian but separated (I?m divorced too).
(3) How we met
In Jan 2014 I spent two weeks at Catalonia Bavaro with a friend. Three days before we went home, she wrote me a love letter and declared eternal love, marriage etc. She was very good at convincing, I fall in love immediately. We only kissed there, after her work when we went out.
(4) Afterwards
We wrote over internet every day. She was very sweet, did not ask for money in the beginng. Then I came to spend time with her in another hotel. We were very well together, like a real couple, and I really started thinking about telling my family and taking her to my place. Glad I didn?t do it. After my second visit, she started to ask for money. She did not lie, always said that she would like to go to the beauty salon or want to by some clothes. I have money and I was in love so I gave generously. In September this year I can again to spend time with her. We had a good time, but her behavior was suspicious. She was always over facebook or her phone and didn?t want to share with me to who she was talking to.
(5) How I find out
After my second visit I checked her facebook with her pwd. In a nutshell she was talking to 10-15 foreign men, of all ages and from all (rich) countries, declaring her love and inviting them to come again. No matter if men were married/with children or not, she always took the first step, declared love in a very sweet way, and tried to settle it down. She even exchanged sexy pictures to nearly everyone. In messages to male from DR she talked about me as her foreigner. She asked money from everyone, but it seems that only a few people gave her some. I was completely shocked, mostly about my naivety. I didn?t bother about this sanky panky stuff, I thought I?m goodlooking and well-educated and easily deserve such a girl. In the end I lost around 4,000 EUR to her in 8 months, but also I?m richer, not in money but in experience.
(6) The end
I confronted her with all that. She said first that it was her friends who used her facebook account, then that saying love u is nothing and that u can say it to everybody. She insisted that she did not sleep or kiss with other men while she was together with me. She was again very sweet, so I accepted her apologies, but I won?t send money any more and I won?t consider her as my girl. I?m just interested what else will happen.
I can?t believe how na?ve I was and what some few lovely said words can make with people.
One question: Shall I contact all other man and tell them? Shall I sabotage her facebook to let the world know what kind of people she is?
Thanks for your interests.
