Katrina kept me busy these days. You may be right, b/c I am not a millionaire. Probably the best solution for me would be a combination of highly energy efficient appliances (many of them being Liquid Propane, like refrig and W/H. I need to buy all appliances anyway), large inverter, a mid size diesel genset, and probably some solar to use the genset the least to charge batteries. and forget A/C for the most part. I'm already working on a spreadsheet to combine all of these cost/benefit/feasibility factors, and hopefully voila!.
Thank you guys.