What folks don't realise is that it is not possible to befriend those in charge or on duty as there is a different one each time.This is probably a deliberate action to prevent cronyism setting in and abuse of power.
What we need is a set of rules,they can even be stupid or illogical or downright perfect,that are published and that people can adhere to or contest legally.
Each uniform/badge wearing 'official' seems to think they can invent their own rules with impunity with no regard to the inconvenience this could cause by the domino effect.
It is honestly not possible to talk logic with them - total waste of time, but a published and available book of rules would be nice.