from a proud of being a dominican girl
hi azb and everybody in this forum,
my name is magdalena, i am chris nj's girlfriend. I am a dominican girl.
I am coming from a middle class family. when i was in my country i was a student in o&m university in puerto plata. I was living in la union but i also was living in sosua from 1984 to 1990. Right now i am living here in United States almost one year and i would like to say to you and to everybody in this forum. there is no color (black,white,yellow,trigueno or mulatos), there is no class,(high, middle,or poor) every person in the world is a human and should be consider as human not as a color or class. everybody has feeling and i think that we should learn to appreciate the person next door. i am not writing this to make feel bad anybody i just feel so dissapointed when i read my boyfriend's forum page. i feel so bad because i see that the people we are not changing our point of view of the life we are thinking like the people from the 18 century come on we are in the 21 century we need to learn to be human and to appreciate life and love.
my perfect world could be where people are treat like human not because the color that you are or because the money or class that you have.unfortunality this is just in my dream.
i just want people to wake up and try to live their life and to love whoever they want. if you find the person who you think is going to be the right one for you follow your heart and dont give up. love is the most beautiful feeling that we have so dont be scared of it just because of the color or class of the person who you love if you feel in love fight for it and dont think about what the hell the people are going to think live your life and dont leave others people live for you.
well i hope that you can understand my writing because i am just learning.
please i know that we can learn about the meaning of love, life and peace.
so good luck to everybody.
thank you
magdalena
peace and love
Question asked by someone was;
Why is it that there are so many high quality single women? Is it a lack of prospects right there in their own back yard? Are these women opposed to marrying dominican men, or is it something else?
AZB said:
Most educated decent women from good families only prefer domincian men of equal status. many dominican poor desperate women will only consider a foreign male. now I am talking about the majority so there are many exceptions to the rule. Its just dominican women like any other person from any other country prefer to stay in their own culture and speak their own language if convenient.
Now elegible dominican bachelor has some distinct advantages over women. Eligible dominican bachelors really don't want to get married and get tied down. There are many more decent educated dominican women as compared to men. Just go to any university and see the majority of the student body is women (70%, my estimate). A decently educated dominican good looking male has all cut out for him if he has some money as well. There are plenty of women who desire a classy male who lives well and holds a good job. There are tons of tigres everywhere who do nothing but hold cheap paying jobs and get drunk listening to bachata music. All educated women like to dress up and be taken out by classy guys in late model cars and be pampared. But the truth is, there are very few decent rich guys as compared to tigres and an abundance of cute classy girls in major cities, who are fighting for a good guy.
So in simple terms, the educated decent good looking dominican bachelor has a prime pick of the crop. he can have as many as 5-7 girlfriends at a time who look like super models. Not to mention, he always picks up a cute girl from a barrio for a quick motel trip. All dominican women want a classy rich guy so they have to fight one another to get a hold of one.
Now are you all getting my point? So if you are fairly young looking or even old, with class, money to spend and live in a decent house, you can get whatever you want in DR. This is a country where women out number men if you mingle in a certain class of folks.
So to all foreign women, I have sad news for you all: No real dominican eligible bachelor will ever marry a foreign girl unless she looks like britney spears. The reason is simple, these guys don't care for your cash, they have it all. they have visa and they date 1st class university girls who look like miss. universe contentants. the foreign women and men always find dominican who are either jobless, poor, work for 200 dollars / month or simply a ghetto tigre. the working folks don't want to stoops so low as to find tourists who migle with such low trash of this country.
This is the truth.
AZB
