This is my first time posting but read most of the threads and found it so helpful and interesting!This is going to be a long post, sorry in advance. If you don't feel like reading the whole story, just read the last paragraph. Thanks in advance.
I keep going back and forth between thinking this was the best thing I ever did or the biggest mistake. I need help!
Do you know of any private investigation service that can look into him? I only know his first name, hotel and that he is a DJ) I would be willing to pay good money to know the truth. I think this may be the only way for me to get off the hook. If I see a proof that he has other women taking care of him, I will go on with my life, just my pride will be hurt a bit.
Here's the thing: if you have to ask to the point of hiring a PI, then it doesn't really matter, does it? You don't trust him, and probably for good reason. Serious relationships usually start with you knowing the other person's last name.
As has been stated before, ANY young, gainfully employed Dominican guy is gonna have his pick of beautiful women all over the island. And, as it turns out, a fair selection of ladies seeking "romance vacations" (which is how we refer to sex tourists who happen to be women). Chances are, he was onto the next girl before you boarded your plane. I've seen men and women kiss their last encounter goodbye at the airport, and go straight to arrivals to pick up the next person they're in a monogamous relationship with.
If you're lucky, this will be wrapped up as a fling where you caught some feelings. Otherwise, it'll get complicated (as with you developing expectations) and expensive (where you start hiring people to follow him around) quickly.
32 isn't the end of the world by any imagination. Put together a fun photo album, pay him another visit next time you're in need of "romance," :bunny::bunny::bunny: and find yourself a decent guy back at home.