I want to know if I am being sankified...

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Africaida

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I will let Bronxboy and Badpiece deliberate on who would get lucky first in Boston, this is getting a bit ridiculous.
And no Bronxboy, I did not book a ticket and I am thankful for the replies.
For the rest of you: Thanks all for all your help and feedback. I got the picture. There is 99% chance that he is a sanky and just wants my money but I will not give up because what if he falls in the other 1%.
I'll try and find him on facebook and go from there (thanks for the advice I got for that from everyone concerned).
I have to go for now but will check the thread again tomorrow am, see what came up.

2 things:

If he does have a facebook, why didn't he give it to you in the first place ?

If he does not have gringa friends, but a dominican wife and kid(s) at home, how is Facebook going to help you ?

What Shalena said :) she beats me to it
 

nakom

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You might be right but I tried the educated guy with money from the same culture with whom I thought I had a lot in common and did not work out great...

I am sure that is true - but the reason it did not work out probably had nothing to do with him being an "educated guy with money from the same culture".

Those things are factors in a relationship, but not reasons if it will work out or not. There are 300 million people in the USA - things just did not work out with this one. I noticed you said thought I had a lot in common, maybe you don't have a lot in common after all. If that is the case, it might be way worse with your new Dominican friend.

I am not saying I know anything about your relationship at home or in the DR - not trying to judge.
 

xwill

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Wait... She said that the sex was bad so why is she looking for him???

Does he practice brujeria?
 

Bronxboy

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I am kind of feeling sorry for the sanky!!!!!

She is going to try to find his FB then who knows. If the sex was unprotected:

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To each his own Bostongirl, but you should be ashamed of yourself its one thing to cheat on your husband, whether your happy or not, fling or not but to post it. Why do you need someone to tell you what to do or figure out if this guy is sincere. In my eyes any good man single or not that nows that a woman is in a relationship would stay clear, again just my opinion. You wherejust a free piece of a$$ to this guy, and further more, anyone who would post this just wants to get caught.

Good luck looking into your husbands eyes, and happy or not what are you going to say when he says have a good day at work and I LOVE YOU
 

Bronxboy

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To each his own Bostongirl, but you should be ashamed of yourself its one thing to cheat on your husband, whether your happy or not, fling or not but to post it. Why do you need someone to tell you what to do or figure out if this guy is sincere. In my eyes any good man single or not that nows that a woman is in a relationship would stay clear, again just my opinion. You wherejust a free piece of a$$ to this guy, and further more, anyone who would post this just wants to get caught.

Good luck looking into your husbands eyes, and happy or not what are you going to say when he says have a good day at work and I LOVE YOU

Yep, she did not have to mention that she was married. It would have been the same story w/o the marriage input. That shows you how some of these women are. STAY SINGLE!!!!!!!! No respect and on a open forum. It is a small world. You never know if someone is reading this in Boston and knows this couple.

Somehow, this just might be a sock messing with us. :(
 

Africaida

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We know nothing about Bostongirl marriage. So the "you should be ashamed of yourself" and "good luck looking into your husband eyes" is uncalled for.
 

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Good luck looking into your husbands eyes, and happy or not what are you going to say when he says have a good day at work and I LOVE YOU

If he did that she prolly wouldn't have taken the trip in the first place. He was even more prolly glad she went so he could enjoy a free "kitchen pass". He prolly got laid too.....
 

Bronxboy

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We know nothing about Bostongirl marriage. So the "you should be ashamed of yourself" and "good luck looking into your husband eyes" is uncalled for.

You might be right. :) But I still think she did not have to divulge that info.

Anyway, to each it's own. For me, no class on her part.

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jameshoff

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Your right I don't know anything about Bostongirl """But the one thing that I do know is SHE CHEATED ON HER HUSBAND"""again happy or not would you cheat on your husband, if you were not happy or would you be a mature person and end the relationship and then move on to your life, I'm sorry if I came across rude or said something uncalled for but the truth is the truth.
 

Africaida

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This is shocking because we are great at that! Baseball too

Spoken like a true Dominican ;)

Funny how Dominican think they are God-given gift in bed, but so do Cuban, so do PRican, so do Blacks, LOL :)
 

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How it all really got started ... and how to forget it .... :cool:


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DRob

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This is my first time posting but read most of the threads and found it so helpful and interesting!This is going to be a long post, sorry in advance. If you don't feel like reading the whole story, just read the last paragraph. Thanks in advance.
I keep going back and forth between thinking this was the best thing I ever did or the biggest mistake. I need help! :( Do you know of any private investigation service that can look into him? I only know his first name, hotel and that he is a DJ) I would be willing to pay good money to know the truth. I think this may be the only way for me to get off the hook. If I see a proof that he has other women taking care of him, I will go on with my life, just my pride will be hurt a bit.

Here's the thing: if you have to ask to the point of hiring a PI, then it doesn't really matter, does it? You don't trust him, and probably for good reason. Serious relationships usually start with you knowing the other person's last name.

As has been stated before, ANY young, gainfully employed Dominican guy is gonna have his pick of beautiful women all over the island. And, as it turns out, a fair selection of ladies seeking "romance vacations" (which is how we refer to sex tourists who happen to be women). Chances are, he was onto the next girl before you boarded your plane. I've seen men and women kiss their last encounter goodbye at the airport, and go straight to arrivals to pick up the next person they're in a monogamous relationship with.

If you're lucky, this will be wrapped up as a fling where you caught some feelings. Otherwise, it'll get complicated (as with you developing expectations) and expensive (where you start hiring people to follow him around) quickly.

32 isn't the end of the world by any imagination. Put together a fun photo album, pay him another visit next time you're in need of "romance," :bunny::bunny::bunny: and find yourself a decent guy back at home.
 

jameshoff

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I'm a combat soldier that travels all over the world and the thought of my wife doing such a thing makes me sick to my stomach. Again if your not happy in your relationship then GET OUT!!!! Trusting your partner should go without question. And the fact that Bostongirl wants to find out about this guy after only a few days with him is just crazy.
 

La Mariposa

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Yes you are being a bit ridiculous, he has women whenever he wants and is true to his local girl. You are one of many, get over it.
You are being SANKIFIED, yes.
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She is being dummying too or she already was
 

BostonGirl

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I had to come back to make something clear. If you had read my post completely you would know this.
1- My husband has admitted to cheating on me in the past, it is not that I just think he did, it is a a fact. I/We have tried to work thru it (like many couples would do I think) but we realized recently that it is not working out. I know it is not an excuse, just wanted to make it clear. So stop with that "it makes me sick to my stomach" stuff.
2- I did not go on this trip thinking something might "just happen". My girlfriends organized that trip and I was invited along. Did not plan it...
BG
 
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