Not intrusive at all. Especially if you believe women are there to be traded in and out like products. Those women who allow men treat them like such, most owners don't want on their property .
Do you own or lease in Ininiti Blu, or just a poster on this thread?
Both my wife and novia are VERY close friends, and are fully open about our relationship.
MANY of the owners in Infiniti Blu break the "rules" daily, so the rules are enforced randomly.