Dear Susy...
I dated someone from Sosua for a while. She was nice, very accomodating and got angry with me when I behaved like an idiot, just like in a real relationship. Except for one thing-it was'nt a real relationship. And I never thought about what might lay ahead. Needless to say I thought long and hard over it and decided a few things.
1)Don't promise anyone ANYTHING that you do not have any intention on delivering. It's a bad karma thing more than anything else and I do not enjoy getting someones' hopes up for no reason, whatever the request may be.
2)If they get out of hand with requests for money or telling you they love you, CHECK THEM IMMEDIATELY. "I am on vacation and may never come back. So please stop it. Let's have fun while we are together, but if you plan on getting paid so badly maybe you are with the wrong person." They will get the message eventually.
Another friend that I made pretty much knew that I was seeing other girls and that I was'nt particularly serious about being with any one person or making a long-term realtionship out of it with her. She did'nt like it but accepted it and guess what? I have a nice friend that I speak to occasionally and plan to go back and see next time I go to Sosua. I treated her nice when I was with her, and she seemed comfortable enough with that.
Besides, it cuts down on alot of the BS that some of these girls feel they have to dole out to me. Like I'm sure this girl is'nt seeing someone else besides me. I kind of like to keep things real, a little too real for my own good sometimes but there you have it.