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Maria

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WHOA! ?QUE QUIEREN DECIR CON ESO!

"that under that easy smile is a violent nature".very good point and not just your observation -

BERT AND BIG DADDY, GREETINGS-

THE ABOVE, IT SEEMS TO ME, IS A VERY BROAD AND GENERAL OBSERVATION. PLEASE ELABORATE ON WHAT YOU MEAN WHEN YOU SAY THIS. BERT, WHEN YOU MENTION PER CAPITA DEATH, I HAVE NOT HEARD OF SO MUCH MURDER IN D.R.- PLEASE ENLIGHTEN ME. THANK YOU GUYS, SINCERELY, MARIA
 
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Maria

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TO BIG DADDY AND TOM

WELL, TO TOM, I HAVE FINISHED SCHOOL, AND I AM MOVING TO THE DOMINICAN REPUBLIC IN SEPTEMBER, SO WE'LL SEE HOW I DO.

TO BIG DADDY, I AM GOING TO THE D. R. IN SEPTEMBER FOR 2 YEARS, PERHAPS TO STAY.

GOOD DAY!

SINCERELY ,

MARIA
 
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Maria

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A BETTER WAY

HELLO JOYCE.

I DO NOT DENY BEING AMERICAN, NOR CAN I. BUT UNFORTUNATLY I FEEL THAT I AM NOT SO PROUD TO BE AMERICAN AT TIMES, THIS I CANNOT DENY. I THINK IT IS A GOOD THING TO COMPARE AND OBSERVE CULTURES WITH OUR OWN. WE COULD LEARN SOMETHING IN THIS PROCESS AND PERHAPS REALIZE THAT ARE WAY IS NOT ALWAYS THE BEST WAY.

VERY TRULY YOURS,

MARIA
 
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jim

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the grass is allways greener?

i've seen a lot of people who like yourself go down to the DR on vacation, and decide that this is where they want to spend the rest of their lives.the majority of them don't last 2 yrs.once the money is gone,then a lot of their dominican freinds start disappearing just as fast.if the US is so bad why are so many dominicans willing to die trying to get there,and don't say just for the money,I know a lot of dominicans who moved back to their country only to come right back to the US,a lot of you are going to look very stupid when all you do is denounce the US only to end up right back there......jim
 
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BIG DADDY

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Re: WHOA! ?QUE QUIEREN DECIR CON ESO!MARIA

if i tell you you propably tell me to have a nice day.so i did have nice day today.thank you!
as you said that you will come in september to stay for 2 years so i must admit that i am a bit confused as we have the end of october.did you mean november 2000 or indeed september 2001?
just in case read a little bit lower about the french rape victim and the police killings.this just as prelude so to speak.

thanks for the greetings
 
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bob saunders

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Re: WHOA! ?QUE QUIEREN DECIR CON ESO!

Hola Maria, my wife, Yris, who as i said is Dominican and certainly a proud Dominican, fully agree's with me as to the violent nature of many Dominicans. I personally have not witnessed any violence but her many cousins have told me many stories of violent acts that never get reported to the police. They are all rather scornful of the abilities of the police force. I think that if you have a little money, and do not mind a slower pace of life the Dominican Republic is the place for you. I wasn't trying to condemn the DR, just pointing out to that the grass is always greener on the other side. If you plan on moving there, do some careful planning and further investigations.
 
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Duck

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Re: Bob?s unfriendly Europeans ?

Europeans are a bit cooler than americans on the surface. Once you have become friends, the friendship is much deeper than with americans. French are the hardest to get to.

Americans need to get out of their shell, and learn that the world doesn't stop on the east coast. They should learn more languages, then they can understand a bit more of the world.

Europeans are actually much more true friends when one builds a relationship with them (of course IN GENERAL ....).

One fault that many "americans" (meaning north ...) have is thinking that others should assimilate to them. (please don't do this)

Please apply what Bert is saying to other cultures, not only Europe. Don't put people into one bucket. I think that most of the people on this board are above "average" as far as attempting to learn about other cultures.

Although North Americans are more hesitant than others ...

Basically, it isn't right for any society to impose it's beliefs on another.
 
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Tom

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Hypocrite

"Please apply what Bert is saying to other cultures, not only Europe. Don't put people into one bucket. I think that most of the people on this board are above "average" as far as attempting to learn about other cultures.

Although North Americans are more hesitant than others ...

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Well Duck, I don't believe I have ever seen a clearer example of hypocrisy, thank you!

Tom
 
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Bert

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La Raza : Violent in nature ? para ti, Maria

Hola Maria,

Como ?tu ?ta ? You got me mixed up with somebody else. I would never say "Dominicanos are violent in nature", ?cause that would be generalizing y eso no se hace. One can say however, that Gente de "La Raza", Latinos, have..... ehhh, sangre caliente, and I mean that in more than one way. It?s the sun. Violent no !! Born in the Lesser Antilles, I proudly consider myself Latino. Raised in the US, living and working (in law enforcement) now in Europe, I can assure you that I have seen human nature at its most creative when hot tempered or mildly provoked. Latinos don?t even come close to the violent nature of some of our European and NorthAfrican neighbors.

As a Latino, all I can say about the pix on your Boriqua homepage : Ehhh...., are u familiar with the term "Hubba, Hubba" ? Mire, todo en broma, nada en serio, eh ?
 
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BIG DADDY

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Re: La Raza : Violent in nature ? para ti, Maria

if it is not the violent nature then it may be be a lack of selfcontrol?!!that's even worse as the excuse "it's the nature" goes missing and this makes them fully guilty and responsable for their actions without excuse.
 
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Maria

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Re: WHOA! ?QUE QUIEREN DECIR CON ESO!big daddy

Dear Big Daddy:
Certainly you must know that violent crimes happen everywhere and not just in D. R., I believe the difference is that it is very hushed and hidden in the U. S. The public will never hear of the abhorrent things that surpass in the U. S. In the U. S. we are only informed about what the government allows us to be informed about.
 
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Maria

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Re: La Raza : Violent in nature ? para ti, Maria

Hey Bert!!! Que lo Que ton'?!!!! Al fin, alguien que me puso sonre?r! Ud. eres muy c?mico. De que parte de Europa reside ud. ahora? Sabes que la gente en esta p?gina son bien serios y se enojan fac?lmente. No me gusta eso, pero as? son. Gracias para la alabanza chulo! Gracias para la respuesta tuya que estoy muy pero muy de acuerdo contigo. Hasta la pr?xima, Maria
 
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Natasha

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Re: La Raza : Violent in nature ? para ti, Maria

Maria, yo te aseguro que si hubieran dos o tres mas dominicanos en esta pizarra, la cosa no fuera tan seria...y e' facil? LOL!

Saludos,
Natasha
 
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Maria

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Re: the grass is allways greener? to Jim

Hello Jim,

Perhaps you are correct sir, I may return to the U. S. looking stupid, and perhaps I will not. We shall see. I certainly do not mean to bash the U. S. , I just live here and I have thus far only spoken about what my experiences have been. Upon my return from the D. R. I am going to law school. I have no doubt in my mind that this sojourn to the Dominican Republic will be inevitably beneficial in opening my eyes for the better.

Thanks for listening, Maria
 
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Maria

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Re: La Raza : Violent in nature ? para ti, Natasha

Gracias Natasha! Me siento atacada aqu?! Po' ta' bien, yo voy a seguir por mi camino. Ciao, Mar?a
 
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Natasha

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Pa' que te rias...

ONLY A LATINA

Can cuss a man out, make him feel like
crap then, make love to him the same
night and make him feel like a king.

ONLY A LATINA

Wears a burgundy French roll, 3 inch
heels and a split up her thigh to work
and make it look professional.

ONLY A LATINA

Can wear the hell out of spandex.

ONLY A LATINA

Can raise a doctor, a world class
athlete and an A+ student in an
environment deemed by society as
dysfunctional, broken, underprivileged
and disenfranchised.

ONLY A LATINA

Can heat a whole house in the winter
without help from the gas company.

ONLY A LATINA

Can go from the boardroom to the block
and "keep it real" in both places.

ONLY A LATINA

Can slap the taste out of your mouth.

ONLY A LATINA

Can put a LATINO and his non-LATINA
date on pins and needles just by
walking into the room.

ONLY A LATINA

Can live below poverty level and yet set
fashion trends.

ONLY A LATINA

Can fight two struggles everyday and
make it look easy.

ONLY A LATINA

Can make a child happy on Christmas Day
even if he didn't get a damn thing.

ONLY A LATINA

Can be admired and fantasized about by
men of other races and know that
when she does cross over its done out of
sincerity not a political move.

ONLY A LATINA

Can be 75 years old and look 45.

ONLY A LATINA.

Can make other women want to pay plastic
surgeons top $$$ for physical features she
was already born with.

ONLY A LATINA

can be the mother of
civilization........

Did Ya Hear me? ONLY A LATINA!!
 
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BIG DADDY

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Re: WHOA! ?QUE QUIEREN DECIR CON ESO!big daddy

well this sounds like BIG BROTHER SYNDROM!!!
do you believe than that this any different here?and why???

violence?how about the 70 year old farmer that has gotten his head chopped of a few month ago.how about the fare collector of the expresso that was killed by a passenger only because the bus stopped on the way to take up another passenger?
what about the vandalism and riots on huelga general?about vandalism in general?
things do go a lot deeper than they appear on the surface and it's not only warm and friendly smiles.you will learn when you get here.everybody had to learn his lessons and so will you.
 
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Bert

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Getting along todos / Maria y Natasha

Maria, Un saludo cordial (y un abrazo) desde Holanda. Espero que tengas exito en todo lo que haces.
Natasha : all I could think of, reading "Only a Latina" is ... YES !!
Muy chistoso. Un abrazo para ti tambien.

Sometimes discussions get heated up in this forum and emotions start flyin?. Tu vez, just goes to prove that the sun is to blame. Gringos ;-), expats, Dominicanos, Latinas, on this forum (I reckon) we want the best for the DR. Let?s try to keep our tempers in check and not diss each other (too much)

Remember those famous words ? : "Can?t we all get along ?"
(Rodney G King)
 
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Yve

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Re: WHOA! ?QUE QUIEREN DECIR CON ESO!big daddy

What is the point?? Are you saying that the Dominican Republic is more violent than the US?? Please enlighten me.
 
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Maria

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Re: Pa' que te rias...

Wepa Natasha!!!!! Dilos! Pa' que sepan la verdad!!!!