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managing multiple girlfriends and living like a playboy
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wake up and smell the coffee
Many gringas believe that but they are incorrect. Dominican guys have strong stomachs for having intercourse with less than pretty gringas and they play the fake passion part so well that these unattractive mostly unloved women come to the incorrect conclusion that Dominicans do it better. You could argue that they do it better with that type of woman and be correct, but when it comes to taking care of their wives or girlfriends in bed they are useless wham bam thank you mam immature pleasure seekers who do not satisfy their women. You can believe what you want in your fantasy world of DDDs but you are not making a clinical observation. You are taking personal experiences and believing that it translates into something that is does not. PS. Suarez has a good grip on Dominican things.
Many gringas believe that but they are incorrect. Dominican guys have strong stomachs for having intercourse with less than pretty gringas and they play the fake passion part so well that these unattractive mostly unloved women come to the incorrect conclusion that Dominicans do it better. You could argue that they do it better with that type of woman and be correct, but when it comes to taking care of their wives or girlfriends in bed they are useless wham bam thank you mam immature pleasure seekers who do not satisfy their women. You can believe what you want in your fantasy world of DDDs but you are not making a clinical observation. You are taking personal experiences and believing that it translates into something that is does not. PS. Suarez has a good grip on Dominican things.
Honey...keep telling yourself that. Trust me I am not unattractive or under loved....Look at my photos. I am a hot, fit, blond hair and blue-eyed Americana, who gets more attention from the white millionaires in Sosua than I do from the locals. I find it hilarious than anytime a woman here says that the Dominican guys do it better all of a sudden she must be ugly, fat or damaged goods. Let me tell you....It's not about women being ugly or unloved. The truth is....THEY DO IT BETTER! I see your point about the fake passion...we ALL have to fake it some times (I have)...it's like you've never watched a porno before. Put a little effort in it, make the girl feel better (and yourself), and let the OP learn what the what he was asking for...How to be a player. He is not asking how to be a stand up guy in search of true love. All I am saying is if he wants to be a player like the Dominicanos, he's starting with a handicap, because he's got to learn some of those plays in the bedroom first.
A good point was made a few posts back that the real wives/girlfriends despite knowing what goes on, never leave (unlike in the west). Let's not get into how that happens but now surely the other part-time, temp cabana girls know about this - they are not stupid. So what is the incentive for them to go to the cabana with this never-become-available guy !? As far as I know girls never give it away, as they put it, or else we wouldn't have a sex industry anywhere in the world... !!?
I think the incentive is money (in many various forms or shapes). So it is P4P whichever way you like to dress it up. This whole business of "player" is a bit of a myth in my opinion ("oh, I never pay for it", "I just give them some gifts", etc.....), you like sex with a lot of girls, you pay for it, one way or another - unless you are Brad Pitt, then you are not a "player" but a sex salve...... !LOL
I think the incentive is money (in many various forms or shapes). So it is P4P whichever way you like to dress it up. This whole business of "player" is a bit of a myth in my opinion ("oh, I never pay for it", "I just give them some gifts", etc.....), you like sex with a lot of girls, you pay for it, one way or another - unless you are Brad Pitt, then you are not a "player" but a sex salve...... !LOL
I understand what you're saying, but that's not always the case. There are plenty of girls going out with guys who never spend a dime on them...As a matter of fact I have a cousin who had like five girls and they would all give HIM money and stuff all the time. He just played it like "Hey I'm poor, I don't have any money, so if you want to be with me this is what's up...".
There are many, many players in The DR but they are not the guys throwing around money. Almost any guy can get girls by spending tons of money, but the Tigueres from the barrios can get tons and not spend anything. Haven't you heard the song "Loca con su tiguere" by El Cata?
I think the key to being a player is to get the right people at the right time in their life. Then you can have as many as you can handle and they will play along because they get what they want just as you get what you want. So, play it safe, don't tell them you love them, unless you actually mean it, and have fun.
Most of my male employees consider themselves to be "players". They are always bragging about their exploits, but are not nearly as smooth as they think.
They are frequently getting locked out of the house by mom, kicked out of the house by their wives, or coming home to an empty apartment to find the wife and kids and furniture gone because someone talked or suspected or whatever.
So dont do the crime if you cant do the time. Dominican men may be experts at cheating but that just makes the women experts at busting their asses.
I suspect that in the end its just alot of work and expense and all you can be sure of at the end of the day is that one way or another your "steady" relationship will go to hell.
Also if you cannot afford two apartments what in the hell makes you think you can afford two women?
its like this extremely old joke:
Once when Mark Twain was lecturing in Utah, a Mormon acquaintance argued with him on the subject of polygamy. After a long and rather heated debate, the Mormon finally said, “Can you find for me a single passage of Scripture which forbids polygamy?” “Certainly,” replied Twain. “‘No man can serve two masters.’”
They are frequently getting locked out of the house by mom, kicked out of the house by their wives, or coming home to an empty apartment to find the wife and kids and furniture gone because someone talked or suspected or whatever.
So dont do the crime if you cant do the time. Dominican men may be experts at cheating but that just makes the women experts at busting their asses.
I suspect that in the end its just alot of work and expense and all you can be sure of at the end of the day is that one way or another your "steady" relationship will go to hell.
Also if you cannot afford two apartments what in the hell makes you think you can afford two women?
its like this extremely old joke:
Once when Mark Twain was lecturing in Utah, a Mormon acquaintance argued with him on the subject of polygamy. After a long and rather heated debate, the Mormon finally said, “Can you find for me a single passage of Scripture which forbids polygamy?” “Certainly,” replied Twain. “‘No man can serve two masters.’”
You are so right about the money. Sooooo many rich guys here try and buy it and say they aren't paying for it. Why else would that beauty queen be with this fat ugly old white guy. For love?? It works both ways too ladies, but if there are two equally aged people, equally matched for looks you might have a chance. There are so many Players (dominicanos) out there taking advantage of the pobre money thing. I know a Dominican guy who is working his own dominicana wife (of course not legally married) now. he has about 5 girlfriends, a cover job, and his wife pays for everything. She's an executive for a resort company and make good money for a dominicana (nearly 3,000 us/mo), averagely attractive, and head over heels in love with him. He laughs at her all the time. We will be at work, and she will send these long text messages about how deeply she loves him, and he will be there laughing with his girlfriend(s) where he takes 2-4 hours off mid-day to go and have sex with. She gives him an allowance to pay for his transportation, buys him food, clothes, cologne, gifts....and he gives the money to his girlfriends. Really really sad. I thought this was a problem that only plagued white girls here, but apparently not, this Morena is getting played too.
So true!
In my prime as "supreme player" (lol), I juggled 6 women and kept a steady on the side.:bunny::bunny::bunny:
Even though it felt great, the time consumed and money spent was not worth it.
At the end all I felt was an empty feeling in my heart, guilt and a bank account running on empty.
When you turn off the lights it is all the same thing.
I rather have one fine woman that satisfy my every wishes and desires than 10 who do not.
I guess I grew up!:bunny::bunny:
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Keep telling yourself that. You know it's not the same thing when you turn off the lights.
It would be great to find that person that satisfies you every wish as you say, but let's be realistic Does that EVER happen? All of us who decide not to have a bunch of girls on the side either cannot or are willing to compromise and suppress what we really would like to do for the sake of harmony in the marriage.
Correct!
That is why I am single and make frequent trips to the DR. (lol)
The only difference is that now I do not juggle 6 women at a time.
The DR women are there for the moment and that is it.
I do date here and there in NY but I have not found the one to truly settle down with BUT I do not juggle so many women at a time anymore. (I was married for 18 years and do not plan to marry for a LONG time).
Hit and run. (lol)
2 at a time is more to my fancy. (women, please do not shoot me down. I am only saying the truth!!!)
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Glad you speak the truth LOL. Even some girls enjoy 2 at a time on occasion. OH wait...I can't say that...it makes me a...um...oooo...hmmm...What's that word???
Glad you speak the truth LOL. Even some girls enjoy 2 at a time on occasion. OH wait...I can't say that...it makes me a...um...oooo...hmmm...What's that word???
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