A very good friend of mines brother is what I consider slightly touched by a mild for of downs if that exists. He is very obviously effected, just the way he carries himself, but on the other side he is a very intelligent person, he is mid forties and just studied and worked all his life, very qualified but he can never land a more than very bottom rate just because of his slight condition (I've never gone into specifics as you can imagine so I'm not even sure it is downs related.
the thing that makes me wonder is that he married a woman with very obvious downs, but she developed very well and actually is a teacher In A santo domingo school, again not earning equally.
these two had a child, he was very touched by downs and is a massive handful, I sometimes take him swimming and he is just impossible, and he also gets a huge amount of hostility by the public because he is boisterous, doesn't know his own strength, slavers quite a bit and all the negatives people might associate.
But then they had another, pretty much knowing there was a good chance she would come out the same, she came out worse and spends most of her day screaming at nothing, she is what I would describe as a huge drain on everything around her, obviously not at her own doings, but this little girl will go throug life having to deal with so so much crap from the heartless nature to this kind of thing here.
but then guess what,they had another, it's difficult to say how he will grow as he's still very young, but again obviously showing signs the others had/have.
i was talking to my buddy the other day down te pool watching these kids and how much they take up, and how it is constant, relentless even annoying, but besides the point, we began discussing if parents knowing they are going to have mentally ill kids should not be more convinced into not having more children, or in fact even forced? Te consensus was that mentally impaired adults should be guided more strongly as the future these kids will have, or be allowed one no then forced to stop.
just saying, on an already stretched society, in every way, would a yo e agree it's a bad place to bring up someone who will be a burden more than an asset?