all great good points, and I appreaciate them "yes" I love advance, as I small kid I remember hating my mother giving me advice, but one day my father said when I was 17, "you're going to miss that advice when she dead and gone"...........and I do have nobody to tell me that me my clothes don't match ......lol about the earlier post I've reading the help topic to figure out how to edit or delete that part I shouldn't have posted, it said hit the edit button damn I been looking all night for that button can some one advise me on how to edit a post ? cause you right I don't what unneccesary attention targeting me even before I get there :cross-eye