Need advice for guy traveling to DR

[ClippedWing]

Re: Larry - you are 100% right

-this from an enlightened woman's point of view.

- and Goatfarmga-yes you are in for a mighty BIG surprise once you move...Yep Dominicans have a far healthier attitude about sex than most North Americans...one of the reasons why so many people love the country and its inhabitants......most people would live a far healthier, happier life if they would just loosen up.

I think there is a huge difference between having a healthy attitude about sex and endorsing a website where Horny American men visit DR and take pictures of naked DR girls spread eagle and the post them on the net... I wonder if these girls know their pictures are on the net like that.

I'm a very sexual person but I draw the line at strange men taking pictures of my snatch and then posting them on the net with captions underneath letting others know if I swallow or not.

True these girls choose to sell sex for money but does that mean they shouldn't be respected in some way? That site goes too far IMO.

Smooches.

 

[Criss Colon]

Easy For You To Say!!!!!

You have seen the site,I have not!!! You remind me of the group in the State of Maryland who job it was to rate movies according to their "sexual content"(this was about 30 years ago!) They watched the movie"Deep Throat". It is said that they had to watch it 3 times before they decided that it was pornographic!!!!!

Do You????


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[hollywood north]

There are risks in any business, and it is a shame that unsuspecting women end up in that position.... (!!!)

however it's easy to say no to photos....anyone who lets someone take their picture and gets paid for it has to know that there is a risk of them being seen elsewhere. And I bet many of those 'poor girls' know all about the internet....or at least internet cafe and hotmail etc etc.....they are not that sheltered!!!!


There many many sites that go so much farther than what's been discussed here. What goes on between two consenting adults is entirely their business.

 

[goatfarmnga]

Easy for you to say!

Hey CC, It was an X rated site I am sure..But a bunch of teenagers,"Sisters" etc looks like Pedaphilia (SP?) almost..JUST DID NOT THINK IT BELONGED ON DR1..But anyway I realize sex is good, I have a Dominican man for the past 6 years! I will surely have culture shock when I arrive but hey that is half the fun of moving to strange places..Adventure! I forwarded DR1.com to my family/friends that may want to retire in DR after I get there and brag about it soooo much..Let's hope so anyway! Pam

NOTE: I was not complaining about what two consenting adults do etc...I was just complaining that DR1 is for info but prostitution did not seem like it was appropriate info and that info was deleted by Anna YESTERDAY........

 

[ClippedWing]

Re: Easy For You To Say!!!!!

You have seen the site,I have not!!! You remind me of the group in the State of Maryland who job it was to rate movies according to their "sexual content"(this was about 30 years ago!) They watched the movie"Deep Throat". It is said that they had to watch it 3 times before they decided that it was pornographic!!!!!

Do You????


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Then perhaps you should go to the site and see it first before you start yapping at the gums and telling me that my post reminds you of some horny Marylanders, in which by the way, I still don't see the connection- but whatever.


Smooches

 

[ltsnyder]

Yes Virginia there is a pedophile . . . . . .

Have you ever read docter Suezz books. In one part there is a character who grabs the back of his pants and lift him self up and flys away that way.

This group that discusess prostitution is similar, you see they all stand in a circle and grab the back of the pants of the one to the right, and by lifting hard, they all fly away together!

By supporting what each other say they make it a reality in their minds (which is very, very , very important to them).

I am all for them discussing prostitution on this site, just as long as there are people like me and you ( goatfarmnga ) to check them a little.

Can someone mail/pm me the URL for that prostitution site, I am curious.

Just keep in mind that most of these free wheelers who justify paid sex as the culture or acceptable or claim the women have a choice, sweat and toss and turn the nights they don't have the distraction of a pretty women, thinking "oh god, I hope I didn't catch anything from that last lay".:bored: . . . and since most are too scared to get tested they sweat about every lay they got since they arrived in DR, which for them is a mindblowing experience, with all those memories to worry about , I'm suprised thier heads don't explode. :bandit:

-Lee

PS: note in all this time discussing prostitution no one talked about using condoms, I wish there was a smilly face icon putting a gun to his head blowing his brains out:dead: without a condom it's russian roullet. Sometimes I feel like I'm Spike Lee running around yelling "wake up"!

 

[AZB]

"Just keep in mind that most of these free wheelers who justify paid sex as the culture or acceptable or claim the women have a choice, sweat and toss and turn the nights they don't have the distraction of a pretty women, thinking "oh god, I hope I didn't catch anything from that last lay". . . . and since most are too scared to get tested they sweat about every lay they got since they arrived in DR, which for them is a mindblowing experience, with all those memories to worry about , I'm suprised thier heads don't explode. " Lee

Hahahaha, Lee, you seem to think you have it all figured out and speak for everyone. There is a whole new world out there buddy. Just live in DR and you will see it all. If I can only give you example of the people I know and the things they have done you would never believe me. I bet almost all of them are as healthy as you or better. I bet I am more healthier than you and I am not a saint at all.
Almost all men I know engage in paid sex. I mean all the men I know who talk like you (pretent to be a saint); when the time is right, the risk is low, they all indulge. I have not met a single married man who has not looked for easy / paid sex in DR. The ones who didn't get laid were either too afraid (chicken) or just didn't have the know-how on picking up girls / hookers. I can understand goatfarmernga (name says it all) views but you are a man, you should know men better. You are not fooling us, but I bet you must have scored points with the corny people.

Yes we use protection when called for but I also happen to know many people who never use protection and still live a healthy life. They see it like this: the majority of STDs can be killed with a few pills or an injection. No big deal.

About AIDS: you have a better chance of winning a lotto than getting that lame disease. I have an ugly friend, fat and horny. He had never made out with a decent girl, ever, until, he got married a few years ago. He always went to whorehouses in corona, queens and 42st hookers. Never used condom and screwed the most disgusting women in the world. Drug users etc. This practice lasted for over 10 years and guess what, he is HIV negative and never got infected with any STD. Some people simply have a very strong immune system and they can resist all the diseases you can think of.
I am not a saint and if I tell you the number of women I have been with, you will never believe me. No, I don't like hookers. Am I HIV negative? yes. Even if I become HIV positive, big deal. There is no proof that HIV causes AIDS. Yes if you take AZT, then you will die of aids (that is the side effect...depression of the immune system).
My man, live a full life and use protection. I always use protection. I never go on a date without my swiss army knife. Now I am thinking of getting a 9MM.
Have a nice day.

 

[ltsnyder]

Just to clarify . . . .

When I said . . .

PS: note in all this time discussing prostitution no one talked about using condoms, I wish there was a smilly face icon with a gun to his head blowing his brains out. Sometimes I feel like I'm Spike Lee running around yelling "wake up"!

I was stressing that sex with so many women with out a condom is dangerous for the man, STD exposure excetera, only. Not some sort of violent player hate statement, I'm very , very sorry for the confusion, I have since clarified my statement.

AZB I almost agree with most of what you are saying, and for the rest you are entitled to your opinion, and I am real curious about how many you slept with, even if I don't beleive you, I do want to hear.

I just wish a response to a question about where to meet and how much to pay a hooker/girl would go like so . . (pay attention to the last lines in bold) . . . . .

NOTE: AZB never said this, this is a compialation of comments made over weeks and elaborations by me . . . .

I don't know how much a boca chica girl/hooker costs
and it is different for a "Short time",and for all night! With the peso hovering at 30 to 1,the "rates" may have changed.I have a group of friends that I see in my apartment for 3 to 400 pesos for about an hour.I would suggest talking to the other guys you see on the beach.Ask a number of girls what they want for "All Night".Offer them less than "half" and see if there are any takers.Be specific with the girls about what you want and expect them to do,BEFORE you invite them to go with you.NEVER pay any money "Up-Front"! Pay ONLY the agreed upon amount.No "Taxi Fare",or "I need to pay my rent today" money! My "Friends" have a saying about me and my friend,"Tom And Jerry are "CHEAP,but they are not "STUPID"!As a non-spanish speaking "Tourist" you must expect that you will pay more than those of us who live and work here,and speak the language.Remember,these girls are PROSTITUTES! You will think that you are with your bride on your "Honeymoon"(They are THAT great!)but you are NOT! Don't lose your head,or you will lose your MONEY! We love this place,but you MUST be smart! They won't "LIKE" you more,or treat you better if you give them more money! Oh and by the way, a little about myself, I have slept with over 200 girls here and never used a condom, after all the majority of STDs can be killed with a few pills or an injection. No big deal, I am also HIV negative, and if you become HIV positive, big deal. There is no proof that HIV causes AIDS. Yes if you take AZT, then you will die of aids (that is the side effect...depression of the immune system). But of course as every one knows you'll only get HIV if you do something gay or as they say . . . the 4Hs.


A comment like this helps put things in perspective and should be a disclaimer on all comments about how to pick up hooker/girls.

AZB you probably are healther than me, all those years of tapping keys on a computer have left me in less than atheletic condition.

-Lee

 

[goatfarmnga]

AZB...You hooker lovin man...You are misguided

AZB..I have Goatfarmnga because it is easy for people to remember. I used to raise/sell goats because I could not mow my fields ..Cheaper than a decent tractor..Also If you think that HIV is no big deal SPEAK to someone who has had a positive test..I am sure they will tell you it would have been better to practice safe sex than to have to down 47 pills aday..I HAD a friend from High school that moved to New York to Model..She contracted HIV in 1982 and took 47 pills for many years and that did not save her life..She died about 12 years after finding out she was positive.....That is the 3rd person I know who contracted HIV from unprotected sex..
You live in a fantasy world if you think your FAT UGLY Hooker loving friend who finally got married..(POOR WOMAN who is stuck with the loser)..He may have been lucky..It is dangerous and you just want to deny it that is your choice..But I bet you are sweating it out after each test..Why bother with the test IF you are so sure it is impossible to catch this disease? If you start having night sweats you may want to get tested..THAT IS A SYMPTOM...I realize you will GO OFF on me but that is fine...Lee sounds like a sensible man..even after his foreplay info... I still can not get that out of my mind.. LOL Pam

 

[AZB]

Why do I even bother explaining it to a goatfarmer?

Lee, you have extracted statments from various posters and put a new twist on it to make it sound like I have written it all. Please clearify that the above quote (bold letters) is not all mine. People might think I don't use condoms and screw hookers as my favorite passtime.
About how many girls I have been with..... you would have to come to santiago to find that out. I will certainly buy you a few beers and entertain you with my stories and jokes the whole evening.

Goatfarmer, you just didn't hear me right. I said, there is no evidence that HIV causes AIDS. There are people who are born with depressed immune systems. there are people who do things to destroy their immune system. There are kids in africa who have depressed immune system because of lack of nutrients in their diet or lack of food (hunger). There are evidence that gays who use orgasm enhancment drugs (poppers) that has distroyed their immune system. Do you know what gays practice behind closed doors? there were a few bars gay bars closed down in NYC where guys used to fist each other up the butt as their favorite passtime. They use toxic gels for lubricants and other harmfull substances. they used jerribles and other foreign objects as insertions. They do sick things to harm their health. Thats why gays are hit the hardest. Then you have straight folks (like your friend) who are also closet cases if they have no past medical history. Many are gays or drug users.
I just told you in my post, if you use drugs to combat HIV then you will sure to die of aids (just like your friend). AZT is not a new drug and was not invented to combat AIDS. Please do your research before you open your mouth. AZT was invented in the 60's to fight cancer but quickly discontinued because of its dangerous side effects (distruction of the immune system over longer use of time). now please tell me, what does HIV does (if what you really think it does), yes, they say it distroys the immune system (exactly like what AZT does).
I say, if you are HIV positive, drink a beer and live a normal healthy life. Its the medicine and the mental stress that will kill you. I bet if you are HIV positive and don't know it, you may live to be 80yrs old without being affected by AIDS.
Please do more research on AIDS. The blood samples from the 50's had HIV in them too. Where was AIDS then? What is AIDs to you? You thinks its a new disease that was discovered 25 yrs ago?
I say, usee condoms becuase there are plenty of other diseases that will harm you or kill you much faster than AIDS.

 

[ltsnyder]

AZB I clarified my statement . . . .

Just found it confusing when you say you take protection and then refered to the protection as a pocket knife not a condom. You implied but never actually said you use a condom for protection.

-Lee

 

[AZB]

Lee, the pocket knife was a joke, I don't have a knife. I do use condoms when I am with a shady person, whom I don't know. I use condoms on ugly women whom I don't want to get pregnant. I believe in beautiful babies who are not only beautiful in my eyes. Please don't blame me, I want to "mejorar mi raza" too. I use condoms on women who have bad hair, because I don't want my kid to have bad hair, then I would have to pay for beauty salons for the rest of my life to have my daughter's hair ironed straight. I don't want my kid to hate me for that.
I use condoms if a girl gets into bed with me on the first date. wait, there are exceptions, sometimes I don't have a condom and sometimes if you go look for a condom the girl becomes cold and and dresses up and leaves. So you see, its not so easy to be protected all the time. There are tough choices to make in split seconds.
Here is a trick, if you must have sex without condom then check for a few things to reduce your chances of catching a deadly slimy disease. Check her vagina for any signs or symptoms of herpes or any other alterations. You all know what a healthy vagina looks like, so look for abnomalities. Then check to see if it smells like COD fish. This could be due to unhygenic lifestyle, or simply fermented bacteria in sweat from walking or it may indicate fungal infection. If you must decide to eat it then I recommend tarter sauce to enhance the fishy smell flavor.

If all seems ok to you then go for it and use the pull out technique at the right moment. Now immediately urinate to clean your urithral tube and wash your penis with soap and water. If you have tequila, pour it on your penis. That stuff killed a guy i knew once so a little microbe is no challenge to that mexican poison.

Now here is the bad part:
If after a few days you develop watery pimples on your penis or around your genitalia. Don't worry, you might have contracted herpes, its not the end of the world, it will not kill you and will stay with you for the rest of your life. think of it this way, one les disease to worry about. Now if you feel burning sensation inside the penis when you urinate and if some clear liquid or puss drips out when you squeeze your penis, you might have NSU, chlamydia or gonorrhoeae. Take 2 pills of azithromicin of 500mg each and you will be perfectly healthy in 2 days. It even kills Syphilis. thats for a mild infection. Now if the symptoms persist, see your doctor friend and he will take care of you and with-in days you will be fine. If you have infected your girlfriend with it, then blame it on her. You will be so surprised to see that she won't give you hard time and will act nervous and seem guilty.

Just don't get warts on your genitelia, they look ugly and troublesome. Don't catch herpes, its also an ugly disease.
The bad part of some of the disease is that many people have no symptoms at all and they simply pass it on to others.
I say, Just don't have sex. Don't leave your home, don't drive cars (that kills more people everyday than AIDS). Don't fly in planes, don't enter Highrise buildings and don't ever drive a motorcycle. Did I mention drinking and smoking alone kills more people anually then AIDS and other major diseases? I say, we should all become Tibet Monks or simply end our lives by jumping over the cliff to end all the worries and misseries that we have to live with.
Have a nice day.
Sincerely,
AZB

 

[goatfarmnga]

azb..

Sorry if I rant and rave but the use of a condom is a simple procedure that can save your penis from falling off to one of many sexual diseases which I see you are familiar with...Good luck to you and I hope HIV and WHATEVER IT'S REAL DANGERS ARE...May it Never touch your life..Oh My friend was not a drug user or Gay..She slept with men and THEY could have been Bi or IV drug user at one time..Tough to keep track of everyone's past when you have sex with someone..YOU NEVER KNOW WHO OR WHAT they have had sex with before you....But enough of all this..Have a nice day! Pam PS..Yeah you can die any number of ways in the street etc...That would be an ACCIDENT..More than likely Not preventable...HIV is preventable BUT you already know everything I have to say so I bid you ADIOS AZB...

 

[Criss Colon]

What a buch of Hypocrites!

I have now been to the site! It says that it is for MEN! You have to register and give your e-mail address and get a "password" before you can access the site!Seems like the people complaining about the site,did a lot of work to get there!I didn't see a man with a gun forcing you to open the site!!!
I love the site!! Lots of pretty young naked Dominican girls!! "God's handywork is truly amazing,isn't it?

Anyone want the site address just email me,I'll send it to you.

Sex between consenting adults is amazing too! That includes men with men,women with women,and lots of "combinations of the above!!!

Cris the "Tri-Sexual"....I'll TRY anything sexual! (Except the "GUY"thing!) Sorry AZB!

 

[lola]

oh my

Good luck guy. Don't come home with anything that you can spread to a nice lady back in SF.

You guys make me not want to visit the island. Surely there are some decent guys there to befriend or do they all want to have sex with local prostitutes?

Guess I'll find out. Leaving in two days.

 

[hollywood north]

Befriending

Have no fear Lola...there are PLENTY of men there that will want to 'befriend' you. How you choose to deal with them is completely up to you!

 

[goatfarmnga]

what a bunch of Hypocrites...

Yeah if you want to actually register and go into the site you could do that "Cris Colon". I just opened it SAW what it was...Did not register... because it was on DR1 and figured it had bars, discos etc..Never did I think that the poor young girls were subjected to dirty old American/other men by the droves..
BUT I see the DR1 guys think that is OK...MORALLY good, "Tell your family how you really are" Type behavior, NAW, But have your fun and hope your daughters NEVER have to do that s**t to make a few bucks..THAT is the sad point..They think that is a way to a good life...You men should pay the girls way to college if you really wanted to help her with your money and keeping your pants on would be the biggest favor you could do (Not that the biggest thing to offer her is in your pants).. I realize you will get a KICK out of me AGAIN TonyC, AZB etc....But It is not just my view..If it was acceptable behavior I bet your wives and girlfriends would be thrilled to know that you like LITTLE GIRLS etc..as on that site.. Have a better day than today...tomorrow! Other than this subject you DR1 guys appear to be great guys...Pam

 

[goatfarmnga]

LOLA...Do not let them fool you..

These people act as if DR is sex crazed.. I am still in shock at the attitudes they have about prostitutes..Male and female prostitutes apparently are everywhere so beware they will not bother you I am sure..Pam

 

[lola]

alrighty then

Thanks Pam. Now don't get me wrong, I'm a rather seasoned traveller who doesn't mind meeting nice guys while vacationing. I was just starting to get a little discouraged that all men will be busy chasing local prostitutes.

 

[goatfarmnga]

oohhhh, I see,

There will be plenty of men to go around I am sure.....