Take heed brim, if she does not follow up on the misas (memorials services) for like two weeks, then he did not die or had been dead for some time.
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Take heed brim, if she does not follow up on the misas (memorials services) for like two weeks, then he did not die or had been dead for some time.
She was gone for two weeks. I asked questions regarding funeral and got a "non of your business" response and don't you "trust me". I asked for more information regarding her father and was rebuffed totally with much anger.
I recently buried my parents within the year and the Dominicana's response just doesn't seem right to me for someone who's parent passed away.
I could be wrong but my gut feeling doesn't like it!
Brim83
I initially wanted to track down information regarding her father's funeral, but after her response, I decided instead to back away from her. If there is a future between us then I would want to know for sure.
I know from an earlier conversation that she didn't get along with her father much.
Brim83
I will wait to see what her response is since I've backed away.
I believe that maybe the relationship had run it's course anyway.
Thanks,
Brim83
It may not have been a scam, but her reactions to your questions and her not being available at all after you confirmed she received the transaction info is very telling sign of how she would be in the relationship.
As others mentioned, she is the relative living in the US, so she is seen as having money, even if she does not. And because of cultural closeness with family, she will want to do and pay for as much as she can.
But - the way she reacted after was not good, even if it was not a scam. Even if the funeral was out in the campo area with bad phone reception, she still would have been able to talk with you more than once while away.
And that her first reaction to your questions was "you do not trust me" was more a sign of her own existing issues with trust.
Basically, even if it was not a scam, it does not seem like it was developing a good foundation for a relationship...
As others mentioned, she is the relative living in the US, so she is seen as having money, even if she does not. And because of cultural closeness with family, she will want to do and pay for as much as she can.
But - the way she reacted after was not good, even if it was not a scam. Even if the funeral was out in the campo area with bad phone reception, she still would have been able to talk with you more than once while away.
And that her first reaction to your questions was "you do not trust me" was more a sign of her own existing issues with trust.
Basically, even if it was not a scam, it does not seem like it was developing a good foundation for a relationship...
May I ask how much you sent her. Just curious what a funeral would cost, real or not. Did she have a return ticket when she left?
What ever he sent her , it is way cheaper than getting married. I am sure he got his monies worth.
Lets say he broke off a big piece and gave her $2000 U.S, having known her for a "couple of months" he is still way ahead of the game.
I like the part about her being "coy". A word I would not use to describe many Dominican chicas
Lets say he broke off a big piece and gave her $2000 U.S, having known her for a "couple of months" he is still way ahead of the game.
I like the part about her being "coy". A word I would not use to describe many Dominican chicas
Btw, feyboo is an excellent tool. Lots of doms don't have privacy settings maxed. A red flag in itself. Scroll through friends oh hers pages. Surely there are relatives who would have posted something. Hopefully it won't be a selfie with an open casket.
French women are coy, generally by nature. English women can be coy, but need to work at it.
I cannot recall any Dominicana I could call "coy". Like German comedians, Coy Dominicanas are as rare as hen's teeth and seldom seen..
I cannot recall any Dominicana I could call "coy". Like German comedians, Coy Dominicanas are as rare as hen's teeth and seldom seen..
My thoughts exactly! I have trust issues now that I didn't have before.
Either there was a funeral and things were crappy or...
Brim83
I don't know what the cost was and have no idea on return tickets. She avoided the discussion several times.
I really felt like a mushroom if you know what I mean.
Thus I am backing off.
Brim83
Insightful.
Thanks.
Well, now that I've been bit, I'll be more cautious in the future.
Brim83
I will leave open for a while. OP, she definitely sounds like a gold digger.
Love your attitude.
I'm reaching the same conclusions thanks to folks on this forum.
Brim83
Nor have I, but I know their ways.
I have found that one cannot make such declarations about American women, since they tend to vary a lot.
Mexican women are sneaky: when you ask them what they did with the money, you get a Cantinflesco dialogue that is magnificent to behold, but incomprehensible to any logical mind. Dominicans are not so capable of effective sneakiness, and just get angry. Grrr! don't you believe me!
Glad we could help. I think this one is done. Brim, you know what time it is.
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