You got my attention!
I wouldn't generally commnent on all this but yesterday I started reading the thread and now I am hooked!
True tipping should be for good service, but I don't beleive that to be an absolute! As you read through the thread you can see different occassions when delayed meals caused by another table, return of dinner, or like, for someone to think they have poor service. Let's get a grip! Things happen! No need to blame some poor waiter or waitress trying to earn a living!
Me personally? I tip! It's in my nature. The first time I went to Playa Carribe beach, they charged me the same 100 pesos for the lounge chair as everywhere else on the island. Next time I came, I asked for a table and an umbrella for the dog. Same 100 pesos. I give them 120. Why? Because when I come every one of the guys working on the beach goes out of his way to say hello, move an umbrella, find the right spot, etc. for Cos and me. That's more than worth the 20 pesos. If I have to move later, they move me.
Get a beer for 60-80 pesos in a restraunt and not leave the rest for a tip? How cheap would I be? Don't forget these establishments make their money on turnover. If someone is sitting at an outdoor cafe sipping a beer for two hours, sort of takes away the opportunity for the waiter to make money on others, doesn't it? If you were in the US and you walked up to the bar and ordered a soda, beer or drink, and then took your beer back to talk to your friends, aren't you expected to leave atleast a $1? You bet you are! All the bartender did was get you the bottle or pour the draft. Why is that so different?
As far as the DR expecting the 10% to help employers pay their employees, I don't agree with that! That's part of the cost of doing business. Would you expect to see the 10% in there when yo go to buy your clothes or health club membership? Maybe when you went to see the doctor! Didn;t they give you service? should you help pay the salary there, or is that expense included in the retail price, or doctor visit? The sales girl helped you find an outfit. That's part of your overhead and the restraunt owner should figure his prices accordingly. I can understand it in the price of the meal, n ot as an add on. I don't buy the excuse!
C'mon people! Agree with me or not, I keep the same standards and practices on tipping as I do traveling in the US, Europe, Mexico or anywhere else in the world! Stop being so petty! And if that makes me a stupid gringo, well, I've been called worse and gotten a lot less for the same money!
JRR