daoudruben,
I was adopted from Santiago, Dominican Republic as a child by a wonderful American family here in New York. My biological mother in DR was the maid of a family friend in Santiago for many years. With me in poor health, she told our friend she was hoping someone would adopt me and take me to the States for better care---that's where my adoptive parents came in.
I have spent the majority of my life living, studying, and working in New York. I have kept in contact with my adoptive family growing up (sending photos, letters, etc) My adoptive parents have also been supportive of me and I am forever grateful for them---we have an amazing relationship. With their support, I have been traveling to Santiago the past few years to spend time with my family and friends in the Dominican Republic. I love the culture and wanted to be more a part of it. I thank god everyday that I was given the opportunity to be raised in a happy, loving home where I received the care I needed at the time. I'm happy, 100% healthy, and love the relationships I have with both families now.
I hope that when you adopt a child from the Dominican Republic, you care for him/her as your own. Speak spanish to them, (my adoptive parents did this for me), help them be proud of their background and the country they came from. Show them love and support and be open about everything (I've heard of families who keep the adoption a secret, that is terrible).
There are many mothers in the Dominican Republic who need to give up their children for adoption for health reasons, financial problems, etc. Decide immediately whether you want an open or closed adoption and be firm on this. Work with a reputable agency, do NOT simply go down there and speak to locals. Unfortunately in the most poverty stricken areas mothers have been forced to try to sell their children for money---please do not support this. Do your research, look online for reviews of agencies, get your paperwork together as soon as possible, and be mentally prepared for a rollercoaster ride. Be thorough on your request for medical records, etc and if you're willing...try to get a little information about the family you are adopting from. In the case of a closed adoption, some kids just simply want to know where they came from and nothing more. Being able to give them this information will only make them feel more accepted by your family and understanding of who they are as an individual.
I wish you and your family the best of luck. Adopting children is a wonderful way to give back to the world. I love hearing these stories. Your children will be lucky to have a new addition to the family!