There Are HUGE Cultural Differences In "Parenting Skills" Everywhere In The World!
Therefore,it may be easy to criticise how children are "raised" in cultures other than your own.
My view of "Child Raising",may be quite different than yours.
I feel that the "Goal" of parenting is to raise a child into a happy,healthy,self-reliant,productive,responsable,caring,"God Fearing" adult. An adult capable of earning a "living".An adult capable of forming and maintaining a loving relationship with another adult. An adult capable of raising their own children,if they should decide to have children,into capable adults
In the DR the "Father" is often not part of the relationship when the child is "growing up". They live in a "House" with "Mami",abuela,and "Mami"! They try to raise the children,but it is not easy when you are uneducated,and many times unemployed. They "love" their kids,but have no real parenting skills. They yell at their kids a LOT,but seldome spen any "Quality Time" interacting with them. Older brothers and sister are often the primary caregivers. Resssponsibility for one's actions is NOT taaught here. The parents don't know how to protect their children from physical harm.They let thgem run in the streets,stand in the back of trucks,and never use seat belts. They drink into drunkeness in front of their children. At Christmas a 3 year old was brought to a hospital in Santo Domingo with alcohol intoxication. Guess that a "Grande" was too much! Should have given him a "Pequena"!
I find dominican children to be something like "Wild Animals"! Parents here think that "Yelling" and "Hiting" their kids is all that is needed.
I spend hours each day "playing with" and interacting with my kids.I never yell,and I have never "Hit" them. My dominican wife was told long ago,that the day she hits one of our kids is the day she can look for a new place to live! Same goes for letting our kids on a "Motor",or in the back of a "Camioneta"!
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