Read this story.Am i being taken?

[Jetblue Flight 811]

Hello DR1. Couldnt wait a week for the the Ask Badpiece segment lol anyways heres the story.

Went to DR in sept 2010 (1st time ever,stayed for 3 nights)with some buddies who had visited there B4. We stayed in Sosua which was pretty nice and close to some great nightlife . I met a young dominicana at one of the bars(not sure if it was El Flow cant remember)who was very nice looking. We talked for a bit and later that night we hooked up.

The next morning when we woke up i explained to her that i was going to have desayuno with my friends and i would see her some other time. She INSISTED that she would cook for me and take me to her house( she lives in Sosua)So i said ok. she took me to her house and cooked breakfast for me which i thought was great. However, the remainder of the trip she didnt want me to go anywhere w/o her, i dont even think she wanted me to see my friends! Nevertheless i spent most of the trip at her house.We even went to the local supermercado for food shopping.She cooked every meal

The last night in DR i told her i wanted to go to clasicos(which she pronounced discoteca....VERY FUNNY). She seemed like she didnt want to go but went anyway, but before we left she put a kitchenknife in her purse. we had a decent night out, but she gave off some signs that she had a bad attitude(not necessarily toward me).

That night when we lay down and stuff i asked her what she did for a living. She started crying and said in spanish that she sleeps around for money. She said she doesnt like it but she had to feed her bambino(who stays with her parents in cabarete)and to take care of her family.I felt bad for her.

Anyways when i got back to the states she kept calling and texting about how much she misses me and stuff and saying te quiero mucho and i told her how much i miss her and stuff.1 month later she asked for money because she said her son was coming over and she had no food( this was on a Saturday). I obliged and Western Union her $140. 5 days later she called me saying shes going to get kicked out of her house if she doesnt recieve money by Viernes....she wanted about $300...Of course i suspected something was up then and i promptly told her sorry but i cant ayudar her. She was crying over the phone saying "life is hard" in spanish. Anyways so i cut off the money supply. Monday comes and she is still in her house with internet and cable. Seems a lil suspect, no? Now here comes the questions......


Is she really into me?Although i am aware that she sleeps around for money is it possible that she could still like me for me? She still tells me she loves me online and stuff every chance she gets,and hasn't asked for money or anything.

Is it customary for dominicanas to be that hospitable? I mean she let me stay at her house and cooked and cleaned everyday and made sure everything was ok with me....

I told u earlier that when we went to the discoteca she put a knife in her purse. Was that meant for me or for the other chicas in the club? serious question.

Are Dominican women possessive and jealous? I work midnight here in the states and i leave my comp on and one night she wrote on an instant messenger around 2 am asking what i was doing up at this hour(in spanish). When i didnt reply she called 4 times and then wrote curses in spanish.

If i brought her over here to the states would her hospitality be reciprocated or would she become americanized and lazy?

I like her character and looks but am i stupid for falling in love with an obvious puta? Other than the whole money thing she seems like a real there-for-you kind of chica. She was very protective of me while i was there and warned me of lot of things. I like that.

BTW im am a 28y/o AA male and i dont have trouble much trouble getting women here state-side( im just a little too timid and dont like chasing, honestly). She is about a year younger than me. Im well aware of the volume of beautiful women that exist in DR should i explore other women there?I don't like sleeping around....

Thanks alot, i know it was alot of literature but i like it over there and i plan on visiting every vacation i get.

 

[frank recktenwald]

Bro you won the lottery!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You should marry her, bring her to the States and have many kids. You'll be happy for eternity!!!!!!!!! At least until the money runs out

 

[CFA123]

Rest assured there was someone else the night before she met you, the night after you left, and every night since. You're not the only one sending money... and she's lining up more for when her current boyfriends, yourself included, wise up.

 

[Africaida]

Where is AZB when we need him ?

Seriously, where do these people come from ?

I am thinking about changing my career to con-artist, you make it seem like such an easy job

 

[rice&beans]

Textbook.....Chica 1...Tourist nada....

Do we really need 125 posts explaining this?....ya she really does love you, there is nobody else in her life, she was protecting YOU with that knife in her pocketbook, they had no food...and she's getting kicked out of her house unless you send her money.

<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/51418611@N05/5152064416/" title="Wake Up & Smell___ by bocachica64, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4038/5152064416_2fc2d8632d.jpg" width="350" height="400" alt="Wake Up & Smell___" /></a>

Yes, I would hang with her for awhile...At least until my money ran out....

<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/51418611@N05/5151451621/" title="600_BadDecisions by bocachica64, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4050/5151451621_d6b4a804c3.jpg" width="500" height="500" alt="600_BadDecisions" /></a>

I once sent mi amiga con "benefits" $150.00 for a can opener....we can all see how that turned out.....I stayed silent when I saw what she was using, and we both smiled...A true moment.........but I must admit the sex was really good for the next 3 days....SO...can you make those kinds of decisions on the fly?......I doubt it, but I think you will get better. It doesn't matter what anyone tells you here, your gonna do it.........I know that feeling....wrap it up.......good luck.....

<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/51418611@N05/5151459739/" title="Great can opener by bocachica64, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1172/5151459739_321327fa6b.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="Great can opener" /></a>

 

[jrhartley]

 

[AnnaC]

So I was wondering if we were suddenly going to have new problems/questions or if people would go looking for lost and new socks.

My question has been answered.

 

[Ken]

When you get a first post like this, you have to suspect a sock puppet.

 

[Banker Bill]

Dude, Wake-Up and Read the Forums

Dude, Sosua is a whore town. You met a whore. Like most Sosua whores, she knows how to work the gringos and she knows how to work you.

If you feel guilty that she is poor and you're not, then send her money (or send it to UNICEF). Nevertheless, you are one of her many benefactors (WU suckers).

If you want to bang Sosua whores, fine. Just don't get caught-up in their bullsh*t and don't give out your damn telephone number to prostitutes!

-BB :bunny:

 

[woofsback]

one thing i've always wondered

listening to HOW many men sending HOW much money on a constant basis

i'm very surpriserd the girls don't have thier OWN bank by now

 

[BermudaRum]

Now here comes the questions

Is she really into me?
NO!

Although i am aware that she sleeps around for money is it possible that she could still like me for me?
Yes, most putas fall in love w/ Gringos and their $ :cheeky:

She still tells me she loves me online and stuff every chance she gets,and hasn't asked for money or anything
You said she contacted you several times for money and ayuda. And yes it's very easy to fall in love after several days of being naked:cheeky:

Is it customary for dominicanas to be that hospitable? I mean she let me stay at her house and cooked and cleaned everyday and made sure everything was ok with meYes, especially when they're setting you up to be a W.U. Boyfriend!

I told u earlier that when we went to the discoteca she put a knife in her purse. Was that meant for me or for the other chicas in the club? serious question.
Chicas/ She probably had several issues w/ girls that she knew would be in Classicos that night. That's the reason she made you stay at her place and not go out like most Gringos would do.

Are Dominican women possessive and jealous?
Is the Pope Catholic?

I work midnight here in the states and i leave my comp on and one night she wrote on an instant messenger around 2 am asking what i was doing up at this hour(in spanish).
Drama queens, and what was she doing up at this time. Finishing off James the gringo or Anthony the Dominican.

When i didnt reply she called 4 times and then wrote curses in spanish
Big Deal, so she knows how to spell.

If i brought her over here to the states would her hospitality be reciprocated or would she become americanized and lazy?
Why worry about it, you'll never get a puta a travel visa!:laugh:

I like her character and looks but am i stupid for falling in love with an obvious puta? Other than the whole money thing she seems like a real there-for-you kind of chica. She was very protective of me while i was there and warned me of lot of things. I like that.
I agree, character is everything in a relationship. LOL! Wake up man, she's only interested in protecting what you can give her. Get real, you can take a puta out Sosua, but you'll never take Sosua out of a puta..

 

[Major448]

If you meet a woman and PAY her to have sex with you, you will never be more than her paying customer.

 

[Hlywud]

When you get a first post like this, you have to suspect a sock puppet.

not a sock, nobody on DR1 has ever used
this ip

somewhere in upstate NY

 

[Anastacio]

Some of these girls do have no other option, it is true, but the problem is catching them before they have been involved for so long thier entire mindset becomes corrupted and they see nothing unpleasant about sleeping with horrible old pervs for a few pesos, and the majority do sleep with great grandads on a daily basis. Once they accept that as life then IMO they are too far gone to bring back. Either catch her in her first week or two down town or forget it, but this usually means you are catching them at 18-19-20, which is young for many guys.
If you can live with the fact you will be together for a long long time before you are able to trust her, at all, then fine.
If you can live with going out of your mind whenever she tells you that she is visiting family, is she really.
When she comes home with something new that you didn't pay for, where dud she get the cash?
Who is on the phone, she never sees any friends, who the hell is calling her?, who is she recruit, etc etc etc.
She doesn't work, why is she not asking me for money?
She keeps asking me for money, am I just paying fir her services in a round about way?
If you can handle living with someone you can't share an intelligent conversation with, someone who might think England is in America and dinosaurs exist in the forests where you live. Someone who doesn't understand finances, paying bills, saving, believes what you earn you spend. Doesn't understand quality of products over quantity. Someone you are able to introduce to family and friends without having to make up an entire post teen history for her, someone who knows something about anything to beable to hold a conversation with people around you.
If you don't mind living with a girl who finds the need to carry a kitchen knife in her bag, of letter opener to keep her hair up, just encase she bumps into that client she ripped off while he slept, or the crazy Hiatianas gringo she stole a few nights ago.
If you can live with these thoughts then go for it, if you doubt being able to accept it then walk away, live it for what it is, visit screw her, pay a months rent, leave.

 

[Banker Bill]

Too Late For Most...

Some of these girls do have no other option, it is true, but the problem is catching them before they have been involved for so long thier entire mindset becomes corrupted and they see nothing unpleasant about sleeping with horrible old pervs for a few pesos, and the majority do sleep with great grandads on a daily basis. Once they accept that as life then IMO they are too far gone to bring back. Either catch her in her first week or two down town or forget it, but this usually means you are catching them at 18-19-20, which is young for many guys...

For a Dominican girl, who was raised in Sosua, 18, 19, and 20 IMO is already too far gone. Most of these girls were banging once they hit puberty and whoring 1-3 years after that.

-BB :bunny:

 

[BermudaRum]

Where is AZB when we need him ?

I have a feeling AZB wouldn’t waste he’s internet time on this one

 

[Anastacio]

For a Dominican girl, who was raised in Sosua, 18, 19, and 20 IMO is already too far gone. Most of these girls were banging once they hit puberty and whoring 1-3 years after that.

-BB :bunny:

I don't think the majority of girls working Sosua were raised in Sosua, most Re from other areas and go to earn then move back home or get completely sucked in.
As far as a girl who was raised in Sosua goes I think it is a no brainer, you would be better off injecting yourself with your worst nightmare, I couldn't, wouldn't and don't think anyone else should get a sexual thing going with anyone who has been exposed to Sosua all their young life.

 

[POPNYChic]

hahaha omg no wonder! it is really that easy. thats why dominican women say "a los hombres se les enamora por el estomago" (men fall in love thru their stomach). she cooked for you everyday. ay chuuu.

and uh, you can play "capn save a hoe" as many many do but err umm....would you pick a prosty as a real gf or wife from wherever youre from just as easily? just think on that. these chicks got mad game.

 

[Frank the Tank]

 

[woofsback]

i can be had for a box of macaroni and cheese