Hello,
I have been married to a Dominican Woman for the past 4 Years...First Year was great, then she changed..No affection, she stopped working, etc..Long story short, its been hell now! I allowed her to pay our bills being I'm on a fixed income and she seemed to manage money very well...However, I just found out that I am now 2 Months behind on many things, started by a call from my landlord..I have no idea what happen to this money, and I got no straight answers either..Overall, I told her she needs to leave, she has a 5 Year old as well, her parents live just a few blocks away on the same street..The reason? She took a job from a lady that is on sick leave for a few weeks and has not helped pay anything!! My electric got turned off last week which I had to borrow 4,000 from a friend to get it turned back on..That's another story! Seems its being robbed coming in at 10,000 peso's when it was always 4,000 - 5,000 pesos'.,,,Its being investigated so I'm told..So, we now owe 17,500 to the Electric Company and I'm very worried that they will turn it off again before I get my deposit next Month..If so, I'm done! I have no money at all right now...That Said, she has kept her money to herself over the past 2 Months, and I have asked her many times to at least pay XYZ..My phone is now suspended, only can receive inbound..I assume the Internet will be cut soon as well..I am now trying to sell a few things being a Dining room table, and of course she states its her table!! Get that! Hers!! I paid 68,000 at Serina for it and will sell it for 38,000 once I can afford to post it here on DR1..All that said, how do I get her to leave?? I am all set here folks..I paid for everything I have in cash when I first came here..She came into this marriage with nothing! Also and this was a for sure sign of things..She never wanted a ring, nor wedding rings, and she never picked up our wedding photos that I paid for...Just more B/S...I don't understand her at all and I don't care anymore either..I worry that she will do things while she is here with me..For one, she stole my passport and SS card about 4 Months ago..I found my Passport under her kid's bed, SS card is still MIA and she just plays dumb, no idea where it is...
So, I don't know what's her deal, but she must go!! Should I call the Embassy? I don't speak fluent Spanish so the Police are no help, I tried them, they hung up on me 2 times..LOL..Can you believe that!?? Glad it was not a home invasion, I'd be dead..
Please, some advice on this would be very helpful..
Thank You,
Joe
I have been married to a Dominican Woman for the past 4 Years...First Year was great, then she changed..No affection, she stopped working, etc..Long story short, its been hell now! I allowed her to pay our bills being I'm on a fixed income and she seemed to manage money very well...However, I just found out that I am now 2 Months behind on many things, started by a call from my landlord..I have no idea what happen to this money, and I got no straight answers either..Overall, I told her she needs to leave, she has a 5 Year old as well, her parents live just a few blocks away on the same street..The reason? She took a job from a lady that is on sick leave for a few weeks and has not helped pay anything!! My electric got turned off last week which I had to borrow 4,000 from a friend to get it turned back on..That's another story! Seems its being robbed coming in at 10,000 peso's when it was always 4,000 - 5,000 pesos'.,,,Its being investigated so I'm told..So, we now owe 17,500 to the Electric Company and I'm very worried that they will turn it off again before I get my deposit next Month..If so, I'm done! I have no money at all right now...That Said, she has kept her money to herself over the past 2 Months, and I have asked her many times to at least pay XYZ..My phone is now suspended, only can receive inbound..I assume the Internet will be cut soon as well..I am now trying to sell a few things being a Dining room table, and of course she states its her table!! Get that! Hers!! I paid 68,000 at Serina for it and will sell it for 38,000 once I can afford to post it here on DR1..All that said, how do I get her to leave?? I am all set here folks..I paid for everything I have in cash when I first came here..She came into this marriage with nothing! Also and this was a for sure sign of things..She never wanted a ring, nor wedding rings, and she never picked up our wedding photos that I paid for...Just more B/S...I don't understand her at all and I don't care anymore either..I worry that she will do things while she is here with me..For one, she stole my passport and SS card about 4 Months ago..I found my Passport under her kid's bed, SS card is still MIA and she just plays dumb, no idea where it is...
So, I don't know what's her deal, but she must go!! Should I call the Embassy? I don't speak fluent Spanish so the Police are no help, I tried them, they hung up on me 2 times..LOL..Can you believe that!?? Glad it was not a home invasion, I'd be dead..
Please, some advice on this would be very helpful..
Thank You,
Joe