I don't know your financial situation, but if you're not ready to make a break, I'd take some pressure off the relationship by setting up another residence. It sounds like you're sitting on a powder keg, and you need to let things cool off. If he's making good money, I'd just ask for either your own place or for him to find a new place.
Don't lie to him, but if you still love him, just say so and that you love him enough to let go if that's the best thing for him.
Sorry all this is happening to you, but there are definitely worst things. Definitely, do not threaten him. Relationships often have an expiration date, and sometimes you need to acknowledge that things are beyond your control. Acceptance is a bitch. I've been there.
Also, successful men attract a lot of attention from women. I think there's a narcissism that can take over and they will start to flaunt their wealth. Women are just part of the equation. It seems to be built into the culture, so success may be more of a curse that a blessing. Only you know how flexible you can be, but I'd strongly recommend not being a cock block. If that's what he wants, so be it. You may need to end it just for mental sanity.
I think there are some protection for unwed couples. You'd need to check with a lawyer, but as a Gringa, I think your prospects are poor.
As for whatever venture he has going, that you're reluctant to give up future profits, not sure. Given his legal status, it sounds like an informal business, so again, it's going to be difficult.
Also, it depends a lot on how the father treats his child and wants to continue a relationship with the child.
Keep in mind that there are a lot of jaded people here. You could flee with the child, but Isuspect you have options.
Don't lie to him, but if you still love him, just say so and that you love him enough to let go if that's the best thing for him.
Sorry all this is happening to you, but there are definitely worst things. Definitely, do not threaten him. Relationships often have an expiration date, and sometimes you need to acknowledge that things are beyond your control. Acceptance is a bitch. I've been there.
Also, successful men attract a lot of attention from women. I think there's a narcissism that can take over and they will start to flaunt their wealth. Women are just part of the equation. It seems to be built into the culture, so success may be more of a curse that a blessing. Only you know how flexible you can be, but I'd strongly recommend not being a cock block. If that's what he wants, so be it. You may need to end it just for mental sanity.
I think there are some protection for unwed couples. You'd need to check with a lawyer, but as a Gringa, I think your prospects are poor.
As for whatever venture he has going, that you're reluctant to give up future profits, not sure. Given his legal status, it sounds like an informal business, so again, it's going to be difficult.
Also, it depends a lot on how the father treats his child and wants to continue a relationship with the child.
Keep in mind that there are a lot of jaded people here. You could flee with the child, but Isuspect you have options.