"You aren't back home, things are different...very different...from the cozy, well-run, orderly bureaucracy of the First World. "
Clearly you haven't lived in the US for a while, not so 'cozy, well-run and orderly' as in the past, my sense is that things are really starting to unravel. Long lines everywhere as all businesses lay off more and more people......
Thank you, J-D for your detailed information. Here's a brief response: we have researched the country extensively, and are attracted to the differences in culture and lifestyle and the sense of family and community. We're very intrigued with the 'middle part' as well as the pretty bits around the edges, where the fishies are.
We're very experienced at being tourists at beautiful beach destinations world-wide, but are looking to, as you say, LIVE there. So all of the advice is very appreciated.
This has been a great place to post my questions so far and I'm loving the answers. In summary, to date, y'all recommend:
* Learn to speak Spanish
* Rent, rent, rent before you buy
* Develop patience
* Appreciate the culture, and don't whine about 'back home'
* Drive defensively
* Protect your valuables, and don't be 'flashy' (no NJ Housewife-ishness)
* Read Lewis Caroll
* Tomorrow is another day - which will never come.
* Don't invest in imaginary real estate
* Be wary of advice handed out by grumpy expats.
* There ARE lots of horses in the DR
A great start! I'm loving hearing from you all, thanks!