Hi everyone,,,,
I was just reading through the posts abt bringing someone sucessfully to your country.... and it was suggested several times that if u found someone taking your time and getting to know him, living in the Dr for 6 months to get to know his lifestyle etc.....
ok heres my question,,,,,and please dont jump all over this in a neg way ,,i like this forum because we can ask questions ,,this crossed my mind so i am asking.......
At the resort i went to ,,they were very strict about employees whereabouts, they had to sign in and out ,had to leave work immediatly when finished their shift, and had to have notes detailing if they were taking anything with them when leaving the resort,(chambermaids included ,,, when u left little gifts), so there was not alot of opportunity to get to know ,spend time with my "friend"....... On his days off we met and did day trips,,,,, and this was a good experience,well except for the 24 people on the bus,,,,lol, so my question is ,,,, because he worked at this resort he could not be there ,,what if i stayed at another resort ,,would he be able to spend time there????? I have plans to go back ,,,but want to stay at the same resort as i was comfortable there,,,,location,people,etc, He wants to take the week off of work to spend with me but i do not necessarily want him to do this as he would not be able to really spend time with me any way ,,not being able to be there....
I was just reading through the posts abt bringing someone sucessfully to your country.... and it was suggested several times that if u found someone taking your time and getting to know him, living in the Dr for 6 months to get to know his lifestyle etc.....
ok heres my question,,,,,and please dont jump all over this in a neg way ,,i like this forum because we can ask questions ,,this crossed my mind so i am asking.......
At the resort i went to ,,they were very strict about employees whereabouts, they had to sign in and out ,had to leave work immediatly when finished their shift, and had to have notes detailing if they were taking anything with them when leaving the resort,(chambermaids included ,,, when u left little gifts), so there was not alot of opportunity to get to know ,spend time with my "friend"....... On his days off we met and did day trips,,,,, and this was a good experience,well except for the 24 people on the bus,,,,lol, so my question is ,,,, because he worked at this resort he could not be there ,,what if i stayed at another resort ,,would he be able to spend time there????? I have plans to go back ,,,but want to stay at the same resort as i was comfortable there,,,,location,people,etc, He wants to take the week off of work to spend with me but i do not necessarily want him to do this as he would not be able to really spend time with me any way ,,not being able to be there....