A Year Ago Today?

tflea

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Are you finding yourself doing the 'lip thing' yet to indicate what you want, where something is, or for someone to look at something in particular, for example?
Also, one day, the language thing will likely just click.
Ride on, enjoy, and remember why it was time to get outta Dodge and come here. Where else? Well, that's a different subject. Best to ya bud. Good posts, then and now.
 

belgiank

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If you are really done with that lawnmower...don't you dare to throw it downhills :bunny:

Great post and thanks for everything!

Peter and Hilde
 

Mason3000

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Great post. However your forgot one we quickly learned.

Manana does NOT mean tomorrow. It has no bearing on time other then to mean it will not happen today.
So "I will do it manana" from a Dominican means it won't happen today but when????????????????????

Bob K

Manana does not mean tomorrow it meand DEFINATELY not today. i.e. Ask the mechanic when the car wil be ready? "Manana"....could mean anywhere between tomorrow and next year.

Manana is also a polite way of saying "F you". "Hey, do you have that money I lent you?"....."Manana!"
 

belgiank

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I don't have a problem here with Manana, its usually the next day.
La prima hora on the other hand, I struggled a lot with that the first few months getting out of my bed at 7 am and then have to wait until somewhere in the afternoon for my delivery to arrive...
 

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When you bump into someone that has a great idea but needs your money..... RUN LIKE HECK!
 

cobraboy

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Today makes three years of my new life in the Dominican Republic. It's really hard to believe.

One major milestone: Mi esposa, Alida, got her US permanent residency along with a "travel visa" and made two trips to the US, one to FL and one to NY/Philly.

The learning curve has slowed down quite a lot.

Got burned by some expats, who went on to burn someone else.

Started 2 new businesses, looking at a fourth and maybe a fifth.

Motersickeled 12,000 miles on tours.

Made some great expat and future friends.

Confirmed that 95% of tourists don't hardly know squat about the DR, no matter how often they come down, but they don't know they don't know squat.

Missed the DR every trip back to the states...except for the food.

Found my passion for football has dropped a few notches.

Still don't miss television at all.

Still think Jarabacoa is the best town in the country, but know it's not for everybody.

My golf game still sucks. Buy stock in MaxFli, I prop up their stock with lost balls.

I finally had a GOOD piece of Dominican beef. And Meringue Dutchie was a witness (and participant.)

My Spanish still sucks, but I understand a LOT more. Very frustrating.

Torrents are my friend.

Going to an Aguilas game gives me a perma-grin.

Chip is a great guy and friend. The guy would do anything for someone with a need.

Dominican traffic no longer seems chaotic, but Jeez...driving in the states is now sooooo boring...

I'm practically on first name basis with the clerks @ EPS in Santiago.

Adopted a new puppy. Now have 3 dogs and two cats.

Still have sympathy for my wife; her taste in men is questionable at best.

I tried to be a good friend, even when it came back to bite me.

FINALLOY found a great vet in Santiago (thanks, HB! You rock!): Dr. Emmanuel Grullon @ Mundo Animal Clinica. He saved Toby's foot after another vet butchered the poor guy.

Sold the Xterra, bought a Montero Sport, like the Montero a lot.

Boiled platanos STILL taste like raw umber white craolas, but I love my mother-in-laws platanos maduros.:)

Although most Dominicans have a short memory and attention span, they hold a grudge forever.

Life is easier with the La Sirena in La Vega just 17 miles away.

Codetel DSL sucks here (worst ever this week.) I'd sell Mom CB to the Arabs for another viable option...

A solid inverter and battery system is critical!

The main roads have gotten MUCH better, but tires still take a beating here.

My avacodo tree is gonna explode this year!

We hate going into Santo Domingo.

So far so good. Let's see what Year 4 holds. I'm surprised I made it this long and far.

Soy Dominicano!
 
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Anastacio

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Great read, first time I've seen that thread. After year one you seemed to have more savvy than a tensa, great stuff. You seem to poo gold Cobra, if my plans backfire This time I'd like to be adopted please!
 

rice&beans

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<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/51418611@N05/5559754289/" title="serie_touche by bocachica64, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5223/5559754289_8a1776f672.jpg" width="500" height="377" alt="serie_touche" /></a>

12,000 miles biking...YIKES!!!!!!......how you've managed to hold it together, is beyond me......lol

<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/51418611@N05/5559755535/" title="374786293DKWnkN_fs by bocachica64, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5180/5559755535_1bfc1e59a9.jpg" width="500" height="375" alt="374786293DKWnkN_fs" /></a>

Thanx for sharing.......
 

dulce

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CB, Congradulations on your success in the DR. It was evident from your posts even before you moved to the DR that you did your homework. I do believe that you will be a success at whatever you choose to be successful at. You have that spirit and drive to do so.
As far as being Dominican, sorry but it ain't so. You have adjusted to "the Dominican way' very well but.... you nor any other expat will ever be Dominican. Dominicans used to tell me all the time when I lived there that "I knew the Dominican way". As much as I love the country, people and the culture I knew I would never BE a Dominicana. Maybe in my next live. It's just a figure of speech to say you understand the way of living.
Best wishes to you and your wife in the future in the DR or wherever you may choose to be.
 

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Glad you are doing well, on so many levels. Your edumacation on "things Dominican" has been greased by the fantastic person at your side--which you already know!!

Your business interests are very fine examples of how to do things: Go really slow and be cautious at every turn. None of this "Fools rush in...." stuff.

Congratulations again, and gimme a ring why doncha!! 4 will be great!!

HB
 

mountainannie

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We hate going into Santo Domingo.

So far so good. Let's see what Year 4 holds. I'm surprised I made it this long and far.

Soy Dominicano!

So for next year, let us see if we can work on this one...

Next time you HAVE to come to SD, come for the weekend, stay at the sweet little aparthotel in Gazcue or the Melia, come over for dinner, go to PriceSmart, spend a day with me at the Melia pool, go over to the English Library and stock up on books, take a carriage ride through the Zona at first light, go out with me to the National Theater or to a first run, FINE, movie, come on Sunday night to the Cuban Son concert, and perhaps even fit in a picnic in the Botanical Gardens.. ok.. that is a LONG weekend!!

I am a couple of years ahead of you.. and still only consider myself casi aplatanado..

but I did not have the good fortune to marry a fine Dominican!

congrats and thanks for sharing!
 

Chip

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.... you nor any other expat will ever be Dominican. Dominicans used to tell me all the time when I lived there that "I knew the Dominican way". As much as I love the country, people and the culture I knew I would never BE a Dominicana.

I've been married to my Dominican wife for almost 11 years now and we've spent almost 6 years here in the DR and I have honestly lost count how many times Dominicans have called me "Dominicano ya" unprovoked and with a smile. Not only that more than a few Dominicans in the the Orlando area have told me that as well. Since this happened long before my Spanish was intelligible so I think I can attribute it to the local's appreciation for my appreciation of their country, who knows.

Funny too is I've never had one Dominican tell me I could never be Dominican but I'm starting to lose count of the number of gringos who have told me that. :)
 
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Chip

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Robert

I'm glad things are going well for you guys.

You have adapted well and really see the great things the DR is all about. You and Alida are classy people and I'm glad you guys are my friends.

Also, on the last Caribetours trip Alida helped me tremendously with my Spanish to get me over a plateau that had me stuck for years and honestly think she could have a second career as a Spanish teacher or tutor to foreigners.
 

LTSteve

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Hi:

With out a doubt that is the best thread I have read re: life on this Isla loco.

Bien hecho y muchas gracias.

S
 

Chip

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Robert

I'm glad things are going well for you guys.

You have adapted well and really see the great things the DR is all about. You and Alida are classy people and I'm glad you guys are my friends.

Also, on the last Caribetours trip Alida helped me tremendously with my Spanish to get me over a plateau that had me stuck for years and honestly think she could have a second career as a Spanish teacher or tutor to foreigners.

Oops I meant to say "Moto Caribe" tour! :eek::eek::eek:
 

CaptnGlenn

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awesome post. well thought out and insightful. the pros and cons without embellishment, and telling it like it is. We need more like this on the site.