Now that is a damn shame, even on a blank identity website.
With respect, I would tend to disagree. The problem with wanting it all spelled out is that if it doesn't go
exactly as per the advice prescription, there can be a tendency to blame the advice givers. And in the DR when does it ever go
exactly as per some advice :cheeky:? If one is unprepared to deal with being accused of something you have not done, it is best to avoid the situations & people who are likely to facilitate such accusations - remember loads of tourists visit here with never a hint of problems. Some of the chicas are well-practiced in extortion & false accusation, so avoiding them might be a good idea. Or choosing chicas in a different tourist destination where the odds are less?
As long term residents here, there have been occasions when we have received a plaintive 'help' phone call from people caught up in situations like these. Some have been innocently caught up in situations a lot worse. Many of these never make it to DR1 of course, but if you search for threads on Stuart Ratner and Marianne Telfer you'll get the flavour of many years experience of helping those wrongfully jailed. Perhaps a recent one with some similarities to your situation (although not exactly the same) is here:
http://www.dr1.com/forums/north-coast/76061-expensive-photo-session-sosua.html
And in many of these situations, much of the outcome depends on how the accused presents himself. It is NOT good to panic, or to show fear or anger. It IS good to be quietly self-confident, unflappable and laidback. At the end of the day, the innocent-accused has to have the chutzpah not to allow themselves to be railroaded. Some folks can manage this (it is a skill foreign residents need, for example), but not everyone can.
And if you think your particular chica will be waiting to re-pressure you on your return, it might be wise to choose a different part of the DR.