Si pero......
You know, "the younger, the better"!!.
Welllllllll.....SOME "oldies" would say the opposite!.
You know, "the younger, the better"!!.
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AZB'doo where R U
Bronxboy, when you go fishing, you ask a fish how to be fished? So why ask a woman what she likes in a man? Just look at their actions and choices they make in life and you will have them figured out like an open book.
Women are so easy to figure out, thats why I am not married. I know the dangers involved before hand.
Just treat them indifferent and act like you don't need them, they will love you to death and never let go of you. Just show her who is the boss and she will worship you forever.
AZB
This is one secret that I do know.
Go somewhere where there is a hot looking gal. All the guys who stare and approach her will get rejected some times. Now play the part that you are not interested by not paying her any mind to her and she will definitley look in your direction.
I do this may times and it does work.
Ok I need to ask for those that won't. For years some of you guys have been going on and on about going out with beautiful women that don't need nor want money from you so why in the world would beautiful girls go out with aging men? Why? Don't they have young good looking Columbian men there that don't need to use viagra?
I'm trying to figure out what the attraction is, especially the ones that come from the so called well to do families and don't need money.
Don't take it personally guys I just need to ask because no one else will.
It's a good question and one I have stopped pondering a long time ago
Many Dominican and Colombian woman will tell you how "machista" and "celoso" local men are. Combine this with the "mummy's boy" up bringing and the fact that local men from all social levels play around, then you start to get the picture
Many woman here are exposed and influenced by 1st world cultures, trends, fashions etc etc. Inevitably they start to want something different, as many are sick and tired of the same old BS.
To survive and break into that "well to do" set, you need to be a little different and have a very good understanding of what makes it tick. As we already know, most expats will never assimilate to this level and 99% of tourists have no idea it exists.
Many things happen here, that unless your a local, you have no idea.
Example...
We are just finishing up an article on girls that have sponsors. These are girls that are sponsored by married Dominican guys that have money, families etc.
The girls exchange sex/companionship for gifts, cars, surgery, apartments, school fees, clothes, etc. Basically mistresses
I know a few girls with sponsors, but I had no idea how prevalent it was here.
I was introduced to 5 or 6, these are good looking girls, from middle class families, educated, going to university, you know the type. The type most guys that visit the DR dream about, but never get to talk to. The type you see plastered all over sites like BONCHE.com., Uepa.com etc.
They are pretty loyal to their sponsors and they know how to push them before it starts to get dangerous. Dangerous is when you stating threatening to tell the wife or family. As I was told, you don't do that, as you might just end up dead. Saying that, some of the wives knew their husbands had a mistress, but as long as it didn't effect home life, they accepted it.
I chatted with 2 girls that had over RD$200,000 of plastic surgery between them. New breasts for one and a butt lift for the other. Some had apartments, others new cars etc etc. They all had friends that had sponsors, some girls had 2 or 3 guys.
I have lived her a few years now and it was an eye opener for me.
Especially at how many girls had sponsors or had friends that had sponsors.
As one girl told me... "Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go to Casa de Campo in a Mercedes".
The perks of DR1
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I hope these remarks have answered your question, Anna. And AZB is right.
I find it hopeless speaking to some latin women when I get remarks like "Oh, you look young" or "Gee, you don't look your age" and then I get automatically dismissed.
Many latinas are out there looking for a father figure not only in behavior but also in looks. The rest just falls into place.
I find it hopeless speaking to some latin women when I get remarks like "Oh, you look young" or "Gee, you don't look your age" and then I get automatically dismissed.
Many latinas are out there looking for a father figure not only in behavior but also in looks. The rest just falls into place.
I don't know what dominicans call those chicas, but we call them the most beautiful girls in the world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:cheeky::cheeky::cheeky:
Dominicans call them sluts and well to do Dominicans also call them sluts yet they sleep with them. They (the sluts) are the discredited members of the well to do Dominicans and the heroines from their middle class or lower class status which is basically the same thing in the DR. They are hidden and are not seen. Robert could be a PI given he was able to interrogate these suspects. These sluts are professional players who are materially voracious and spiritually poor. They are the worst hypocrites and yes if they would DARE tell their man's wife the truth, their finale wouldn't be pretty.
I don't think AZB has been exposed enough to Colombian women to realize they are just as hypocritical as many Dominican women. In Latin America money, hypocrisy and gangsterism is idolized. While the Colombian gov't was assuring the Americans of combatting the drug trade, they were also complicit with them as told by Pablo Escobar's mistress now in Miami.
This hypocritical mindset runs from the Presidency down to the shoe shine boy. It is the natural progression of a society deprived of morals and its rampant in Latin America.
BTW, Colombian women sure do love plastic surgery.
I don't think AZB has been exposed enough to Colombian women to realize they are just as hypocritical as many Dominican women. In Latin America money, hypocrisy and gangsterism is idolized. While the Colombian gov't was assuring the Americans of combatting the drug trade, they were also complicit with them as told by Pablo Escobar's mistress now in Miami.
This hypocritical mindset runs from the Presidency down to the shoe shine boy. It is the natural progression of a society deprived of morals and its rampant in Latin America.
BTW, Colombian women sure do love plastic surgery.
It's truly sad. Girls wanting so desperately to be a part of high society that they are willing to ruin their reptutation in the interim. Once they've outgrown all usefulness (youth and beauty) and have wasted what ever little benefit they received they 'll waste away as yesterday's garbage. They are parasites useful to satisfy an immediate desire.
Contrasting that with the American mindset, their rugged individuality rewards the "pull it up by your bootstrap" mentality where simplicity and hardwork are key ingredients.
America is a contract society whereas the DR is a status one. Your status in the DR determines your lot.
Contrasting that with the American mindset, their rugged individuality rewards the "pull it up by your bootstrap" mentality where simplicity and hardwork are key ingredients.
America is a contract society whereas the DR is a status one. Your status in the DR determines your lot.
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You can substitute Colombian for many a nationality; including Dominican; in your statement, and nobody would argue. It's the same everywhere!
It's all the same "evreywhere" AZB...I remember growing up behind the Iron Courtain, all the best girls were into "valuta"...20 years later I see the same in the DR, Kolumbia, Manhattan, Kalifornia, Milan...it's no different...in the end you do pay for it one way or another...Kolumbia tickels you, Brazil does it for others, Asia has it's own followers yet I guess that one has to find it's own place before subscribing to a relationship...just a thought...
I was simply answering AnnaC's question. The girls just didn't jump into sack with me, I had to soften them up for 2 months on the net before I even landed in bogota. Now if anyone thinks he can go to colombia and meet these girls the same day and have them in the bed by night, has a big surprise coming. I had to assure these girls that I was looking for a serious girlfriend to settle down with, in colombia or maybe bring them back to DR with me.
Of course, it was all a lie and I had no intentions to being serious with anyone. I must admit, I almost fell in love with the last one.
AZB
Of course, it was all a lie and I had no intentions to being serious with anyone. I must admit, I almost fell in love with the last one.
AZB
Thank you for confirming what I always thought. These girls no matter where they are from are not there at your disposal to just have fun with. They were lead to believe that they would have a serious relationship with a foreign man who is differnet but ending up being lied and conned.
Oh yes that is different.
Thank you for confirming what I always thought. These girls no matter where they are from are not there at your disposal to just have fun with. They were lead to believe that they would have a serious relationship with a foreign man who is differnet but ending up being lied and conned.
Oh yes that is different.
don't we all lie and con one way or another in life ?
They were lead to believe that they would have a serious relationship with a foreign man who is differnet but ending up being lied and conned.
Oh yes that is different.
Oh anna don't tell me you are that slow to figure this out. What do you think I had been sincere with all the girls I have met in DR? If that were true I should have been married countless times by now.
Yes we con and lie to these girl to get them to align our way to serve our interest. isn't this what girls do to guy to get them to do what they want them to do? Girls use sex as tool or weapon to break men down and then to transform them to miguels and bobs of this world. We lie and sell them an illusion to get what we want out of them. I guess comes a time when we both get punished for our sins or maybe we do fall for the right one and actually settle down, or even end up divorced in the end.
Life goes on.
AZB
no, some of us just tell the truth and let the cards fall where they land. And suck it up if we get ourselves into hot water.
bob
No Anna is not slow .. she just does not believe the big talk.
Have a good time boys! But when you're 80 (and most of you are looking like you're 80 today in the club that you're trying to play), you either have to be Hugh Hefner or you're going to be real lonely.
A story from my life .. as a child, my grandfather treasured some things .. and he treasured my grandmother's birthday. He was old and bent, and when my grandmother's birthday came along, all of us grandchildren knew just which peach from which tree was meant for her birthday. That peach was treasured ... covered with a few leaves and opened for the sun, cosseted and cared for to reach optimum ripeness on a certain day. And on the morning of my grandmother's birthday, that peach was picked with the dewdrops still on it .. and carefully placed on a special plate with a special knife, with the dewdrops intact, so that it would be the first thing she saw when she woke up - This perfect peach with dewdrops still on it. Now, my grandfather taught us a few lessons with 'looking after the peach'! But my grandmother's face on the morning of her birthday, told us a few other lessons. The lessons of love - The lessons of sex.
Play, make games, pick the one with the longest legs or the biggest boob job .. you'll never replace the story of the peach unless you are willing to be true to yourselves.
Have a good time boys! But when you're 80 (and most of you are looking like you're 80 today in the club that you're trying to play), you either have to be Hugh Hefner or you're going to be real lonely.
A story from my life .. as a child, my grandfather treasured some things .. and he treasured my grandmother's birthday. He was old and bent, and when my grandmother's birthday came along, all of us grandchildren knew just which peach from which tree was meant for her birthday. That peach was treasured ... covered with a few leaves and opened for the sun, cosseted and cared for to reach optimum ripeness on a certain day. And on the morning of my grandmother's birthday, that peach was picked with the dewdrops still on it .. and carefully placed on a special plate with a special knife, with the dewdrops intact, so that it would be the first thing she saw when she woke up - This perfect peach with dewdrops still on it. Now, my grandfather taught us a few lessons with 'looking after the peach'! But my grandmother's face on the morning of her birthday, told us a few other lessons. The lessons of love - The lessons of sex.
Play, make games, pick the one with the longest legs or the biggest boob job .. you'll never replace the story of the peach unless you are willing to be true to yourselves.