Ok I need to ask for those that won't. For years some of you guys have been going on and on about going out with beautiful women that don't need nor want money from you so why in the world would beautiful girls go out with aging men? Why? Don't they have young good looking Columbian men there that don't need to use viagra?
I'm trying to figure out what the attraction is, especially the ones that come from the so called well to do families and don't need money.
Don't take it personally guys I just need to ask because no one else will.
It's a good question and one I have stopped pondering a long time ago
Many Dominican and Colombian woman will tell you how "machista" and "celoso" local men are. Combine this with the "mummy's boy" up bringing and the fact that local men from all social levels play around, then you start to get the picture
Many woman here are exposed and influenced by 1st world cultures, trends, fashions etc etc. Inevitably they start to want something different, as many are sick and tired of the same old BS.
To survive and break into that "well to do" set, you need to be a little different and have a very good understanding of what makes it tick. As we already know, most expats will never assimilate to this level and 99% of tourists have no idea it exists.
Many things happen here, that unless your a local, you have no idea.
Example...
We are just finishing up an article on girls that have sponsors. These are girls that are sponsored by married Dominican guys that have money, families etc.
The girls exchange sex/companionship for gifts, cars, surgery, apartments, school fees, clothes, etc. Basically mistresses
I know a few girls with sponsors, but I had no idea how prevalent it was here.
I was introduced to 5 or 6, these are good looking girls, from middle class families, educated, going to university, you know the type. The type most guys that visit the DR dream about, but never get to talk to. The type you see plastered all over sites like
BONCHE.com.,
Uepa.com etc.
They are pretty loyal to their sponsors and they know how to push them before it starts to get dangerous. Dangerous is when you stating threatening to tell the wife or family. As I was told, you don't do that, as you might just end up dead. Saying that, some of the wives knew their husbands had a mistress, but as long as it didn't effect home life, they accepted it.
I chatted with 2 girls that had over RD$200,000 of plastic surgery between them. New breasts for one and a butt lift for the other. Some had apartments, others new cars etc etc. They all had friends that had sponsors, some girls had 2 or 3 guys.
I have lived her a few years now and it was an eye opener for me.
Especially at how many girls had sponsors or had friends that had sponsors.
As one girl told me... "Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go to Casa de Campo in a Mercedes".
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