Go with the girl you know, starting over with a new here?? Cut your wrist now...better a slow death on your own rather then by somebody else...i've been trying to start over as well spite funds...i been weaning them out over the past 45 days from sites i meet them on..i meet over 20 now and have 2 steady girls, not one has asked for money or anything yet..yet!! So unless you have time on your hands or wish to maybe invest in a detective (seems the only way to see if they are true) go with the girl you know..we always start out as friends in most cases don't we??? Then hopefully your partner becomes your best friend, bam! Marry her...just my 2 cents from your experience as well..lets not do that bs ride again bro!! I know i want no part of that again myself..yes,same as you, not as bad though
anthony