serious advice
Bonjor Frenchie,
Welcome to the board. Unlike some of the others, I'll try to give you some serious advice and not judge you. First, I'm American, not Dominican and I only visited DR once - I cannot help you find a Chica Dominicana.
But I can offer advice based on my life experiences because I am divorced from a woman of a different culture and nationality than my own.
First, about your comment "in France, especially in Paris: people are individualist, they are only looking for themselves. " - This is true everywhere my friend, not only in Paris. There MUST be many nice girls compatible with you in France. Look harder!
Second, If your goal is REALLY marriage, then think first about finding a woman compatible to yourself, not about "exotic beauty" or that she must be from a certain country. Common sense tells me that there will be some Dominican girls you are compatible with and others not. In a relationship, the compatibility thing is the MOST IMPORTANT part.
Third, If you find a girl that is compatible with your personality, next the cultural differences must be overcome. Would you expect her to move to Paris and become French, or are you planning to move to DR and become Dominican? Think about it. You MUST understand Dominican culture and life very well and she MUST understand the same about France to decide.
Fourth, Do not trust what you feel when on vacation/holiday. It is not reality. When I visited DR, I stayed in an all-inclusive resort. That was not reality and does not in any way represent life in the DR. Knowing the resort workers does not make you know Dominican life!
If you are REALLY SERIOUS about going ahead with this goal, then I STRONGLY SUGGEST you find a way to live in the DR for at least a year and try to meet girls that speak French, have been to France and otherwise understand French culture and life.
Don't make the mistake I did. I married a girl that I was not really compatible with on a personal level and the cultural differences made it all the worse because we could not compromise. Divorce is VERY, VERY painful and its something to be avoided.
Adieu,
Randy (minerran)
Bonjor Frenchie,
Welcome to the board. Unlike some of the others, I'll try to give you some serious advice and not judge you. First, I'm American, not Dominican and I only visited DR once - I cannot help you find a Chica Dominicana.
But I can offer advice based on my life experiences because I am divorced from a woman of a different culture and nationality than my own.
First, about your comment "in France, especially in Paris: people are individualist, they are only looking for themselves. " - This is true everywhere my friend, not only in Paris. There MUST be many nice girls compatible with you in France. Look harder!
Second, If your goal is REALLY marriage, then think first about finding a woman compatible to yourself, not about "exotic beauty" or that she must be from a certain country. Common sense tells me that there will be some Dominican girls you are compatible with and others not. In a relationship, the compatibility thing is the MOST IMPORTANT part.
Third, If you find a girl that is compatible with your personality, next the cultural differences must be overcome. Would you expect her to move to Paris and become French, or are you planning to move to DR and become Dominican? Think about it. You MUST understand Dominican culture and life very well and she MUST understand the same about France to decide.
Fourth, Do not trust what you feel when on vacation/holiday. It is not reality. When I visited DR, I stayed in an all-inclusive resort. That was not reality and does not in any way represent life in the DR. Knowing the resort workers does not make you know Dominican life!
If you are REALLY SERIOUS about going ahead with this goal, then I STRONGLY SUGGEST you find a way to live in the DR for at least a year and try to meet girls that speak French, have been to France and otherwise understand French culture and life.
Don't make the mistake I did. I married a girl that I was not really compatible with on a personal level and the cultural differences made it all the worse because we could not compromise. Divorce is VERY, VERY painful and its something to be avoided.
Adieu,
Randy (minerran)
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