My interest actually was mostly not in the sankies themselves but in why women get attracted to men who don't do much for them and actually use them. Just the same way as some men get attracted to women who are able to use them and their money. I guess codependancy is something that makes people "easy to get."
You and cobraboy have to realize that MOST of the women that get sankiefied, go to DR
on vacation, without the slightest IDEA that this could happen to them...
Hey, I went the first time with a group from work, we were having a great time, we had the place almost to ourselves, and I was still fooled...for a little while...
After I came back and did some research I realized what could have happened, and even that didn't dampen my wishes to keep visiting the country...
Yes, most of the women that are preyed upon are older, overweight, with low self-esteem, whatever you want to call it...but I have also seen with my own eyes very pretty, slim, educated young girls get the same treatment...
For the boys, it's just a way out of poverty...realize that...without even going into the psychological aspect of it, and for the girls, the way they get treated at the beginning, it's something like they've never experienced before in their lives...simple as that...
Avrora...trust me...you don't stand a chance...you keep talking nonsense and you are gonna be the one that falls the hardest for one of your 'subjects'...
They actually DO a lot for them, for the short period of time the women spend in the resorts, they get something they might not have ever gotten otherwise in their lives...the bad part, the asking for money and all that, doesn't come until they are back in their own countries...Hopefully they read these stories here and learn something...but as Anna said...you don't learn until it happens to you...
cobraboy said:
For the same reason those with low self-esteem come to the DR for cheap sex. Everybody needs a little, and they can't get it at home...and wimminzes like all that "attention with an agenda", even when they convince themselves it is otherwise.
I have little sympathy for an adult that gets themselves into these situations.
What the heck are you talking about? Why do you think that women go there specifically for the cheap sex? What about the men??? MOST women have NO IDEA what goes on, and that's why they fall trap to the sankies...'cause if they KNEW it would be SO EASY to just get what they needed (cheap sex, as you put it) and then be done with the whole thing...
It seems to me you have little sympathy for anyone, trust me...I know a few guys that have been 'sankiettefied' also...although NONE would admit it publicly...especially not HERE...
MQ
